Seymour

We should not be so quick to give latteur a hard ride. It is obvious he's new at this. It also appears English is not his first language and the site in all English, yet he made the important decision to join. The good thing is he's taken the advice and is performing his 'research'. Good for you latteur - enjoy your 'date' .

The problem with addiction is that you eventually need your fix again. I needed my fix of Veronica and decided to indulge again last night. It is always pleasant when everything aligns: - no hassles in booking - no red lights to slow you down - no nonsense to put you in a bad mood It is awesome spending time with someone I can connect with outside the bedroom. Like our first meeting, it was great being in the company of a fine looking lady sharing a few laughs, life experiences and stories before indulging in more intimate sensual pleasures. She is sweet, seductive, adventurous and sharing. Flowing kisses, tender caresses and shower play. I prefer her being 20 minutes away instead of 2 hours. Until the next time we can still share our HNIC ritual - Go Habs! :mrgreen:

All this talk of ladies, masks, mystery, members (well mostly my member) and massage. Maybe, just maybe.. ;-)

Gentlemen, put your hands together for <insert name of favorite dancer here> cue music . . . . . dancer walks onto stage....music starts.... enjoy the show. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zp202iGCZBA&feature=channel

I thought I'd start a new thread on this topic of flirting. Within the theater of hobbying, yes there is an element of flirting. It is about awakening the senses, about getting the mojo going. I find lately that I'm flirting with ladies everywhere. At the coffee shop, in the supermarket, at the store when I'm purchasing gifts to take on my dates. At my favorite bar, of course I have a favorite waitress and yes, upon my arrival, she greets me with a big kiss. She is always impeccable. Sorry, almost sounds like I'm recommending her :-D. Ok the question for all members here is how much (or little) do you flirt outside the hobby?

That's for sure. :-D

Tonight I am a man of few words. Just watch the video and listen to the sweet sounds. I've been working on my healing process. :-) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q59NeeAjInc

I see both sides to the coin here. This is a somewhat sensitive topic. When I first started posting, I said right off the bat that I am here to have fun while respecting the ladies. It comes up in conversation - the review topic. If I'm going to post a review or recommendation, then it is always based on how much detail the lady is ok with being revealed. Some are ok with more detail being divulged , others less. So again, I try to provide adequate detail to describe an experience while respecting the wishes and privacy of the lady - and emphasize to the reader - YMMV. Likewise, when a lady feels a certain level of trust and discloses personal information about real name, age, relationships, other - well - I always let her know this stays between us - not everything is meant to be shared.

I met with this lovely lady a couple nights ago at her upscale downtown location. She has a sweet demeanour and is warm and friendly. She also has that sweet french canadian accent that drives me wild. Being the gentleman that I am, I had to tell her this. She greeted me wearing a lovely evening dress and heels..mmmm with soft kisses. While chatting about her first trip to the Capital and her hometown of Montreal - I discovered we have similar tastes in sports (hockey, Go HABS) and french canadian movies and music. Could it be that after all my experiences and french kissing my belles that I am now french Canadian? Mais Oui ;-) We shared some wine while continuing to learn a little more about each other. On her invitation we made our way to her bedroom. We continued to share kisses. We proceeded to help each other get more comfortable and continued the sensual, arousal of senses, body and mind. We are at ease with each other, strangers becoming lovers at first sight after what seems like eternity apart. Her eyes, her softness, her smile, her warm breath, her tongue, her accent, all combined, transforming me into a hopeless, helpless addict wanting more. More and more of lovely sweet Veronica. On her request I am not sharing explicit details of our time together but let me say that the time shared was mutually enjoyed. Overall, having seen Veronica once, I will describe my time as a TRUE girl friend experience. She is my dream girl, kind, caring, funny, witty, drop dead gorgeous - the kind of girl I am naturally attracted to!!! and would seriously fall for and take home to meet the family. I am still mesmerized from our time together. Will I repeat YESSS!!! (Like you had to ask)!! :wink: Help me for I can't get you out of my mind Veronica.. My name is Seymour and I am an addict. Is that so wrong? Special thanks to the FrenchKiss staff (Sydney, Alex) for being so accommodating and professional in their customer service. P.S. This is my addiction - effects of this drug may vary on another user!

I am reminded of a commercial on one of the adult movie channels - the sound byte goes like this: "relax, it's just sex". That may be true on the movie channel - not so much in real life. After all - we are here to enrich and be enriched, on many levels. Seymour out.

I'm thinking of going the other way on this one... undressing for Halloween...:wink:

This is all well and good but remember - if the search does not show results and if no one provides meaningful feedback to a question, then perhaps it is time to take one for the team.

As the other members have stated, it will be very difficult to find in that price range. There are many tips here on the board so that when you decide to spend, you will more than likely have a good experience.

Not sure, but this gives me something else to discuss with my lawyer friend at my next visit. :neutral: Not sure if I'll have an answer to report back...but we'll see. Don't hold me to it.

S-A my friend, do not beat yourself up. You are not alone in this situation. Human nature is such that when we find something we like, we want to hang onto it. While it might also feel ok to 'play the field' I think secretly we just want to find that one person that is the dream - you know lady in the streets but freak in the bed. I think what you are experiencing is normal - yes - we do forge relationships with these lovely ladies and yes we do look forward to seeing them and being with them. It works both ways. We are human and after a few visits I'm sure most ladies will definitely look forward to seeing a repeat versus someone new. Whether we recognize it or not, there is a huge emotional component to this activity. Take some solace in the fact that perhaps the time shared with the lady in question was somehow inspirational and helped her in a dark hour. The business is not for everyone. Not everyone has an exit strategy. Perhaps too - there was something said or done to perhaps help her in moving on and realizing her dreams. Let me stop rambling - and conclude by saying something I said in another thread...nothing is forever we all have to move on - sometimes it sucks but that's life. My best advice for you is to find a way to remember the good times and wish the lady well and find a way to move on. I do not have all the answers but I know a thing or two about having to deal with loss. Personally - my latest escapades have been emotionally awakening and I find too that I have a few questions about emotions, relationships and goals. Yes - sometimes the emotional defenses do get penetrated as I recently found out. <I'm not going to hijack your thread with my story>.

Well - we won't be getting a play by play on this one - but if it did happen, there must be some really spent people after Ulix's party. Once again - party on!!

Amen brother - no one needs drama!

Watch the emoticons guys - CMJ is a Massage only outfit. As hot and sexy as the ladies of CMJ are, this is not on the menu.

It happened to me. Ran into a lady while I was out with friends - friends that do not know about the hobby. It was cool because we both just sort of visually acknowledged each other and carried on. The next time I saw her we had a good laugh over it. Now - the first scenario you describe is unique. If you saw the lady in one studio and promised her you'd return and never did - now you've run into her somewhere else, yes awkward.

Great thread, great points. I have flirted with the idea..ok who am I kidding, I'm flirting with the idea right now! . . . . .

I thought I'd start a new thread. Many years ago when I would frequent the clubs, I was introduced to certain types of music, specific sounds - some of which have grown on me over the years. One song that I have fond memories of - thanks to the ladies that were sitting in my lap at the time is this one by the scorpions: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VmjZDmWEUzk&feature=related If you have a favorite tune or three ;-) and would like to share with the other members, please post.

PM sent on CL topic.

Black magic, hypnosis, and domination...sounds like opportunities for discovery. :wink:

Well, because you gents are such good talent scouts and are always looking for new talent, I thought I'd ask this question. Have you ever thought about getting it on with a co-worker - while in the office? Have you done it in the past or are just about to? In my situation there are two, one of which I kissed recently at an off site function. She didn't run away and I didn't get slapped. 8) That's as far as it got..for now. What are your experiences?

As long as you are shaking your head in a good way, I guess it was worth it. :-D