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My wife and I have had numerous couples massages and have loved it. We were looking for something sexy to do and we were both turned on by being with another woman. It has always worked out fantastic.

I think Biff raises a fair point. When we have gotten couples massages, we have one female masseuse and it works because we both enjoy erotic interaction with females. If your partner is not into that, you may want to consider a male and female masseuse combo

I sent you a pm with more details, but in a nutshell, your partner will be able to participate and get stimulated to the degree she wants. It can be all about you or she can be a full participant (this would be my recommendation). The only caveat I would have is that this only works if she really wants to do it and gets into it. No matter how much it may turn her on to think of you getting aroused by someone else, I would worry she may get jealous or bored if she is not an active part of the scenario. My wife and I do this regularly, have a blast, but she is a full partner

I went to hedo a couple years ago. It is a huge party with some sex and nudity tossed in. All said above is still true, although not as much open sex and orgies (the open sex and orgy folks are, I think, hitting the swingers resorts more) But... It is one helluva party. I was exhausted by the end of the week. Another place you may want to consider,if you are going w a woman, is Desire in cancun. It is a fair bit nicer than hedo ( a solid 5 star resort) and a much sexier vibe. There is still lots of partying there but more open sexuality. I would highly recommend it if you are looking for more open sex. The only caveat is that it is couples only so lots of group sex and swapping but not a lot of a guy picking up another woman.

Definitely a swingers club (been there a few times) but the owner supplements by letting it be used for massages during the day

I think Megan makes an excellent point. Sex workers often fill important voids in relationships and allow otherwise happy and healthy marriages continue. I think it is truly sad when I see a coule that is otherwise completely compatible (like each other, good parents, fun....) break up because theyba sexually incompatible and one of them seeks sex outside the relationship If more couples could see this sex workers would indeed be seen as therapists rather than home wreckers and given the respect they deserve

I notice CBC also wrote an article on Ms Babcock's death. There are a few things in the CBC version that, to me, belied a much more progressive view of sex work. First and most obviously, they used to term sex worker, not prostitute. Secondly, there was no mention of suicide; media very rarely indicates whether a death is suicide unless the family wants it mentioned or the media wants to sensationalize the story (which I suspect is the case in star story). Third, and most significantly I believe, the CBC story was written like any other obituary celebrating the accomplishments of an important figure in society. Although I did not know her at all, to me the media-worthy element of this story is that Canada has lost a powerful and passionate voice for a serious social inequity issue. I wonder if her death will serve as a catalyst for others to publicly take up her causes

Does anyone know where Malibu, who had worked at CMJ, is now?

I wonder if one of the local swing clubs might be better for you. We have been to a couple. No pressure to swing and lots of live porn

We have not been to paradise, but my wife and I have had couples massage at Cmj. As long as your wife is really into it and you find a masseuse who definitely likes being w couples, it is a fantastic experience and very casual and laid back. I assume paradise would be similar

One thing I should have mentioned when I asked what it was like. My wife and I would both be going. We have gone to pigale a few times and a couple of clubs in Montreal that are definitely on the classier side. How would this place compare Posted via Mobile Device

I am going to tremblant in December. Anyone know of a decent SC there. If so, what's it like? Posted via Mobile Device

This is great advice from everyone. Thanks. I guess now we'll have to figure out where we want to go with this. Exciting

My wife and I have been talking about trying an escort but we had a few questions we thought people on the forum could help us with. First, and foremost, could anyone recommend an escort who enjoys couples? We would like a woman who - genuinely likes being with both women and men (ie. likes to play with both, not just the guy) - has a friendly, positive attitude Secondly, how would we go about doing this? We have gone to erotic massages together, but never an escort, so we really don't know how it works Thanks

great advice guys. Thanks.

I have some old friends coming into town who would likely want to check out strip club or two. Which on the Ottawa/Gatineau area would be best suited for a few guys looking for upscale club?

My wife and I have gone to Pigale's a few times. We have had private dances, and found it worked best when we asked on the the waitresses to suggest a dancer who likes to perform for couples -- some are not into it and for a couple's private dance, attitude is everything

My wife and I are very interested in trying a couple's erotic massage. We have heard Club Madeline Jae is very good -- high quality, welcoming. We are a bit nervous as this is a first for us. Any advice??