Seymour

Hi all, I'm new to the board but not the hobby. Joker - this scenario is not clear cut. To help guide you, remember three questions: 1) Why do I hobby? 2) What am I really after (fantasy, fulfillment, enrichment, a matrimonial relationship ...)? 3) Can I really quit? The answers to these will vary from individual to individual. You will need to perform some serious soul searching my friend. In my personal experience, I have two SPs that 'fell' for me - in one case, the first time we met she politely told me that she didn't want to go through with the session because she thought we had something much more lasting. This girl gave me her real name and her private cell number. THAT FREAKED ME OUT!!! It is flattering but came as a HUGE surprise! I still speak with her, but not as a client - we talked about that first night and what could be and I helped her realize that we are on different paths - she may be ready for a long term stable 'normal relationship', but I'm not. (It is nothing about her, this girl is attractive, charming, sweet, and has a good head on her shoulders - I'm just in a space where I don't want to entertain a 'normal relationship' right now). Perhaps I was better equipped to handle this situation from a previous event from my past. About a year and a half ago the shoe was on the other foot - I fell for an SP. Like you, got emotionally attached and was meeting/chatting with her when she was not working. The scary thing about this is I was trying to rescue this young lady - and she didn't want to be rescued. She had a plan and she stuck to it. Joker, do you get jealous? I could not bear to think about who, when, where this woman was meeting. Hence the urge to 'rescue' her. But credit to her - she was able to accomplish her goal and move on. If she were a deceptive person I could be in serious financial ruin today. Thankfully I'm not. All this to say, tread carefully.

Indie Male Duo - dummpy and incognito - web site, pix, video, including live webcam shows and chat coming soon. :) Seriously, congrats to all involved.

This is an interesting thread. My take on the subject is similar to Dummpy's and Pistolpete's.

Just wanted to echo KIH's posting - that communication is key so that you don't step over any boundaries. The other stuff (shower, light role playing, lotions etc), I see more as an enhancement of the adventure. Like everything else everyone has their preferences - personally I'm not into anything aggressive, so rough roleplaying, domination etc are not my bag. I suppose for me then, that would be kinky.

Imagine: In that case - Please allow me to quote from the Beatles....<hope this does not come across corny> :D Imagine there's no heaven It's easy if you try No hell below us Above us only sky Imagine all the people Living for today... You may say I'm a dreamer But I'm not the only one I hope someday you'll join us And the world will be as one Go get em Pete! :cool:

I concur - both look quite similar.

I like the crazy, naked, fun part. Not so much the live audience part.

Firsts!!! First time poster, reference provider (here's a new acronym - RP) and other. Earlier in the week, Ava and I exchanged messages. To my surprise she responded quite quickly, indicating her availability for the week. We agreed on the date and time of our 'nooner'. (My first) We met at her incall place and exchanged pleasantries. It is always a concern when meeting someone new, especially for the first time - the vibe, the chemistry, the unfolding of events. Within minutes of our introductions I was led to Ava's inner chamber. Took care of business and got down to business. On my request, she wore a special outfit - which was fun to 'unwrap' - which revealed my prize for the hour. Eva is the complete package! Fun, Witt, beauty and seductive charm - all this on a first date! We took the show to center stage, and proceeded to mutually tease/seduce/satisfy each other with various body parts including but not limited to lips, tongues, fingers, noses, toes. Explicit details of which will remain between Ava and I. My word the hour went fast. In additional conversation, Ava invited me to clean up - and then surprised me by offering to get in the shower with me. Before doing so, she was adjusting her hair while looking in the mirror, so I'm looking at her from the side and my word.....the side profile of her form with her hands up, standing on one leg and the other bent ever so slightly at the knee is to DIE for!!! So we're in the shower together (another first)! More conversation and more playtime. It is so easy to get carried away with the attraction this lovely woman oozes. While getting dressed we talked about the potential of this recommendation - she talked me into writing one, to which I promised to be discreet with the intimate details. Today I made a friend, we discovered each other and will be looking forward to our future adventures together. More dress up adventures with my play date Ava to follow. ;) P.S - I'm giving 10's across the board because I believe we clicked, did not have any awkward moments and had good chemistry - all this based on mutual respect.