VedaSloan

-use the gym in my building -learn how to work a spreadsheet (please don't laugh at my ineptitude!) -be more social

You might try asking a few ladies that you're interested in seeing if they would do an outcall to where you are. There are plenty of ladies who cater to those on the outskirts/outside of Ottawa.

Wooo, happy birthday Loneskater! Hope you had a good one!

What kind of bees make milk? BOOBIES! HAHAHAHAHA

Congrats hot stuff!

Woooooo! Congrats Em!

Congrats RG. Always read what you have to say and respect your opinion.

Congrats good Senator :) Which one are you again? The Older or the Younger :) Keep those posts a' comin'.

So, uh, who's gonna cum on my face? ;)

Look no further! You've found her :)

I'd kill for some female clients. I've only ever seen women as part of a couple and it's not quite the same (though it's still pretty hot!).

Bring it on! It feels so nice. But as fortunateone said, please be aware that you can't go licking my ass and then switch to licking my pussy and you're definitely not kissing me after licking my ass, no matter how clean I know it is down there (since after all, it is MY asshole, hahaha). Same goes for fingers. You can't stick a finger you just stuck up my ass inside my pussy. That is how you get a yeast infection, or worse. Just be aware guys. Sometimes in the heat of the moment you forget things, and I hate having to give you the "Don't give me a yeast infection" speech in the middle of fooling around.

I have to say I'm with the ladies who wrote this article. Where is MY sci-fi brothel? I would really really like to bone a young Captain Kirk, and get a little kinky with the Predator (I'm totally joking about that last one....or am I? ;) ) http://www.themarysue.com/sci-fi-brothel/

Nice one WIT, you even worked in a reference to my tattoo :) And thank you everyone. I know I don't always agree and sometimes I get a little carried away, but it's a new year, and new start :)

I just want to say I am lovin' this thread. Thanks Jabba :) CAPES FOR LIFE.

Has anyone else read "A Defense of Masochism" by Anita Phillips? I got it as a Christmas present and it is really quite excellent!

VENUS ENVY my friend. That's where I got my copy of Rent Girl. They are located downtown on the corner of Bank and Lisgar :)

I think we might have been reading the same thing!

I pay attention to both! The guy has to be attractive to me (and that can encompass many things beyond just physical appearances, including how he speaks--the verbal is the most important to me) and the woman can't have fake tits or make that annoying "uh uh uh" noise that they sometimes make. The faker it sounds the less into it I am. I dunno, I guess I'm picky?

I really had no idea when Kubrickfan asked me to start this thread that there would be so many interesting points and comments. I am glad I started this thread. In my original post I was definitely not thinking about healthcare or government protected rights. I mentioned the idea of sex therapy because I read somewhere (and it might have been here: http://www.tlc-trust.org.uk/advice/page6.html#comms) that some places have special needs facilities that specifically hook up patients with sex care therapists (or whatever you would like to call them) understanding that people with disabilities have sexual needs like everyone else. I am really REALLY uncomfortable with the notion of government regulation (this is just my personal opinion, but in my eyes the government is just a big thug and agree with Trudeau that the government has no business in the bedroom). I just (maybe idealistically) wish the world were more understanding and open-minded about sex and sexual needs. I want to live in a world where sex workers are respected and recommended when someone is having trouble finding sex for free. I want to be able to visit special needs facilities and be welcomed. I want care providers and nurses and home-care workers to say, "You should consider a sex worker!" I want women to realize that it's totally okay for them to have sexual needs and that seeing a sex worker could be an excellent way to meet those needs without having to hit up a bar or date some dude off of CL. I want wives to tell their husbands it's okay to see a sex worker if they themselves are not up for sex and that it doesn't mean that their partners don't love them. If anyone is interested in reading it, there is a really fabulous article written by Gayle Rubin that I swear by. It's called "Thinking Sex: Notes for a Radical Theory of the Politics of Sexuality." (you can read most of it here, on google books, though pages are missing http://books.google.ca/books?id=qNtNLohiboUC&pg=PA150&lpg=PA150&dq=gayle+rubin+thinking+sex+notes+for+a+radical+theory+of+the+politics+of+sexuality&source=bl&ots=wTOuGyLx9h&sig=dM-DwXYrmifBre4XUObtAhqgH9s&hl=en&sa=X&ei=ECT-TvPbGYne0QGBjKTHAg&sqi=2&ved=0CDwQ6AEwBA#v=onepage&q=gayle%20rubin%20thinking%20sex%20notes%20for%20a%20radical%20theory%20of%20the%20politics%20of%20sexuality&f=false)

Personally, I love a good cape and kinda wish they were the fashion du jour. I'd jump on the train.

Naughty boy! I think oldblueeyes might be onto something: But as far as ACTUAL constitutionally protected rights go, I am mostly in the dark. It's really not my area of expertise. That being said, the government doesn't have to be responsible for it necessarily in the way you've outlined. It might translate to something along the lines of sex therapy that could be included in insurance or something. Someone out there will get what I'm trying to say, LOL.

I find most of the guys in porn unattractive. That's my big issue. Thank god for James Deen (actor who appears frequently in my bdsm porn and has the cutest grin).

You may try every avenue there is, but if no one will fuck you what are you supposed to do? People with disabilities are a perfect example. Most of the world either pretends they don't exist, or pretends they're asexual. One of my clients (not on CERB) hadn't been touched (fucking touched! not a caress, not a brush, not a handshake) in over five years. But anyway, I wasn't arguing that prostitution should be decriminalized on that argument. I was just saying it's a shame that certain people can't get laid when they should be able to. You said it.