VedaSloan

Turn-ons: Intelligence. Professors (I wank off reading my lover's articles). Domination. Bondage. Neck nibbling/biting/kissing. Mischievous grins. Dirty talk. Accents. Hair pulling. Guys who make me laugh. Beards. Man-lines. Asses. Skate rats. Kissing. Creativity. Feeling your partners pulse via his cock from inside you. Not-so-secret glances.

Never ever keep this information from a potential sexual partner. If you plan to see an escort, she needs to know up front in order to make the best decision for her.

...And why you can't take "research" like it at face value. http://networkedblogs.com/jMl6k

I call bullshit on the asking for permission thing. Some of the ladies whose photos are posted are agency girls from Vancouver or Toronto and I somewhat doubt you're getting their permission. Just sayin'.

Money up front always. A reputable lady will never rip you off. If it ain't broke, don't fix it.

I generally give everyone the benefit of the doubt the first go around. I will admit, I'm wary of people who are too nice initially--it seems disingenuous to me. But on the whole, I'm one of those people who would do anything for the people close to me.

In a similar vein, though purely non-academic: Chester Brown's Paying for It is a graphic novel written by a client, from his POV.

Well when you start a "best of the BBW's" thread, maybe I'll believe the playfulness. As I've said to you in the past, those threads are objectifying and only show one type of woman. Like Nicolette, I no longer bother to read them. While they are not meant to be demeaning, it can be rather demeaning to see picture upon picture of women who are most definitely not like me. Luckily I have reached a place where I am confident in myself and comfortable with my body. But others may not be.

Alas, any hitmen I might know are probably back in the Old Country (my mother's family is from Naples).

I really don't care what sort of phone you use to contact me. If you don't have a cell, that's fine, you can call me from the payphone nearest me to get final directions. I don't give out my address/buzz until you're at the nearest intersection to me. So whether you call from a cell or payphone makes no difference to me, as long as the number isn't blocked. Just keep in mind, if I have no way of contacting you, don't get upset if something comes up/goes awry. And if you're more than 15 minutes late, you've lost your spot.

My introduction to Ke$ha came in my feminist political thought seminar actually. One of the debate topics was "Can Pink and Ke$ha be considered third-wave feminists"? And no, they can't. One of Ke$ha's songs is so transphobic it actually makes me ill to hear it.

Likewise! :)

Awww yeah. Keep 'em coming. I love your take-no-prisoners attitude!

I'd like to know who is searching for Kesha. So I can have them killed. ;)

I've never owned a car, but when I still lived at home, I drove an old 1987 GM van in beige. My mom put in a stereo and I drove that thing until the muffler died and you could hear me coming from three blocks away. I called it The Beast. Other than that, I don't plan on owning a car. I get around by bus/foot and that's fine by me.

I've always thought along the same lines as qwerty...bad pizza is still pizza. Conversely, I don't like it when a man starts out too fast when going down on me, by flicking his tongue as quickly as possible. I like to start out slow and work my way up to that sort of thing. Direct contact to the top of my clit is usually painful. My clit is like a little penis--the head is very sensitive and I prefer when you lick the shaft.

Hah, I like this cat. He's my kind of people. Or cat, I guess. Seriously though, I'm sure cats are all bilingual and they've just been keeping it on the downlow this whole time.

Wooooo. 2500 posts=too much time on my hands ;) I love you guys. Thanks for keeping CERB so awesome that I spend almost all of my time here.

Well, if Chris can work at U of O and she used to be a stripper and Shannon Bell can teach at York and do female ejaculation workshops at Lee's Palace, I figure I'm probably okay. But you never know.

Oh how I loved that movie as a child.

The only draw-back for me showing my face is going to be down the road when I want to get a job as a professor. It's true, I might not get hired if universities know of my sex worker past, but it's also true they might not care. Plus, I've always thought that if the university professor route didn't work out, I'd do social/outreach work and get a job with Elizabeth Fry or the ACO. I've never planned on having my own family (kids are soooo not for me) and my family already knows. So basically, I don't care if my face is out there.

I really don't get the whole sex scandal business. When Clinton got that blowjob my first reaction was, who cares? Does that change his ability to preside over the country? I doubt it. Personally, I'd feel a bit better if Harper got caught up in a sex scandal. That'd at least prove he's really human and not an evil robot.

You took the words right out of my mouth. I tried to give you rep points, but I have to spread them around first. Haha. I totally disagree with you here Sara. The fact that Malika doesn't put it out there that she's Wiccan has nothing to do with it. If a client came into my space and saw something that he found offensive and felt the need to tell me that I was trash and should die? I can tell you right now, he'd get a swift kick in the ass right out the door. Religion has nothing to do with it here. He could have been offended by ANY thing and it would still be an unacceptable response on his part. I've had clients say some racist things upon seeing photos of me posing with Bedouin in the Jordanian desert, I've had clients notice gay porn on my bookshelf and make comments. And in both instances, I most definitely spoke my mind. You had best believe that if you come into my space with bullshit comments, I'm going to interrupt your fantasy to tell you. But I have never had a client notice anything and then tell me that I was trash and should die because of it. It doesn't matter what he was reacting to, it was absolutely despicable of him to say so. And telling her that she should post it on her website? Ridiculous. Should I post on my website that I think Bedouin are totally cool and that I like to wank off to gay porn? Just to make sure I don't offend some potential client? I THINK NOT.