VedaSloan

When ISN'T there a lot of photoshopping done?

Too bad the risk level assumed by both parties (SP and client) isn't the same. It is a much bigger risk for me that you might be some psychopath who wants to rape, stalk, or kill me. This risk is much larger than the so-called risk you feel that I might out you or otherwise make your life miserable if I know your real name. And a second point, certainly, we are in the business of being discreet, but this only goes so far--such as not calling/texting unless specified, not greeting you in public if we happen to run into you and so forth. But it is not our job to make sure YOU don't get caught by your wife/SO/etc. So if you're worried about long-distance numbers showing up on your phone bill, perhaps you shouldn't see ladies from out of town.

Show me your ass!

They don't check or ask. It is my responsibility to make sure I am healthy, not theirs. Just as it is your responsibility to take care of your own health.

The important thing is that my retinas are now seared with that image.

I just celebrate Saturnalia. It's more fun anyway.

You know she won't actually ever meet you right? I sensed that you were posting this for a laugh, but I just wanted to check.

A friend of mine is hosting a Halloween party, so my partner and I are going as the Sizzler Sisters from Kids in the Hall. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0yGLTMsBuBc&feature=related

In light of the thread about the worst and best Bond films, how about a thread about all the super hot Bond women? Who's your favourite? Who do you think is the sexiest? If you need a reminder, here's the list! http://www.bondmovies.com/girls.shtml Personally, the sexiest Bond girl will always be Ursula Andress as Honey Ryder in Dr. No, but my overall favourite is Grace Jones playing Mayday in a View to a Kill. I just love Grace Jones way too much.

Sean Connery is the best Bond. My personal favourite Bond movies: From Russia With Love Goldfinger

Congratulations on the newest addition to your family!

I can only orgasm via clitoral stimulation, but you'll get me there quicker if you use your fingers as well.

While not having seen the documentary you mention, my video store experience tells me that there are only two films that I can think of that depict a man giving oral sex to a woman: In the Cut with Meg Ryan and Mark Ruffalo and Blue Valentine with Ryan Gosling and Michelle Williams. If anyone knows of any others, PM me! By appropriate, I just meant in general. It really wasn't that relevant to my question, I could have just asked: How/Where did you learn about sex? I personally don't consider any particular sex act "appropriate," in that one is better for a particular situation than another or that one style of sex is better or worse than another. I very much try not to participate in sexual hierarchies. What people like sexually are preferences, and I'm not going to vilify someone because they like a certain act that I personally would not engage in.

I'm in a course entitled Sex, Feminism and Globalization and I'm getting a lot of anti-porn, anti-bdsm feminism crammed down my throat. So my question to all the gents is this: Where did you learn what constituted acceptable sexual behaviour? Keep this quote in mind: "Pornography and its manifestations in popular culture are a major force shaping sexual behaviour in America. This is where men learn sexually appropriate behaviour and what women supposedly want sexually." Personally, I think that's utter horseshit. What about how your parents raised you, what you learned in school, what your friends told you, etc etc? Thoughts? While I agree that some pornography is problematic in that it portrays both sexes rather misleadingly (women are supposed to get wet instantly at the sight of a hard cock, guys are supposed to last forever because the only good sex is penetrative, etc) but rather than condemn the entire thing, if you have such an issue with how male and female sexuality is portrayed, why not try to make pornography more accurate? Probably because it's easier to just say, to hell with it, than to actually sit down and create some new porn. So guys, where'd you learn about sex?

I prefer incalls. I can control my environment that way.

I've never been comfortable with clowns. I agree with the general consensus that they're totally creepy. However, I do have a female friend who is totally turned on by clowns and wants to fuck someone in a clown costume.

Ooo a hint of noir--I really like that. Haha, maybe I should start using that as my tagline ?

ALI G!!!! Fo sho. Ok, Surf_Nazis_Must_Die--this ones for you Toxic Avenger OR Juliet

I've been more distracted by how stupid Ashton sounds when he's trying to sound like he knows what he's talking about.

Since I was one who used the words "redefine and reclaim" in my post, I'll try to answer this. Nobody said anything about a hierarchy or one being better than the other. Julia's post was just a nice way of saying that all women are beautiful regardless of size--that's it. My person dislike of the word spinner stems from my feeling that it's a rather degrading way to describe a thin/slender/petite person. Why not just say slender? Or thin? Why the need to define her size by how well she can be spun around on your cock?

First, I just want to say that I hope this doesn't come off as fishing for compliments, because that's not quite what I'm going for. Basically, I'm trying to get an idea of how I'm perceived by potential clientele and if I'm giving the impression that I am going for or if I'm off-base. Based on what you know of my advertising, and what I've said here in the forums, how do I come across to you? Be honest, but polite. I guess I'm just trying to get a sense of my own "image" and if how I think I'm portraying myself is how I'm actually coming across. Thanks very much in advance for any and all responses.

I love waking up when it's cold in the room and you're nice and toasty under the covers. I enjoy laying there for a bit before I rouse myself. I am NOT a morning person. Usually my cat is in the room sometime around 6-7am ish being a regular meow factory because she wants to be fed. I placate her with chin rubs and then roll over. I am never up that early--ever. I purposefully became a whore just so I could set my own schedule and never have to be up that early. I do my best not to schedule classes before 11:30am. Know your limitations right? Haha. Once I actually get out of bed, the first thing I do is take care of bodily function related business and then I brush my teeth. From there, I may or may not eat some kind of breakfast food, I may or may not shower (depends on how many times I hit the snooze button) and then I head to class (because that's usually why I'm getting up in the morning the first place--otherwise I tend to sleep all day and get up sometime mid-afternoon).

I love your take on the definition! I'm all about redefining and reclaiming.

I don't want to get into a nature vs nurture debate, but while I agree to some degree that part of it is biological, I think for the most part, how men feel about women, and the kind of relationships we are expected to see as normal, is completely socially constructed. But, if you're going to bring up examples from nature, let's look at the number of animals that are actually lifelong mates who stay sexually monogamous: only 3-5%! And actually, your biological theory doesn't really work since from an evolutionary standpoint, you want to spread your seed as much as possible. Instead, monogamy requires an individual to invest its entire reproductive potential on a single mate. Polyamory is actually more "natural" if you want to look at it from an evolutionary perspective. (I put natural in quotes because the whole concept of "natural" or "normal" sexual behaviour and relationships is entirely socially constructed).