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Do your research. Read her reviews, her website and her social media (if she participates). That'll give you a good idea of what she will or won't do. Also, I'm not sure I understand you correctly---are you saying you'd inquire about a particular service even if she already stated she didn't provide it on her website? That would be a waste of time.
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Idiocy. A Cultural History- Patrick McDonagh Madness and Civilization-Michel Foucault The Female Malady. Women, Madness and English Culture 1830-1980.-Elaine Showalter Common Prostitutes and Ordinary Citizens. Commercial Sex in London, 1885-1960 -Julia Laite The Lost Sisterhoood. Prostitution in America 1900-1918-Ruth Rosen From Idiocy to Mental Deficiency. Historical perspectives on people with learning disabilities. ed. David Wright and Anne Digby. Critically Queer-Judith Butler Melancholy Gender/Refused Identification-Judith Butler Performing Disidentifications-Jose Esteban Munoz The Biopolitics of Settler Colonialism: Right Here, Right Now-Scott Lauria Morgensen Settler Homonationalism. Theorizing Settler Colonialism within Queer Modernities-Scott Lauria Morgensen Queer Theory and Native Studies. The Heteronormativity of Settler Colonialism- Andrea Smith Challenging Settler Colonialism in Contemporary Queer Politics: Settler Homonationalism, Pride Toronto, and Two-Spirit Subjectivities-Cameron Greensmith and Sulaimon Giwa
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It's illegal to ask about services. I don't answer illegal questions and this is in the client's best interest. One day, one of you is gonna get popped by LE and then perhaps you'll stop being so careless with these questions. In fact, as a client, I'd be concerned if the escort in question was answering these types of questions because it could be LE. Seriously though, every client is different and if you need me to guarantee a particular service before I've even met you, I'm not the escort for you anyway.
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Barter/Exchange? Does it happen?
VedaSloan replied to SexyMX127's topic in Ottawa Discussion - Escorts
I traded a free half hour in exchange for someone to hang two sets of curtains, a mirror and some other handy-work I couldn't do myself because the walls/ceiling are concrete. I needed the work done and trading my services for it was the easiest way to make it happen. But I've refused every barter offer a client has made, especially if that's their intro. It's rude and in the same category as rate negotiation, IMO. Plus, I have sweet benefits and massages are covered. I'm certainly not about to trade for something I can get for free. -
Gel extensions, medium length, almond shape (sometimes I do stilettos). I generally stick to solid colours rather than designs or crystals.
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Well it was fun but I am out
VedaSloan replied to a topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
If you're so concerned about catching HIV, maybe you should have your girlfriend get tested. -
What's with the $300 +/hr SP's
VedaSloan replied to jaydanger's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
Lemme break it down for you: Upscale incall location : $1200-1500/m (Toronto) Nice lingerie: $240 (how much the last lingerie set I bought cost) Professional photos: $350-$1000 every 4-6 months Website design: $200-$1000 Personal grooming (waxes, manicures): 1 wax every three weeks=$65; manicure: $30-60 (every two weeks) Time spent doing admin: between 10-15 hours a week--this includes updating and interacting on social media, answering emails, updating ads/website etc. Advertising: A base ad on EROS is $60; Turd charges something like $75 for three weeks. A burner phone for work: Ugh, I don't even know. MONEY. It costs MONEY. That's close to $2000 grand in expenses ON THE LOW END OF THINGS. Or did you think we all rolled out of bed perfectly coiffed, manicured, plucked, waxed with magically free incall spaces waiting for you to call us? On top of which, none of us need to justify our rates to you. Please crawl back under the rock from whence you came.- 81 replies
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This is one of those businesses where you have to learn to NEVER count on or rely on income until you have it in your hand. Guys cancel, things come up, etc etc. There are dry periods and tsunamis--you either learn to budget and manage your money or you will end up broke and seeing clients you'd otherwise ignore because you need money. This is why if you cancel last minute, you should pay a cancellation fee even if she doesn't ask for one--she can't fill that spot last minute. Just continue being a good client and move on when you want. You are under no obligation. As others have stated, you could also consider a retainer if you plan to continue seeing her and are still concerned about her wellbeing.
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I'm a vivacious demimondaine with a lust for life. I like adventure, trying new things and spending time with gentlemen who share the same joie de vivre. I'm 5'6 with pale, creamy skin, accented by dark brown eyes and jet black hair. I am a carnal provocateur--let me treat you like the king you are. Rates 45 min $160 1 hour $220 90 min $320 2 hours $400 Contact 416-460-2958 text only please. [email protected] Include your name, age and a little bit about yourself. xo Berlin
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I'll treat you the same whether you show up in a perfectly tailored suit or a clean t-shirt and jeans. That being said, a man looks better when his clothes fit (and are clean!!!) With that in mind, here are a few thing that make me cringe (although have no real bearing on how I'll treat you during a session): ill-fitting clothes--I want a little idea of what's under all that. I'm an ass woman personally, so I love when a man wears pants that fit. socks with sandals--WHY? JUST WHY? If your feet are going to be cold, don't wear sandals! fanny packs--unless you are my 75 year old grandmother, and your pack is filled with peppermint candies and crochet hooks, DON'T DO IT. That's it! Honestly though, keep it simple. You don't need to spend hundreds of dollars to look good. Just be clean and do your best to make sure your clothes fit. Oh and while some may frown on sweatpants, I'm good with sweatpants. Two words: dick print. http://www.buzzfeed.com/tracyclayton/dem-sweatpants-doe#.kpnvlgjJVX
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If it isn't mentioned, just go ahead and contact her. If you're really unsure, just ask. Privilege: never having to identify your race to a provider. The reason no white guy has ever said "hey I'm white, are you ok with that" is because whiteness is the invisible standard by which all difference is measured. It doesn't need to be stated because it's assumed. (*cough*socialjusticenerd*cough*)
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What music are you listening to right now?
VedaSloan replied to Meaghan McLeod's topic in Fun Threads
The new Rihanna album ANTI. I've got the track "Love on the Brain" on repeat. -
I'm Berlin, a quirky alt provider located in Toronto. I am blessed with incredibly pale, unblemished skin complemented by a few tattoos, ebony tresses and lips like ruby jewels. Curves in all the right places, a natural 38F bust and a smile that puts everyone at ease make me a top choice for companionship. I'm genuine, friendly and a people-pleaser. I want to make sure you leave satisfied. If time with a brainy, carnal fille de joie is what you're after, look no further. Rates 30 min--no longer available to new clients (return clients have this option at my discretion) 45 min $160 <--minimum booking for new clients 1 hour $220 1.5 hours $320 2 hours $400 3 hours $550 4 hours $700 Contact 416-460-2958 (text only for initial contact) Please introduce yourself. I don't answer one-word texts or illegal questions such as menu requests. Until we meet, Berlin
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I'm Berlin, a thirty-something vixen located in High Park, Toronto. If pale, dark-haired femme fatales are your thing, look no further. I'm 5'6, measuring 38F-34-38. I'm genuine, sweet and experienced in carnal pleasures. I have a Master's degree in a social sciences field, and am working on a PhD. I love chatting about anything and everything and am sure I'll have your attention while I take care of all your needs. RATES 30 min $120 60 min $220 90 min $320 120 min $400 Non-negotiable, thanks for understanding. Availability (Jan-Apr 2016) Sun 10am-10pm Mon 10am-10pm Tues 10am-1pm Wed N/A Thurs 10am-10pm Fri N/A Sat 10am-11pm Contact Call/text 416-460-2958. No blocked numbers. Please introduce yourself when texting. I do not answer one-word texts. Thanks for your patience. xo Berlin
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Age 4: was painting my nails in secret behind the couch using bright red nail polish and my mom's fancy placemats. I spilled all over the placemats. At least it wasn't the carpet? Age 15: making grilled cheese and need to melt butter. I stick the entire bar of butter with foil wrapper into the microwave. Microwave destroyed. Age 21: Reheat a Wendy's burger in the microwave with foil wrapper still on. Microwave two destroyed. Age 32: Making a smoothie in the blender. Blender gets jammed with fruit chunks in the bottom. Stick a fork in it while still on and spray smoothie and fruit chunks everywhere, in addition to destroying the fork. Blender, thankfully, survives. I may be doing a PhD, but you'd never know it given some of the dumb shit I do on the regular.
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Should marijuana be legalized and regulated?
VedaSloan replied to a topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
Yes, legalization will certainly help--but who does it help? It isn't the people who are already in prison on marijuana charges who don't get pardons; it isn't the people who are prevented from moving from the illegal drug trade to the now legal one because people with felony drug convictions aren't permitted to sell/grow weed (this is based off Colorado); and it definitely isn't the black people who will still get arrested on other bullshit charges. Also, to Pistol Pete who was concerned about stoned drivers, you know driving high isn't the same as driving drunk right? Different effects and all that? And Zeno, you said "take it out of the hands of the criminal element." What exactly do you think that means? It basically means they're fucked since you just took their livelihood away and if we go off Colorado's example, you have also prevented them from moving to the legal trade. I think fucked is a pretty good word to describe it.