VedaSloan

Honestly, I don't know why I'm bothering as trying to enlighten you as to why you're mistaken in your beliefs is like beating a dead horse. There are ALREADY laws in place to deal with trafficking and pimping. As you have already admitted yourself, you haven't done much reading and what you have read you admit is (likely) biased. Maybe that's a good sign that you don't have the full story and therefore are not well-versed enough in the situation to make an informed opinion.

First off, to clarify: I do not care about threads discussing various services, I do not care what language you use to describe body parts or services. My post was kind of a garbled rant; chalk it up to posting at 4am. What I found incredibly offensive were various posters brushing off Erin's concerns by saying she is "too sensitive." She's an adult who expressed her opinion. This is the sense of entitlement I am referring to; that since you disagree with her, it's ok to be condescending and dismissive. And to WIT, I feel that referring to this thread and threads like it as "client-bashing" is sensationalism at best. Some of the things I brought up were totally off-topic and I got a bit carried away, and I apologize for that--I certainly believe that jerkoff clients are in the minority, but some of them are also CERB posters. So yes, I know that some of them are, in fact, reading my rantings. I'd love to find a happy medium where the women are celebrated as human beings and not as objects (and I am not saying that that any of you do it intentionally or maliciously) and clients can still enjoy themselves.

OMG. Angela PM'd me that link for sinistersoles/shoes and I'm in heaven. SO MANY CHOICES. SO LITTLE MONEY.

Fuck all of you. I'm pushing the button. ;)

Keep 'em coming, you're my favourite Epicurean philosopher :)

Hahaha, I had a guy ask me how I prep once, and I said "I take a big shit."

We don't really call it anything at my house either. I usually just get grabbed by the hair and told to take off my clothes. Hmmm. Maybe I should hook up with November and her partner.....

Well you know what they say about making assumptions...;) If you want digits and your hands aren't clean and nails trimmed, you get to wear latex gloves. It is far too easy to get cut and then get an infection because some asshat doesn't know how to groom himself. And you would not believe the number of guys who try to do this. That, and a lot of guys like to jackhammer you with their fingers and yeah, it can be painful and more than unpleasant. Listen to what the lady tells you! As for DATY, there isn't much chance you'll cut me, and plus, I love good DATY. I can only orgasm via clitoral stimulation, so good DATY is a must in my books if you want to get me off.

I think I tend to agree with you, and I'd also add that generally men are socialized not to be emotional and to deny that part of themselves. So they're not talking about emotional issues with their male friends. And they're probably not opening up entirely to partners either (should they have them). Why else do most of us end up playing therapist? I also completely disagree with Megan. I can give myself great, satisfying orgasms, but that is nothing compared to doing it with someone else.

Thanks for the shout out Angela! I also pass for early 20's.

I know there are times when I'd like to walk away, but I know I can't. So I take a few days off and when I come back, I'm refreshed and good to go.

I have to agree with Kyra on this one. It's all about context. If I know that someone is using those words to try to degrade me, I'll let them know why I don't find that word degrading--or why it shouldn't be considered degrading. If I know they're using the word positively, I go with it. It's all about picking your battles.

Well, apparently I'm the only one who can't welcome you back in French, so I'll do it in Italian: Bentornato!

Various styles of condoms, two types of lube (one silicone based, one water-based), a mini-Hitachi wand, my favourite double ended dildo, some bobby pins, a set of earplugs, and whatever I'm reading (currently: Gravity's Rainbow by Thomas Pynchon).

I totally forgot about the latest update to Sherlock Holmes (the show, not the movie). I also have to second Jekyll, that was a great mini-series!

If there are no surprises, I don't see the problem.

Wishing you all the best! Be sure and stop in to visit us now and again :)

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If you want a cute small dog, personally, I'd go bischon frise or miniature schnauzer. I love poodles, but they get yippy when you go tiny. But you can't go wrong with a standard poodle. I grew up with one, and my parents got another just after I graduated high school. Incredibly smart, affectionate and generally awesome. Plus, no shedding!

Yay, a group for me! <3 you.

I'm not sure if other ladies can confirm/deny this, but I've heard that the larger your breasts, the less sensitive. I've got huge breasts, and they love to be played with, but they aren't all that sensitive.

If you must! POPSICLE PETE. Kyra sold me with that hilarious cartoon.

Speaking as a woman who LOVES anal sex, I can tell you, it is NOT PAINFUL if DONE PROPERLY. Done improperly and yeah, you're going to hurt. The key is foreplay and lots of lube. If you're not relaxed enough, your ass will clench up tighter than a Nun's kitty. My preferred method is to warm up like I would for anything else, lots of teasing and oral and then have the gent insert a finger while pleasuring me orally and go slowly. From there, I can usually cum pretty easily and it's great to go from the big O to anal penetration-again with lots of lube. And since you've just orgasmed, everything is nice and relaxed. Please don't ever ask your provider for Greek and then expect to get there and penetrate her ass immediately. It won't happen. Also, even with cleaning there is still *occasionally* a bit of mess, so if that is going to gross you out, anal isn't for you. Porn ruined that too--you don't get to see the guy whose job it is to wipe up anal leakage in between scenes.

Part of the amazing journey that being human is, is growing, and changing. If we stayed the same, how boring. One of the things I'm always saying to my partner is that I love him because he keeps me on my toes. He's never routine, or boring. He's always surprising me.

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