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Hope everyone ends 2011 with a bang!

I think the OP was saying that the SP was offering a great deal on service, and it was simply his way of expressing his appreciation.

*lol*... How did I miss that one??

I just noticed that the OP has been a member since 2006!

Happy b-day!

In light of recent events, I feel compelled to write this message. There has been much talk lately about the increasing prevalence of negative commentary and in-fighting amongst members of Cerb. My history as a hobbyist dates back approximately thirteen years. In that time I've had the pleasure of meeting many incredible ladies, as well as corresponding with many like minded individuals through forums such as these. I have spent a fair amount of time in cities such as Toronto, and as such I am also a member of other boards. Without going into specifics, I can tell you that they have had, and some continue to have their share of problems. In part, that is why I chose to distance myself from them and join the respected Cerb community. Lately, I have begun to feel that those difficulties endemic to other boards have slowly filtered into our own. I would hope that we as a community will take it upon ourselves not to allow this to transpire. Some of the most endearing features of Cerb include acceptance, non-jugement, unity and community. In some sense of the word, Cerb may even be considered a loosely knit family of sorts, albeit (at times) a bit dysfunctional. This is really the situation I'd like to avoid. Our collective intellect, knowledge and sense of togetherness surely merits more than being reduced to petty squabbling. We ourselves are not the enemy. If anything, we should be rallying together to support initiatves such as the constitutional challenge and other such pursuits that hopefully will strengthen the foothold and legitimacy of the adult entertainment industry. Let us be mindful of the fact that we are here for one another. Cerb is not an entity in and of itself; Rather, it is WE who are Cerb. We make up our community and it is we who are ultimately the authors of our success or misfortune. As the dawning of a new year approaches, let's take it upon ourselves to reflect and resolve to rise up and overcome these issues, in order that we may all benefit the community as a whole. To do otherwise would be a disservice to ourselves and the industry we make up and support. Thank you for reading.

Happy New Year to all!

Exactly, Erin. I wish more people had this mindset.

Wow... no kidding?!?! She must buy a lot from there...

I'll be working both New Year's Eve and New Year's Day (nature of my occupation). Therefore, I'll have to wait until after the holidays to indulge.

I thought I'd start this thread as a change of pace from the usual topics. Personally, I prefer the Momentum Infinite card since I get actual cash back instead of points. This way I'm not limited to specific rewards, and can spend my windfall on anything I want, like seeing Cerb's lovely ladies, for instance!

As far as being competitive goes, I feel that there is really no need for it whatsoever. First, there is room for everyone on this board. Indeed, it's Cerb's hallmark feature - acceptance, non-judgement and the sharing of information is what makes it great. In terms of the ladies, every single one of you are unique and bring your own special personality, attributes and knowledge to the community. I could never compare one to another; it just wouldn't be fair, or right for that matter. I feel we are blessed to have all of you here, and the sum total of Cerb is infinitely greater than all of its parts. That said, I have witnessed many ladies here go above and beyond in their efforts to help a new SP get acquainted with the board, offer business tips etc, and even recommend other ladies to clients! This demonstrates true class, in my opinion. In the end, the track record of the ladies speaks for itself, so there is no need for pettiness or cattiness at all. It's really a moot point when we remember why we're all here in the first place, which is to enhance and enrich our community. Therefore, I prefer to focus on the positive.

To be honest, I've never really noticed. But then again, I only pay attention to the ladies!

And here I thought this thread was going to be about music! *lol*

I've noticed that the problems started after Yahoo upgraded their e-mail to the new system. I'm wondering if there is something I could download, such as a plug-in that would get everything back on track. I've had the account for thirteen years, and this is the first time I've ever had any issues. It's rather annoying to say the least.

Welcome to Cerb!

Every so often when I log in to check my e-mail, all my e-mails are blank, and I can't read them or send a new e-mail to someone else. What gives, and is there a fix?

Right back at you... have a good one!

Count me in, too - just as long as I'm not working at the time!

That's awesome; I'd say that blows a gaping hole into a lot of people's stereotypical view of the porn industry and its performers... thanks for this!

Wow... I'd never even heard of such a thing until now. Hopefully you can get it straightened out!

Happy b -day... hope you had a good one!

They're hot!

My New Year's resolution is to have as much sex as humanly possible. Any ladies willing to help me out with this one?? *lol*

Pete, I certainly understand the reasons behind your decision. However, I hope you'll reconsider. You're a valued member of the community who, through your insightful and often humorous posts offers a wealth of knowledge to this community. I feel Cerb will not be the same without your input. I can't help but feel saddened by this news.