VedaSloan

I think that it comes down to how insecure are you as a person? If you love someone, and you trust them and you know what they do for a living, then you should trust that they keep their work, as just work, and their love, only for you. If you ask yourself deep down, why it bothers you, it usually comes down to "I'm afraid she's going to leave me for some other guy who potentially is a better lover than me." Which is insecurity. Sex is a basic human right, regardless of how you feel about it. People crave sex, they want it, they desire it, or this profession wouldn't exist. Women who choose this profession should not be denied a partner in life because said partner can't handle her fucking other guys. It is a job. That's it. End of story. One of my current lovers occasionally sees a pro (you know, when the orgasmic awesomeness that is me is unavailable, bwahahaha). I have absolutely no problem with it. In fact, I was pissed last time because the Asian girl he called for, wasn't the Asian who showed up at his door, and he didn't want to make trouble or cause a scene. And I was all, you can't let them get away with that bait and switch shit. Haha. Put your foot down and fight for the Asian you called for!

Just because you believe serious relationships should be monogamous doesn't mean everyone else also subscribes to this view. Maybe this SP/MP already discussed their line of work with said brother, son, friend, etc. Personally, I'm not one to nose into anyone else's business. Who they choose to date/fuck/love is their own perogative. If I was truly a friend, I'd just be happy that they were happy.

Having spent most of my life in Owen Sound, I can safely say that there are no cool license plates.

Hahaha, yep, pathologically sexual.

I tend to lean more toward punk than goth, but growing up I was convinced I was going to be a forensic pathologist.

Angela Aurora said it best: little mouth action and you're good to go. I find that when I have gents who lose their erection, it's not the condom, it's usually them overthinking things and in that case, nothing I can do can fix it.

Tattoos are totally addicting. You get one and then you just want more! I wish guys would ask me to come dressed in my regular punk attire. I can break out my Evil Dead t shirt.

I don't get out in the community much. I tend to keep to myself a lot. But I'm trying to find a girlfriend. I've got two (male) lovers and like Paige, I need a woman to balance things out.

I can easily goth it up. As it is, I have five piercings and three tattoos, short black emo hair and pale skin. Plus, I totally have the punk attire to go with, since that's how I rock it when I'm not working. Mmmm Doc martens.

Well Mod, you're the best, keep up the hard work! Chat is great, whether or not peeps know I'm female :)

I'm so sad chat isn't working tonight. I was all geared up to get in there and spend the evening chatting with my homies and I was brutally rebuffed. I assume it's not just me and that it's just being a cack to all of us. And so, I will wait for the return of chat. yours, Erin

Well you could call them my boyfriend and my lover. :grin:

Thanks Michelle, that means a lot to me.

Oh man, I don't know how I forgot that one. Or even, "You remind me of the babe. What babe? The babe with the power." Labyrinth. I love you David Bowie.

I have been exceptionally fortunate to have both a primary and secondary partner who are aware of my choice of job, and who fully support and encourage me. As well, my mom knows about what I do and she also supports me. I'm out to everyone but my father and sister. I'm open in general about being an escort. I'm not ashamed of it and I think that it needs to be more out in the open and not this hush-hush thing that no one talks about. In my personal life, when I meet new people and they ask what I do, I tell them straight up. If they have a problem with my choice of work, they're not someone I want to be friends with in the first place.

Are you sure CERB is the culprit and not just your dirty mind? :wink:

Paige this is the greatest idea ever! My bf is an amateur filmmaker and could easily do up a script and take care of filming (he's got a camera and mic and shit). Mmm zombies.

"God, I hope whoever finds the note doesn't know it was me who wrote it. I'd shit twice and die. " Sixteen Candles "Stop yanking my wanky, the Donger need food." Sixteen Candles. "Dude, the Chinaman is not the issue here. Also, Chinaman is not the preferrred nomenclature. Asian-American, please." The Big Lebowski "Nice marmot." Lebowski "Smokey, you are entering a world of pain." Lebowski "There is something about a man who can lick his own back." Bio-Dome "Excuse much, rude or anything?" Buffy the Vampire Slayer "I love the smell of napalm in the morning!" Apocalypse Now. "What is your major malfunction?" Full Metal Jacket "Nobody puts Baby in the corner." Dirty Dancing (cheesiest line ever).

I do love all you poly folk! Now I just wish there were more poly women in Ottawa. Where are you hiding??

Why did I wait so long to check out this thread??? This site is awesome. Though, it just illustrated for me how freaky I really am. And gave names to some positions I had been crediting to myself. Hahaha. ie http://www.sexinfo101.com/pieinthesky.shtml OK Pie in the Sky I called the Pretzel Lick. My bf loves this one. http://www.sexinfo101.com/sp_legglider.shtml the Leg Glider I simply referred to as the Scissor. Oh and I would love to try 68--> http://www.sexinfo101.com/sp_sixtyeight.shtml Mmmm so much experimenting to come!

I know, I love that I can just surf videos, or just surf wikipedia. Or surf everything, if I'm feeling sassy (or especially bored). Stumbleupon is my best friend. Hahaha. You know you have no life when....

stumbleupon my friends. The most excellent toolbar one can download. Though beware, if you're already prone to timewasting, this won't help.

Taking away points for a post just feels like another way to flame someone if their opinion differs from yours.

Interesting request Dummpy. I'm a pisces, but born in '83. Good luck on your search!

Sweet, I'm soo getting some of these. I use a Diva Cup usually, which is a silicone cup you insert, it's similar to this instead cup, except that the cup isn't soft and you can't have sex with it in.