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*found this poem on the net The Redhead She walks into a room,any room, amongst the glow of the fair haired blonde, amongst the mysterious darkness of the brunette. Still, it is she who captivates all who gaze upon her beauty. Both men & women alike cannot break the desperate longing to look at her just once more. She is mesmerizing, a rareity! So stunning is she that the pounding heart skips a beat whenever in her presence. As this majestic creature looks out toward her crowd of admirers, her eyes,full of fire, are hypnotic, almost spell-like. As she floats throughout the room, men hold their breath in hopes of containing their relentless desire for this phenomenon among all others.She is a description of unwavering passion,fire & ice,capable of driving men into lustful insanity & women into undiscovered realms of jealously...-- She is the Redhead. *How do you know when you've satisfied a redhead?... She unties you*

*Only two things are necessary to keep a redhead happy. One is to let her think she is having her own way, and the other is to let her have it. rawrrrrrrr *Brunette after sex: "Oh that was great! Love you...wanna marry?" Blonde after sex: "Next!" Redhead after sex: "Better start chewing some VITAMINS, kid.

Back from reinventing the wheel and in a ranting mood... What has happened to society? I used to read all the time how the fashion magazines were evil because they gave women the idea that you had to be paper thin or you were ugly. Have guys been looking at these magazines and jerking off for too long too? Is this now the idea that men have too, that women must be spinners or they shouldn't talk about them? Is this a worldwide thing or is this just an area specific thing? Why the rant you say? Ever since joining this site this has been something that I have been noticing more and more. The hobbiest community seems to be a spinner world. If you aren't a spinner you better have some really big boobs. What do I mean by this? Go through the recommendation section, and note the number of comments on a spinners recommendation from guys saying they can't wait to see her. Every single picture thread you see most of the the pictures posted are spinners, look through the beatiful behinds and beautiful breast threads and you will see what I'm talking about. Most of the pictures are spinners. If a picture or a recommendation is posted of a spinner it gets tons of comments from hobbiest saying that is such a great pic or I can't wait to see her, etc. But go through the recommendation and pics of the girls who aren't spinners or don't have huge boobs and you will notice they get a small percentage of the comments that a spinner gets. Is it not okay to be attracted to women with curves? Can you not talk about it out loud? Or is there a board that is just for girls with some curves? Many many times have I seen the comment she was great but she's not a spinner, or I had an awesome time but I'm not gonna write a reco because she's not a spinner, or she's not my normal body type so I'm not gonna write a reco, etc. So if you see a girl that's not your normal body type you can't talk about it??? I mean good grief some guys even said that spinners have tighter pussies than girls with curves, wtf created this mindset. There was even a comment once that a girls age was too old to be a spinner (didn't know that spinners had to be a certain age too???) This is what I refer to as the spinner complex in my heading. Why have guys gotten it in their head that it is not okay to talk about girls that aren't spinners, to say out loud that they are attracted to them, that their pics are hot, that they want to see them or better yet have seen them? Heaven forbid I might be attracted to a girl that doesn't weigh 110 pounds. Explain this to me??? Because I have been here for a bit and this is something I have never understood and it almost sickens me to see and hear because these girls are awesome girls and I know they do good business but they get maybe 10% of the comments and recos a spinner gets. Just the thoughts of a half awake delusional broken man who felt like speaking out, so if you disagree feel free to rebuke and educate me.

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Lol, this is not an active nomination. He had tried to start one and I guess no one nominated, so I decided to post early nominations on this inactive one so we could hopefully get one started next time with nominations in place. My bad, sorry for confusing everyone was just trying to make sure we didn't miss the award for someone again by not nominating. Mod will post an active award thread when the next award is about to start so we can put in our nominations.

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nominations for the next award: Capitalman Igotaboner Loneskater Secret Admirer

The excuses I got were ones from people who recommended the SPs and said they had an awesome time and I should see them, but then they gave excuses as to why they wouldn't write a reco. To me if you are going to that length to say you had an awesome time and recommend the SPs then that merits a reco. I understand that it is tough to pass along the details of your visit and your thoughts on the SP because not everyone has the same tastes. You don't have to describe every single thing that happened and every single aspect of the SPs body. It is simple to just write a short recommendation that you had a great time, if you thought she was sexy you can say so, great services, non rushed, etc etc etc, Each person is going to form their own opinion on someone's looks based upon the pictures and the girls description of her self. If a girl has curves she is not going to lie and say she is a spinner, because the guys will see in her pics that she is not a spinner. If you see the SP, you think she is sexy, you tell her so and you have an amazing time, but then you don't write a reco because she is not your normal body type; imagine what she is feeling. This is a very very very emotional occupation and the ladies put themselves out there every single day, and to not be recognized for the effort they put into the job can be very demoralizing. I know some will say why do I have to show any more appreciation than the payment and a tip, but this job also requires a lot of emotional strength in order for the ladies to continue doing it and a simple recommendation can do a lot to boost the attitudes of the ladies.

Ever since becoming a member I have noticed more and more hobbiests that do not write recommendations. I have heard numerous excuses as to why they don't write them, and I heard a new one today so it prompted me to post this to see what others think. Excuses (in the order I have heard them): Negative Reco: This one I completely understand, if you don't have anything nice to say then don't say anything. SP has a Do Not Review policy: Also completely understandable, no reco should be written if the SP doesn't want one done. I Don't Write Recos: Somewhat understand that some people don't want to make it known that they are seeing SPs, but you are a member of an Escort Recommendation board, so most people here assume you are a hobbiest and seeing SPs. So write the reco to show the SP you had a good time and show your appreciation. (The other thing I find funny is some hobbiests that recommend an SP to me and say they had an awesome time but they don't write recommendations will then turn around and write one for another SP a week later.) She's not my normal body type: (e.g. I had an awesome time but I normally see spinners and she wasn't a spinner so I am not gonna write a reco.) Is there a law that says you can't see SPs with varying body types, hair color, eye color, etc.? Are you afraid other hobbiests are going to make fun of you if you didn't choose the head cheerleader as your SP? If you have a great time, let people know, and let her know. How do you think this makes an SP feel if you tell them you have a wonderful time and you repeat with them but you won't do a reco and yet you do them for other girls? I don't want her to become too popular if people like my reco: Crazy reason, if you don't write recos and she doesn't get business she won't be around for you to see. I told an SP I love her, so I don't want her to know I see others: She is probably is hesitant to believe you when you say you love her. I'm sure there are lots of hobbiests that tell SPs that they love them. I see the word throw around some as if it means nothing, so I'm sure SPs are very cautious to believe when the word is thrown out. They are going to be very careful and will know that you are still seeing other SPs whether you write a reco for them or not. I don't have the time to write a reco: It takes a whole 5 minutes to write a reco, you don't have to go into detail if you don't want to. It's easy to say you saw her and had a great time and show her you appreciated it. If you have the time to spend an hour or more with an SP, I'm sure you have the time to spend 5 minutes to write a reco. The Latest one: I can't write a reco because an SP I see will get mad if I write them for others: This one threw me for a loop. Do SPs really get mad if one of their regulars writes a review for another SP? I'm pretty sure most SPs know that hobbiests will see more than one SP. Most hobbiests like variety. Yes there are those that choose a regular SP but they will still seek variety from time to time. Do the SPs that get mad give you worse service if you write a reco for another SP or do they stop seeing you? Is this the new way to catfight with other SPs without being open about it, just make sure your hobbiests only write recos for you? I'm sure these are just a few of the excuses people have heard. Just thought it was an interesting topic and figured others might have more insight or more excuses to share. Closing thought: Show your appreciation to the SPs and write a reco, it only takes a few minutes, and they will really appreciate that you did.

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