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Cap, there is no "due respect" in calling it a stupid question. Say what you want to say, man, but why insult the question? Your actual response was very informative, and not something that I knew about.

I think there are a lot of choices available to you, MA. Check out the Schedules forum for who's available, and the Recommendations forum for other members' comments on the various providers.

I haven't been personally, but there are a lot of positive comments on TERB for Steeles Royal Massage (just google the name).

Has anyone been able to e-mail Hannia's recently? I just tried, using the e-mail address on their website, and immediately received a "mailbox unavailable" autoreply. I can always pick up the phone, but yes, I'm lazy... :-)

YMMV at CMJ, but there is a definite upper limit... :-)

Anita Blonde is my favourite porn star: http://www.keezmovies.com/398345 However, my preferred style is POV...the best way to imagine it's all happening to you (while still on your own, that is). Sadly, I haven't found any POV scenes done by Anita Blonde yet! Here's a little twist on the question for the guys: who's your favourite male star? I don't mean being attracted to him (not that there's anything wrong with that), but which male stars do you find provide the quality performance? While the porn actress(es) is certainly the more popular one(s) in the scene, a poor male performance can ruin the whole thing...I'm a fan of Peter North's work myself, even though he's getting a little long in the tooth these days...

"Atheism" is a choice on the poll. And if you're agnostic, you can always pick "Other".

lmao..."the ladies are hot, but their web site doesn't take full advantage of the extensive Web 2.0 capabilities of modern browsers!" Really? :D

I don't think the rules are all that hidden (it's at the top of every single page!) and even beyond that, new members (let alone long-time members) are generally bludgeoned over the head with the whole "be respectful" message. I know when I first started lurking (prior to signing up), I was just chuckling to myself and thinking "dudes, say 'respect' again!"... :-)

I have no issues with your preferences, Loki, but I just wanted to comment on the disease transmission part...the chances of transmitting an STI through BBBJ or DATY are reasonably low, and that can become "very low" if you observe a few simple precautions. In general, transmission can only happen through blood-to-blood contact, which will generally only happen orally if you have bleeding gums--so the recommendation is not to brush your teeth less than 30-60 minutes prior to the event. While transmission via saliva can theoretically happen, the quantity of saliva would have to be frighteningly large (as in, puddle on the bedsheets large). As for ingestion, the stomach is typically not a very friendly environment for viruses and most bacteria, so that isn't really an issue. There are certainly other scenarios where you can get an STI through DATY or BBBJ, but the probabilities are pretty low for most of them, and there have to be specific circumstances. That's why many people feel comfortable with these services. There's a really good posting on the Toronto board with the subject "BBBJ and the Risks" in the "Health Info" forum...I'd call it recommended reading for anyone who wants more specifics.

YS, I think that's a little harsh...I'm all for supporting the independents as well (and that really is my preference), but many people have had good things to say about PK and the ladies that work for them (despite the events that led to the infamous suspension). I also don't think it's very fair to lump all the agencies together. OGFE has gotten some very good reviews for their O-town ops, and I saw some excitement about Cupids setting up shop in Ottawa as well, based on their TO rep. I agree about the problems with Honeyzworld--I've only been a member for a few months, but I've certainly seen some strange things posted by them and had the same confusing times trying to understand their labyrinth of websites and business names. But let's not throw out the baby with the bathwater... :-)

Jack, there's no reason to walk on eggshells or worry about doing something wrong...just treat everyone with respect and speak to them as you'd like others to speak to you. It's not rocket science... :-) The reason that the rules exist on this site is because some people have difficulties treating others with respect, especially when they are anonymous--these are the people that only "behave" in real life because there are consequences to not behaving, rather than because they'd like to be good people. In a consequence-free environment, their real personalities come out and that can result in a lot of hurtful and disrespectful discussion (I'm using "discussion" very loosely here). Every once in a while, I check out some of the other boards, and I don't find them anywhere near as helpful or as fun as CERB, as they seem to get a little inundated with flame wars and immature comments that don't exactly encourage straightforward discussion between hobbyists and SPs. I'm a reasonably new member as well (a few months now), and I certainly haven't felt that I've been restricted in what I can ask about or discuss. The mod doesn't restrict discussion on relevant topics, but he's commenting in this thread that he believes the membership would like to keep this Escort Recommendation Board about escorts/courtesans, and not about street walkers (which I personally agree with). If he were to restrict the discussion, he would have just deleted the thread, which he has very rightly done in the past when people have made some nasty comments. Ultimately, if you make honest and sincere comments that are not intended to be hurtful or disrespectful, you'll be fine. Even if someone takes what you say as disrespectful, or in a way you didn't intend, you can simply apologize for the misunderstanding and move on. As long as you're not intending anything hurtful, that is... :-)

Wait, I thought is was us guys with the RAM, hard drives and external interfaces! :-) (sorry, I just couldn't let that one go by...)

Not that I can tell...to my knowledge, the ladies generally use one hand or the other. Other than the comment about holding it backwards, this has been pretty gender-neutral... :-)

lol, between this thread and the previous one, I think we need to start up another recommendation board, called CMRB... :-)

I think the rules of supply and demand still apply, and I think there was a thread a while back talking about the fact that continuous demand in Ottawa keeps the prices where they are. While some people may start hobbying less, I kind of doubt it...I'm guessing that most of the regular hobbyists have reasonably secure jobs (or other sources of income) that are unlikely to be substantially affected by the economic troubles we're rolling into...

lol...I was thinking about setting up this poll when Seymour asked his question, but I'm too slow! I'm a rightie, unless I want to go for that "stranger" feel...lmao :D

What, you just rush to the finish? You don't light a few candles, turn on the Barry White, open a bottle of wine and make an evening of it? :D

I think that would be tough to accurately measure, but let's see if we can approximate it based on some assumptions on "average" rates: 90 strokes/minute x 15 minutes x 5 times per week x 52 weeks/year x 59 years of post-pubescent life -------------------------------- = 20.7 million strokes There are of course many flaws in these assumptions (I tried to make the "averages" account for the range between youth and older ages)...but that's still a hell of a lot of strokin'! :-)

Like everyone else, my frequency changes based on what else is going on in my life, but even looking at my "normal" weeks, I tend to vary considerably based on mood and energy levels. There are times when I need to take matters into my own hands 2-3 times a day, and then there's the other end of the spectrum, where I might only manage to clean the pipes 1-2 times in a week.

I think most SPs know how to be discreet, especially the ones who have been recommended here. I think many of the SPs also do outcalls (although I tend to be an incall person myself). As Athana mentioned above, some may want to get to know you first in an incall setting (for basic security purposes). Just contact the provider you want to see and let her know that you're looking for a discreet outcall, and as always use the recommendations here on CERB to guide your choices! :-)

I'm a fan of the 2-hour session (or at least 90 minutes), mainly so that the session can just be a relaxed fun time, without any real time pressures. There's also a biological factor at work, though...I tend to be a little too quick for the first SOG and then a little too long for the second. So that tends to motivate me to lengthen the session, rather than try to rush round 2. :-)

Yikes...she calls herself a "jealous wife"...I think setting your husband on fire qualifies you for the upgrade to "crazy"! I can't imagine this was the first sign (most people don't go from zero to immolation), so you gotta wonder what he was thinking...you don't cheat on crazy...or maybe you just shouldn't marry crazy!

Alex was my second SP and completely made up for a mediocre first experience. Posted via Mobile Device

There was a thread about hotel choices a while back: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=6189&highlight=hotel If nothing else, you'll be able to see which members are opinionated about the locations! :-)