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Unfortunately, the reputable agencies such as Park Avenue, Diamond Dates, Mature Escorts and Gentlemen's Club have all closed in the past five years. As for the ones that remain, I don't know much about them. I think Evette's is still around, but it's under new management. The majority of them seem a bit sketchy, to be honest.

Thanks everyone, I called her tonight and she is back to her old self again... it seems that everything's cool now and the relationship is back on track! *fingers crossed*

I've been dating my new girlfriend for a few weeks now. Last night we were lying in bed and she brought up the fact that she had a "dark side". I didn't know what she meant by that, and asked her to expand on it. She told me that a few years ago, she was down on her luck and worked as an escort to pay for her tuition and help her family out. I felt good about the fact that she felt comfortable enough with me to divulge that information. I feel that a relationship should be based on trust through honesty and full disclosure. So, when she asked me if I had anything in my past to share, I decided to open up to her about the fact that I saw escorts. I admit that in most cases, it may be a mistake to tell something like this to a civilian woman, simply because in most cases they have preconceived notions and might not understand. However, given that she had been involved with the hobby herself as an SP, I felt that there was a good chance that she would be able to see my point of view on the subject. Furthermore, I felt it was a way to clear the air early on by eliminating any hidden secrets. Also, since she asked, I felt that if I didn't come clean, I would in fact be lying to her. However, she proceeded to give me a moral lecture, which I thought was akin to the pot calling the kettle black so to speak. She justified it by saying that her involvement was based solely on dire financial need, whereas mine was based on self gratification. She also had a problem with the fact that I felt that "it was ok to see escorts". I told her that I could judge her as well, but I wouldn't since it wasn't right. Walk a mile in someone else's shoes, and then talk the talk. Well, she wasn't having any of it, and was basically going to break up with me right there and then. To top it off, she said that it was early on in the relationship and she wasn't sure she could resolve my transgression in her own mind. She also said that if she had found out a year from now, she would have been able to forgive me. I asked her why, and she replied that at that point, she would have been madly in love with me and thus it wouldn't have mattered. Excuse me, but that sounds like a crock of shit. I told her that she would basically be agreeing to forgive a one year old lie, and an entire relationship based on one. Yet, right here, right now, she wasn't willing to forgive and accept the fact that I told her about my hobbying because I truly cared about her, and couldn't bear to be deceitful. As I said to her, how can you have a meaningful relationship without being honest? I came this close to losing her, but she's agreed (tentatively) to give me another chance. Now I'm scared that she might change her mind again and end it. Does anyone have any advice on how I can smooth things over?? Thanks.

Well it's about bloody well time! lol. I'm as good as there...

I reset my password and it seems to have fixed the problem. *fingers crossed*

No, my caps lock wasn't on. I've never had this happen before; I'm more concerned that perhaps I had a virus and my account has been stolen from me or something.

I tried to get into my yahoo account to check my mail, and it keeps saying "invalid password". Is anyone else having this problem?

Very true... here's my story: I spent many years tanning in the summers and going down south, lying on the beach in the winters. I'm paying the price for it now, as I have had numerous pre-cancerous skin lesions which required removal by a dermatologist. Suffice to say that I'm regretting it now.

That's exactly it. Additional Comments: Not if she cuts it off first! :eek:

Well, I can always take her out to dinner after the coffee! lol. Seriously, though, I wanted something non commital at first since I'm not sure how she feels about me. In other words, let's say worst case scenerio - she's not into me. In that case, a coffee date would be easier to sit through than "the dinner". Going out for coffee is a casual way of gauging her interest so to speak, and if there's a spark, then the sky's the limit.

That's what I was afraid of... *gulp!*

So, I finally had the opportunity to ask Sara out. During my haircut, I discovered that the blonde girl who cut my hair last time (i.e. - the one who said I should ask Sara out in the first place) is actually one of Sara's roommates. That got me thinking that there may have been something behind the blonde girl's comments, as women tend to talk about everything with one another. So, at the end of the appointment as I was paying, I casually asked Sara if she'd like to go out for a coffee sometime. Her response was "Sure, when you come in for your next haircut, we'll talk about it" I said "great!" and left it at that. I think it's a bit odd that Sara would want to wait almost a month before even discussing going out. I'm wondering if it wasn't just a polite way to brush off my advances. Hard to tell what she was thinking...

I prefer alabaster skin... Not a fan of tanning at all.

I read in the paper today that the north end of Halifax will become the next destination point, as the shipyard workers will want to live nearby. I've already noticed some improvements in the Hydrostone Market area. It's a lot nicer now than what it was.

I was there back in 1997... just missed the US spring break which kind of sucked, but a good time nonetheless.

Guess I can say goodbye to cheap property taxes... Additional Comments: In theory, yes. However, I work in healthcare and our raises are capped at 1% per year for the time being. It's a pittance!

I used to have a large system as well with the huge Cerwin Vega Speakers etc, but I've gotten away from that, at least in part due to the space requirement, annoying ugly cables and so forth. Now I just want something that sounds good, looks good and doesn't take up a lot of room.

Yes, the main reason I was considering a wave system is that I have an extensive cd collection, and I like the system's sleek appearance and small footprint.

I'm thinking of buying a Bose Wave Music System with a cd changer for my bedroom. The total cash outlay would be somewhere in the vicinity of $1000.00 I've heard conflicting reports concerning reviews, pretty much everything from people extolling the system's virtues to it being called a piece of junk. I'm just wondering if it's worth the price. Does anyone have any first hand experience with it? Thanks.

I agree... it's the right thing to do.

Yes. The lady in question did get back in touch with me and said she had some personal matters to attend to, which I completely understand. She also apologized for any inconvenience, which was very nice of her. I believe she's taking some time off at the moment, but I look forward to seeing her at some point in the future.

I agree... I much prefer outcalls since they are 100% legal. I tend to shy away from incalls for this reason, (the legality aspect) - even if it's a lady I really want to see. Hopefully, the SPs that visit Halifax from away will consider this, as providing "incalls only" may limit the amount of bookings they get.

I had the opportunity to see Chelsea this evening and I'm glad I did. I'm surprised that no one has posted a review of her before. She's very friendly and down to earth - the conversation flowed easily. Chelsea is all natural, which I love, and has a very pretty face. She's the girl next door with a bit of a wild side. GFE experience - I will repeat.

Well said... I call SPs from a land line as well.