VedaSloan

What disturbs me is that 1 in 4 women will be raped in their lifetime and when charges are laid and it is brought to court, HER sexual history is put on trial, as if it had any bearing on what happened.

I've only had one client who could do three (and once, four) in an hour.

Wrinkled, you did say those exact words, I quoted them above, as I will again here. I don't want this to turn hostile in any way, but I did read your posts.

Yeesh, we really DO think alike! Now if only the ACO stocked those ones. I'm a cheap 'ho who gets all her supplies from the Aids Committee closet of goodies. I've got Crowns, Lifestyles, Trojans, Durex and all in various sizes. As well as female condoms, which like Sam said, can be used on very large gents. For oral, if a client requests it covered, I use Hard Cover Lollypops condoms. They have the best flavours, which actually taste delicious.

I wasn't trying to say you were supporting Anita's position, you just made a comment about one type of rape being worse than the other, and frankly, that sort of comment downplays any rape that doesn't involve violence and downplays what happened to the individual. It's that sort of brush off comment, like, well, you COULD have been dragged into the bushes and attacked violently, but you weren't, so count your blessings.

That's why I love to see guys from CERB. You all realize how amazing we are and I think you're amazing in return.

Agency girls will often charge for things like extra shots because they give up half (or more) of their fee to the agency. They need to make up the difference. If you don't want to worry about getting charged for extra services, see an independent.

You got me. Personally, I wouldn't be able to get past the random capitalization and lack of punctuation, but I suppose penis's are less picky. LOL

This topic has hit very close to home for me, and so I will share something extremely personal because I think it's relevant to the topic. And it also speaks to the violence that anyone can experience, not just sex workers. In my third year of university, way before I became a sex worker, I was raped by an ex-boyfriend. And it took me almost four years before I admitted it was even rape and stopped blaming myself. I suffered from severe depression at the time, and was in a vulnerable spot and I didn't want to be alone. I called him and he refused to come over unless I agreed to sleep with him, and because I was so desperate for company, I agreed, even though I did not want to. When he got there, I told him I wasn't going to sleep with him and he got very irate. He said he wasn't leaving unless I slept with him because he "didn't come over for nothing." I continued to say no, that I wasn't up to it, and I started to cry. He unzipped his pants, laid back on my bed, and told me to "get on." I shook my head and he just stayed in the same position and repeated how he wasn't leaving until he got what he wanted. So I fucked him. And I cried the entire time. And I blamed myself for giving in. Rape doesn't need to be violent for it to be rape. I took the following from a rape survivor website: If your partner has sex with you under any of the following circumstances, it is rape/sexual assault: Physical violence i.e. hitting, choking Threats with weapons Continuing sexual activity after you have indicated you wish to stop. (It doesn't matter if you initially consented; people change their minds for a number of reasons all the time. Your wishes should be respected). Overpowering you with physical strength, pinning you down Threats to harm you or a third person Threats to your property/pets Threats to rape you if you don't give in -that basically says "let me rape you or I'll rape you" - sex gained under such a threat is rape. Depriving you of liberty until you acquiesce to a sexual demand; i.e. "you don't leave this room until I get what I want". Having sexual intercourse with you while you are sleeping or incapacitated by drugs/alcohol to the extent that you cannot give or withdraw consent Refusal to allow you to sleep until you give in to sexual demands (note: sleep deprivation is a recognized form of torture) Sexual activity after continuous pressure on you to have sex before you are ready, to perform acts you have stated you don't like; or just going ahead and doing it. Putting you in a position where you must engage in one form of sexual activity to prevent something "worse" from happening i.e. you have to engage in oral sex in order to avoid anal rape. It is important that you realize you do not have to have physically fought or even said "no" for an act to be regarded as sexual assault. Tears or other expression of discomfort are more than reasonable indicators that you do not want the sexual activity. Often, sexually violent partners do not actually seek consent, or if you do say no, it is not taken any notice of. Remember that submission is not the same as consent.

I disagree. Rape is rape is rape. It is awful no matter how it happens.

Anita, rape of men by women DOES happen. Force doesn't need to be used for it to be rape, I can attest to that myself. It's this kind of shameful, "well you're weak if you got raped by a woman" kind of thinking that makes men not want to report their rape. It's basically the equivalent to telling women that they deserved their rape because they were prostitutes or because they dressed provocatively. In this case, you're saying that the man couldn't have been raped solely because he was a man. And that is a fallacy of epic proportions.

I came to the thread thinking that it'd be about OUR top 10 fantasies. BOO. Here are mine, even though I don't want to jack the thread (but am going to anyway!), in no particular order: 1. street pro: pick me up, let's drive somewhere secluded and do it up. 2. rape/kidnap (I'm pretty heavy into bdsm in my personal life, but please note, it's consensual and the non-consensual bits are an act and I only do it with partners I've known for a long time who I explicitly trust) 3. professor/naughty student- intelligence is so hot and I'm a terrible student who needs some disciplining. 4. MMF-but with both men being dominant/aggressive 5. exhibitionist--put me on display for your friends in your living room 6. Yeah, I don't have any more fantasies, I'm sort of tapped out.

Well you better make time to come and see me. I'll make sure you're all prepared for a long week :) Or really worn out. Hahaha.

CUMQUAT! You are giving away all my techniques and secrets! Tsk tsk! And for the record, cum is just about the only way I get protein. Hahaha.

Wait, it's a long weekend? Wait, what day is it today? It's hard to keep track when your life is like a holiday all the time already. :twisted:

You make me wish I was a redhead!

Well, now I know just how you like it....:-D

I know I already replied to this thread, but I'm revising whatever I said before because I am in a period of horny like never before seen. I've been flicking one off twice a day for the past three or four days now.

I believe classes start on Sept 9th, but I have to pay my tuition by Sept. 4th. You'll really have to stop by. I haven't been in school for three years, I really will need your help with those examinations. :grin:

Oo that gave me a tingle down below :)

Mod you're the man! Thanks for doing this up :)

Damn! Now I just want Pete all for myself! I have this strange urge to wear you out and drain you dry. :P PS Did I mention I am totally overcome with lust right now? That was my polite way of saying that all I can think about right now is a good, long fuck. And then I found this. Really not helping.

Susie, you are awesome!

It's not listed on my website, but I can occasionally see gents up until 1230am during the week (incall). I'm available much later if you can do an outcall.

I think it's totally balls that you can't donate blood if you're a sex worker. If you test clean, shouldn't that be enough? Didn't mean to jack the thread, I think what you're doing is wonderful :)