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Ok, the headline says the lady's name is Crystal, the text says her name is Amber, and when I called, I got transferred to voice mail which mentions her name is Stephanie. Is this an agency with different girls?

Ok, so here's the situation as it stands right now: Just to refresh everyone's memory, my girlfriend has ongoing issues with depression and adult ADD. Things were going smoothly until the second weekend of October. We spent some real quality time with one another, but even then, there were warning signs that her disorders were acting up again... not having much energy, tired, she felt her brain was slowing down etc.. She also mentioned that she thought her medications weren't working so well anymore. To compound all this, she was feeling very stressed out about some upcoming midterms. I gave her some space over the next while and agreed not to see her so she could focus on her studies. We still kept in contact through text and phone calls. Anyway, I got a text from her about a week ago in the middle of the night, saying that she wished that the midterms would just be over with, asked me how I was and said she missed me, complete with heart symbols etc.. That was the last time I've heard from her. I fear this is a repeat of her initial disappearing act, which prompted me to start this thread. Anyway, I've sent numerous texts and a voicemail, trying my best to remain as supportive as possible. I told her that I was worried about her, and asked her more than once to let me know if she was ok, but no response from her. I also said that I could empathize with the stress/pressure she must have been under, and that I would always be there for her if she needed to talk about anything. I also told her how I feel when she stops communicating with me out of the blue... not only do I fear for her safety, but I also feel a bit hurt and neglected since I can't seem to make sense of her seemingly aberrant behavior. I've always felt that a positive relationship is one where there is open communication on both sides. However, that is not the case here. I feel that she should have given me some form of acknowledgement at the very least, even if it was only a sentence. Not knowing what's going on makes the situation worse on my end. Anyway, I asked her to let me know if she still wanted to do something fun last Friday, and if not, I would leave her be until she felt she was ready to communicate again. As I write this, I still have not heard from her. Does anyone have any advice, what I could do, what might be going on with her, how to proceed etc.? I'm at a loss... Thanks!

Has anyone ever come across the error message 'requested video is not available in your area/ country'? It seems to happen quite a bit, and is rather annoying which is why I chose to download TOR to get around that. Only problem is, the browser disables plug ins, so now I'm back to square one. Does anyone know how to watch a video using a TOR browser?

I'd say a good compromise is to be a decent guy who respects women, but won't take any shit, either. I just experienced that firsthand... my new girlfriend was going through a bit of a rough patch last week / weekend and basically disappeared for about four days with no contact. When I sent texts asking what was up etc, I got no response, but when I took the bull by the horns and threatened to end it, I got a reply within 30 seconds! lol. Now of course, I didn't plan that, and admittedly it was not the best course of action on my part as it showcased my own insecurities coming to the surface, but on a very primal level it does yield results at times.

Believe me, I've been there. I know that feeling all too well. The most important thing to remember is to never lose hope. I never thought this would happen, and yet here I am. So, there's always a chance... you can always win. Keep the faith... it'll happen for you, too - probably when you least expect it!

That was what I thought as well... the thing is, I've been in a few pretty messed up relationships. Then, when something happens that reminds you of the past, you may begin to think that you're still living in it. In any case, I decided to back peddle a bit and incorporate the good advice given here into my approach (thank-you all for contributing!) I sent her a text saying that I was hurt by the fact that I hadn't heard from her, but also that in the heat of the moment, I'd said some things on voice mail which I shouldn't have. Anyway, I still hadn't heard from her by late last night, so I decided to send one final text. To my surprise, she called me crying, saying that she had been completely stressed out about college starting up again, lack of sleep, the mess in her apartment, weight issues etc.. Personally I think she's gorgeous - perfectly proportioned IMHO, but I have a hard time convincing her of that for some reason. In any case, we've resolved everything and are still together. :) I just wish she would have talked to me about what was bothering her instead of disappearing. I feel positive communication is key in any relationship as it will help to avoid any misunderstandings, such as what happened in this situation.

Yes I know in which building she works. This past Tuesday, we had started making plans for Friday, so I asked her if she wanted me to meet her outside the building. She said no, and that she wanted to go home first etc, and freshen up and then meet downtown later. That's when she said she would let me know by Thursday, which of course did not happen.

Unfortunately, I do not have her work contact info. Her cell number is the only one I have.

Well, it wasn't quite like that.... The last contact we had was on Wednesday afternoon, and things were great. The thing I liked about our conversations was that we purposely kept them short and sweet, so that it wouldn't be constant texting or whatever. So, Thursday I didn't hear from her during the day, so I waited until the evening to contact her, just to see how her day was and to get an update on our plans for Friday - never heard back. Friday we were supposed to go out on a date in the evening after she finished work. I sent her a text around 1:00 in the afternoon to see if we were still on, and didn't get a reply. Now to be fair, she was at work so I wouldn't have expected a text back right away or anything. However, if there was a problem with her phone she still had access to e-mail to give me a heads up if necessary. I knew she got off at 4:30, and we were planning on seeing a movie around 6:45. So I waited until about 5:10 and sent another text, but no reply or e-mail. I live just outside the city, so I need a bit of a commute time, and I was getting a little worried since she had said previously she would be in touch on Thursday to firm up plans, which never happened. Now it was almost time for our date and still nothing... Now, maybe I'm completely wrong here, but I still feel she should have made some effort to contact me, as I feel it is common courtesy - especially since I had changed my schedule around a bit to accommodate our plans later on in the evening. Just my opinion...

Agreed that a few dates don't spell a long term commitment. However, she did agree to be my girlfriend, and while everything is iffy at the start, over 48 hours with no contact is a bit much. At the very least I feel I'm owed an explanation. That said, barring a tragic accident (which seems unlikely btw) there is no reason in the world why she couldn't at least have had the courtesy to return my text/calls. Needless to say, I didn't sleep much last night. It's more the principle of it which irks me, and the fact that it could be something more sinister...

So, here's an update on my situation - not really what I was expecting, but the truth nonetheless. A couple of weeks ago, I met this incredible civilian woman and we hit it off immediately. Our first meeting for coffee turned into a five and a half hour date with me almost going home with her at the end of the night. We became a couple almost immediately and shared a fair amount of personal info with one another. I've been to her place, and she's been to mine even though we didn't go all the way yet. We kept in touch every day and were looking forward to seeing one another on Friday (e.g. yesterday). So here's where things start going south... On Wednesday afternoon we were texting little love notes back and forth as usual, and everything was good. Since then, she hasn't returned my texts or phone calls, and she missed our date yesterday. It's like she's literally dropped off the face of the planet... bizarre. Some of my friends feel that I got played by someone who was just looking to get out on the town for free. While it's certainly possible, I have a hard time buying it. I consider myself a fairly good judge of character, and there was nothing odd or amiss about her that I could tell. She was just a very genuine, down to earth girl IMO. She works part time for the government and is going back to university as well. She even sent me her class schedule so we could find time to see one another in between! If she was really intent on taking me for a ride so to speak, she could have accomplished the same thing without putting in anywhere near the effort that she did. The whole thing makes no sense... one minute I have this hot new girlfriend, and the next I'm left wondering wtf just happened and imagining all kinds of nightmare scenerios. Any thoughts on this? Thanks...

I'm writing this to let you all know that I have decided to make a gracious exit from the world of hobbying I have enjoyed for over fifteen years. I have met an incredible civilian woman and want to see where things go... it looks very promising! Another factor in my decision has also been the impending arrival of new laws governing the industry as a whole. When taken together, I feel this is the right time to step aside. That said, I will be keeping my account open and will continue to check in from time to time. The only difference is I will no longer be an active member in terms of seeing ladies and writing recommendations. I want to take this opportunity to thank everyone for the privilege of having been allowed to be a member of this fine caring, compassionate and upstanding community. I am leaving with a treasure trove of experiences and memories which I will always cherish. My decision leaves me with mixed emotions still, as Cerb is more than just a community... For me, it's more of an 'extended family' of sorts and I will miss the interaction and banter I have had with all of you, many of whom I consider friends. The future is uncertain by its very nature, and I may decide to return sooner rather than later. But for right now, I feel this is the right decision for me. Again, from the bottom of my heart - thank you, everyone! P.S. I will also be posting this message on another board which I am a member of.

I haven't had the chance to see her yet, but from what I've heard she's 100% legit and on my 'to do' list ;)

I've been remiss in not posting this sooner, but I had the pleasure of meeting Sarah for the first time last Friday. She's a great girl with an all natural body with curves in all the right places! ;) She is very easy to talk with and very accommodating in all respects. As for the more sensual activities we engaged in, I'll leave that up to your imagination *lol*... suffice to say, meeting Sarah was a great stress reliever and the perfect way to kick start a weekend!

My handle comes from a KISS song from the 70's - "Calling Doctor Love". I thought it was rather fitting!

The Conservatives will lose the next election and C-36 will be struck down. It's just a matter of time...

That's an incredible accomplishment... keep it up! *lol* ;)

Happy Birthday, mrnice... have a good one!

I had the pleasure of meeting Michelle for the first time last night. She's still relatively new to all this, but I'm hoping she decides to stick around for awhile. Michelle is a very down to earth, caring person and I enjoyed getting to know her a bit. She's a BBW with an all natural body type, which I love. She's also very accommodating, offers a safe GFE experience and is open to trying new things. Michelle was a lot of fun and I'm looking forward to seeing her again soon.

Some elite courtesans do offer extended packages such as monthly rates, although from what I have seen, this is the exception not the rule.

Sad, but true... :(

One thing I will say about all of this, is that it has brought to light how flawed our justice system is. In other words, if the SCC renders a decision, then forthcoming laws by government should be made to follow that ruling - not disregarded only to have similarly bad laws enacted so that we are forced to endure the same harms all over again. There should be some clause that lets the SCC intervene in a situation such as this, instead of going through another court challenge to have them (eventually) struck down (again). Additional Comments: Let's not forget we're talking about the Harper Conservatives here... they probably still believe the earth is flat too...

Yes, but either way by then it will be too late. C-36 will be the new law, and who knows how long it will be before it is struck down?

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Does anyone have Hannah's number? I looked for her ad on BP but couldn't find it.