VedaSloan

That's so freakin' awesome! Major props to everyone.

As long as you're clean, I don't care. I'm a trooper though. Pube in my mouth? Pluck it out and keep on going. As for beards, I LOVE BEARDS. There is nothing sexier than having a man with a beard go down on you and then making out afterwards and the scent and taste of me is still in their beard.

I don't think it's online. And I haven't managed to actually find it in the paper version either. I was told it would be out in April, but I haven't seen it.

171. Inside jokes with your partner. 172. Tiger Tail ice cream (which I can't seem to get anymore!!) 173. Getting A's 174. the feeling I get when someone gives me props for giving lectures about sex work. 175. cherry Dr. Pepper (which, sadly, only exists in the US) 176. When you have sex with someone for the first time and you just click sexually, and they know all of your buttons. 177. rope bondage 178. the smell of old books

I always do a discreet STD check on clients. I do a visual check for warts, herpes sores, and crabs and I gently squeeze the base of the penis to empty the urethra--if any funky looking fluid comes out, that can be a sign of gonorrhea or chlamydia infection. It's not foolproof, obviously, but it's something.

Good luck to you!

Family Guy had some funny stuff in the early episodes, but it's currently a piece of shit. American Dad is WAY better in my opinion. That being said, South Park is better than both, and that's what I voted for. It was a tough choice to pick between Simpsons and South Park, though. My personal favourite animated shows are Monkey Dust (British, dark) and Home Movies (while not necessarily adult, it isn't really a kids show either).

I read a great book on the brothels in Nevada, called Brothel: Mustang Ranch and Its Women. The Mustang Ranch is closed now, and I can't say what the Bunny Ranch is like, but working in Nevada in general doesn't sound like a good time. I'm not sure what's changed since the book was printed (in 2001), but according to the book, ladies working at the Ranch were required to register with police and were subject to curfews and restricted from certain areas. Also, the working girls were confined to the premises of the Ranch (except for outdates with clients) for the duration of their stay, which could range from days to weeks, depending on their financial goals. And their actions within the brothel were strictly controlled as well (each room had an intercom system so that owners could eavesdrop on the women's negotiations to make sure they didn't steal money from the house, or trade sex for drugs). Management also conducted unannounced room searches. Here's hoping things have changed!

She is probably just busy, as mod said. I know that I sometimes take between 24-48 hours to reply to emails. And longer sometimes if it's during the school year.

This may sound stupid to the casual reader, but those of us on CERB I'm sure will understand. I have always wanted to do something to help people, make a difference etc and when I got into sex work, I really felt like I had found my place. Most people won't understand that, because they don't understand that not everyone has regular access to sex. But I've always thought that everyone should be able to get laid regardless of ability, social skills, etc. Truthfully, if everyone was getting laid and we didn't have such strange taboos and stigmas surrounding sex, we'd all be much happier.

Damn, I thought this was a link to the Capital Xtra article about the same thing, only I was interviewed for that article! Stigma is all about controlling women's sexuality!

You should write a recomendation for Soleil if you haven't already! She's a woman I'd like to meet myself :) I'm so glad that you were able to find someone as fabulous as her for your first experience. May you have many more!

Don't tease me now. This is some serious spank bank material.

I always feel like I talk too much with clients. It seems to happen with everyone, they come, we sit, we chat and the next thing you know, a half an hour has gone by. I always tell clients that I can get really involved in conversation, so at any point, feel free to stop me and take it to the bedroom. I try to keep an eye on my chat time, but it gets away from me often.

I've never really understood the stats thing myself. All mine tell you is that I've got a huge rack and hips like a boy, which, unless you're blind, you can't miss in the photos. You can probably see my rack from outer space.

Thanks everyone for your positive comments and encouragement! I'm just going to highlight on my site that I have no problem seeing dis/abled clients. Erin Additional Comments: It was written like that in one of my textbooks. I tried to find the article again, but I couldn't. And of course, I can't even remember the explanation for why they'd written it that way.

I have been thinking about doing a bit of specialization and focusing on the needs of dis/abled clients. A close friend of mine from high school has cerebral palsy and has a severe walking impairment. He was a virgin until he was 27. The unfortunate truth is that most people see the dis/abled as sexless, but they have needs like everyone else. So I'd like to be that open-minded individual who can help them reconnect with intimicy and learn to be sexual. Plus, I slept with my friend and it was some damn good sexin'. Also, I feel that for me, this would be a way to reconnect to sex in different ways. Consider someone who is deaf/blind: you talk using the Deafblind Manual Alphabet, using touch to communicate. I found this brilliant page on the subject: http://www.tlc-trust.org.uk/advice/page6.html I'm wondering if anyone knows of any forums relating to sex workers and dis/abled clients? Where might one advertise? Any ideas or suggestions appreciated! xx Erin

Just close your eyes and let me do my thing :) Also, I can't recall if I answered this thread already, so I'll update. I'd like to jump PistolPete and capitalman. Ideally together, but I'm a realist ;)

I'm the wettest, kinkiest 20-something I know. Maybe I'm just a mature 27. ;)

What I've never understood are the guys who PM or email and ask if you're available in the next half hour. If you want a short-notice appointment, it would make more sense to call, no? I mean, let's be honest, I'm not sitting in front of my laptop all day long.

Emphasis mine. We are all working in the SEX industry. What we do with one client, might not be for another client, but if a client refuses to see you because they're not comfortable with the image someone else painted of you in a reco, that is their problem, not yours. I'm absolutely not about to censor those who want to recommend me because some other client might not be impressed.

I disagree with some of the ladies who seem to find play by plays or recommendations that are more descriptive to be distasteful. You can hardly argue with them wanting to write about their amazing experience with as much description as possible. You want to convey the experience including the acts and how it made you feel. Since these are recommendations, and as such are all written from a positive point of view, I hardly see the issue. I write about personal sexual encounters that I have in detail on my blog, and I don't see anything wrong with it. And obviously stories about an erotic experience are going to eroticize the participants, you can hardly complain when you are in the business of being erotic. In regards to how they tell their tawdry tale, writing styles are subjective--I prefer some auteurs over others, as I'm sure everyone here has their own preferences.

For those SP's who charge extra for bbbj, it has nothing to do with the amount of work involved, the extra cost is because there is more risk involved.

You can always call me! But ET made an excellent suggestion: even just a phone call to a machine works wonders.

My rates are all inclusive as well and I do offer things like Greek and fetish activities. I do it this way because it's easier to remember what I charge, there is no confusion when guys book (you book an hour, you pay the hourly rate) and everybody has fun. At one point I did have two rates, but honestly, it just got confusing remembering who booked what.