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Yes, there are two Cuban ladies, going by the names Isabella and Jessica who are there most afternoons at Tease Inc. Not sure if they are the same ones, but given what is said on the thread I am pretty sure it is them. They have quite a following.

Thank goodness they never were at my University Rugby team after match, beer ups. We would all still be in jail.

Sounds like me you need to find another SP. From what you describe from being a 'germaphobe', to glancing at the TV, to not making much of an effort, it strikes me she was just mailing it in. The fact the TV was even on seems a little unprofessional. To me she also sounds pretty restrictive (no saliva sounds like no kissing and a CBJ) although I may be wrong. I just think you found the wrong SP for a first venture. Read some reviews and pick one who is well rated and less restrictive. That is my 2 cents, and from what you describe she is not someone I would want to see.

I would stop. It looks clear but is it? Are you sure you are not being seen? You take a chance once, then you are likely to try it again someplace where it is not safe.

I agree that it can be one of two things. Either the SP has an aversion to turtlenecks or it was a YMMV issue. The first one is a personal preference, and nobody can tell them they are wrong. It is their choice and if they want to base the choice on esthetics or whatever they make the call. You don't like the look of an uncut penis, then you can choose not to deal with it. Just like some SP's or clients, only want to see certain races, ages etc. It is their preference. On the YMMV thing as well, we are all different. Nobody is exactly the same, and there may be lingering odors, feelings, secretions depending on how long ago the person washed, or how they washed. I am cut, but my younger brother isn't. He had a procedure called the dorsal slit which left the foreskin in place but was supposed to make it easier to keep clean. We were from a family with a high importance placed on hygiene and I can remember my parents making sure he was diligent on keeping that region clean. Despite that he still had the occasional issue. Some people may be completely intact and cavalier about hygiene and have not issues. Others may be anal about hygiene and have issues. We are all different.

No hugs? WTF No cuddling? Ditto No Kissing? Deal breaker. Did too much of that stuff with pros in Europe years ago before GFE. Now I would rather take care of myself if those are off limits.

http://www.bloomberg.com/news/2013-08-28/brothels-in-nevada-shrivel-as-web-disrupts-oldest-trade.html An interesting read. It seems that the downturn in the economy and the internet are causing issues for the legal brothels in Nevada. For those who think of hobbying or working in Las Vegas read the part about the number of arrests and take heed.

I think it is a good idea, and one who's time has come. Everyone seems to get bigger "balls" on the internet when they think they are anonymous. I don't think anyone should have anything to fear with disclosing their real identity to a reputable site such as Huffington. They are not going to de-cloak you. You can still post with a pseudonym, and they are not going to "out" you. But they can shut you down, or if you break the law identify you to authorities. That should give the trolls and trouble makers something to think about before posting.

If none of the local girls are into it, you may want to look for some of the touring girls. I know a lot of ladies travel to K-town, and many are not opposed to duos.

No way, no how, no never. It adds a level of complication that I don't want. First off it is two transactions, not one. Then you have to pay the deposit, most likely by something like an e-mail transfer. That leaves a paper trail. Or you have to go and meet the SP to pay a deposit. Two trips and only one of them leaves you with a smile on your face. ;) Then what happens if a change of plans occurs? SPs have been known to have to re-schedule as well, not just the clients. Then you have to get your deposit back, or do the re-scheduling tango, trying to find another suitable time. A lot of hassle for both people. I realize no-shows can be a pain, but that happens in a lot of different occupations. It may be slightly more prevalent in "newbies" to this hobby, but for most of the regular hobbiests it is not something we are prone to. If you no-show a lot, or waste time, then the word gets out to the SPs and they know you might be a no-show. Nope, you ask me for a deposit, I am going to go somewhere else. Sorry.

Sorry folks but for the most part deposits will not solve your issue. There used to be a very active Ottawa based Poly group on this board. For a bunch of reasons it is not as active on this board, but still very active. The people involved just use other means to stay in touch. I think one of the reasons it is not on this board as much, is it seemed to attract a lot of tire-kickers and lookie-lous who were really not interested in the activity. They were just curious or had voyeuristic tendencies. Also some of the SP's and to a lesser extent hobbiests, experienced a backlash from some clients when it got out that they were participating. I think that may be part of what some of the SP's who try to organize these events are experiencing There is usually some difficulty finding a time for some of these events that suits everyone. That is one of the most frequent problems. Most hobbiests don't book an hour for a gang bang in their Outlook calendar, or can't tell the SO what they are doing. So the larger the number of participants, the harder it is to get schedules to work and mesh. The most successful ones in the Poly group generally had the logistics handled by a hobbiest. An SP would agree with a hobbiest on the type of event, the ground rules, number of participants etc. The hobbiest would then be the one who organized the client logistics. Recruiting them, telling them the ground rules, donations etc. Often they also secured the venue. That seemed to work the best. Of course the other key is that many folks are uncomfortable in this group setting with strangers. The key factor of that Poly group, was that we ran Poly socials. In someways the forerunner of the CERB socials, but much smaller, and much more casual. Interested SP's would attend, and hobbiests as well, who were usually screened by the other hobbiests to make sure we didn't invite trouble. We would share a few drinks, a few laughs, make connections, and generally from that event, hobbiests would approach an SP to set something up. (Sometimes that very night, but not always) Although sometimes it would lead to one on one encounters, generally everyone there, were there for the same interest, and group events usually happened. And not to hijack the thread I will respond to RG's comment on what he thinks it would be like. In fact that group of folks is actually pretty intimate, although the events are a bit of a walk on the wild side. Most of the folks involved also see each other for GFE sessions. The poly social aspect also meant we got to learn a lot about different folks in the hobby, in a respectful and friendly environment. There was probably more intimacy and camaraderie then I have experienced anywhere else in the hobby.

I agree that there are a lot of different forms of intelligence. I am a great trivia player for example, and a lot of people attribute that as intelligence. In my mind I just have a good memory for minutiae and a fast recall system. In terms of intellect I have the most admiration for folks who have what we refer to as common sense, and a pragmatic outlook.

Spumoni, a luscious mix of chocolate, pistachio, and cherry, with lot of nuts and candied fruit incorporated. Decadent, refreshing, and every mouthful is a surprise.

The whole strip is upscale hotels. Any of them would work. However if I read what you say correctly, you are looking to work as an escort while you are there? IMO that may not be such a good idea. It is illegal to do that in Las Vegas, and if you get caught going across the border you are in a world of hurt. Particularly since you are looking at advertising, and have already stated your intentions on a public forum, they could be looking for you. I am not going to say what you are suggesting is against the rules of this site, but you are talking about doing two things that are illegal, albeit in a different country.

Why anyone would save a password in the browser is beyond me. It is such a huge potential security flaw. I just use "Hello" as my password for all my sites and I am set. Never have to worry about forgetting it, and it is not saved anywhere. Nobody would guess that, right? :P

Both of these for sure.

So do I have to wear my "I am an orgasm donor" badge all day? :icon_cool:

Depending how far you want to travel, Louisbourg is not too far away and really is a neat place to visit. Or you can go watch the sun rise over the tar ponds.

The key thing to remember in using it is that it goes around your balls and your cock, not just the shaft. So a stretchy one is preferable. Now that is a plain cock ring, some of the vibrating ones I can see just going on the shaft because its purpose is more to hold the vibrator than to enhance the erection. Their are lots out there and you can buy a simple three pack of what look like O-rings in different sizes. You can start with a bigger one if you are afraid of getting stuck and then go to the smaller tighter ones if you get more adventurous. ;)

Somedays this idea could be a real winner around here.

Oh heaven help me on this one. Back to two very important points one of which I make every time someone posts a poll on here. Their are people who make very good livings making questionnaires and polls. The reason for that is that it is a well documented science and to post a bias free poll takes a lot of forethought and analysis. On the poll, with all due respect to mod, the question is wrong, and misleading. The question should be: : "Is it OK to negotiate, or it is wrong to negotiate." The qualifiers about advertising are red herrings that appeal to personal bias. Their are other qualifiers that would give a different result. On top of that, posting a flawed poll after this thread has been active so long is not valid either. A lot of people who got tired of the arguing will not come back to this thread or offer their opinion. Others won't answer what they see as a poll that can be misleading or misinterpreted. Sorry, but that is true. And even then, it misses the key point I have made now three times. Despite all the "it is a different kind of service", " I am selling companionship only" disclaimers etc., if a provider offers any service as a special, offers different rates for different services, offers certain services at a discount or premium, offers special rates, duo rates etc.. then they are treating the service they sell as a commodity. When you do that, then people negotiate. That is how a free market works. If you don't want to discount, then say, "no negotiating" and stick to your guns. The problem is, as I have said before, some will not hang up. They want the money, so they will haggle, and then complain about it later. It takes two to negotiate, and if you say no, give the reason why, and hang up, then what is the issue? I know what it is, but I am not going to open that can of worms. As for the comments about how different this service/job is, the emotional toll, the stigma etc. Well this is not the only job that presents that challenge. Ask a paramedic who has to respond to a multi-vehicle accident how they feel about their day; or a fire fighter who has to rush into a burning building to try and save lives or worse carry out the victims of the fire, often children; or the police office who has to answer a domestic violence call, with all the drama that entails; or a soldier who watches as some ass blows up a school full of children because women are allowed to attend, or has to tie a tourniquet around his good buddy's leg because he stepped on a land mine; or a support worker in a palliative care facility knowing all their patients are going to die; or a mental health worker who has to deal with people who's behaviour is erratic, dangerous, confusing, frustrating, because of the nature or their illness; etc. etc. And all of those very essential people, all negotiate their salaries, pay or benefits. And they more likely than not get taken for granted and get very little thanks for the job they do. For example the infamous Rae Days in Ontario, where most of those folks got an unexpected, unpaid, vacation so the premier could balance the budget. I am going to shut up now, other than to say, if you commodify your service then don't get surprised when people negotiate. If you don't want to negotiate then end the conversation don't offer specials, don't offer a list of acronyms of what you provide. Ranting on here is never going to solve your problem, and for me, it just tells me who I want to avoid.

L is for limp... like a noodle..

J is for juicy.... pussy....

As they say on the video a really cheezy 80's video, but the song is one of my ATF's The Pukka Orchestra And if you are looking for all of the 80's music video cliches in one 4 minute clip I give you Still a great song and one I must admit to cranking in the car and belting out at the top of my lungs as I am heading down the highway. No wonder nobody wants to ride with me. hehe "Well the moon was hot when you came down from the mountains......" Whatever the fuck that means.

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