canuckhooker

Yes it is..and some of us know how many birthday spanks are due to you. :twisted:

But there is a poly social going to be on 1 Oct after work thing. PM for details.

Wow.. page 8 and I finally made a list.. LOL... Probably because I have met most of the people I chat with. The exceptions being Soccermum who I really want to meet but our schedules never seem to work out, and Miel who I have met in public but would love a more private time with her. I am making a resolution to clear the schedule for these two lovely ladies soon. Oh and I almost forgot a new lady I chatted with the first time the other night, the lovely Cameron. I got to help her test out her webcam and that was enough to put her high on my TDL. Edit/addendum 2- And of course because I am a fool and fixated only on the Ottawa scene I forgot about my good friend TiannaDion out in Winnipeg. She hasn't been as active in the forums and chat as she once was, but I do chat with her several times a week, and hang out with her online at another site. She is definitely on my TDL. If I ever get to Winnipeg look out. :P

I am sorry but the answer to this question is too easy. Whoever eyes I am looking into at that special moment has the best eyes. No question, no doubt. A wise man once said, Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, an even wiser man said, Beauty is in the eye of the beerholder. But then that ruins my first sentiment.

I am still have pleasant dreams of my days on the Reeperbahn back in the hey-day.

Yeah.. not to hijack the thread off of credit cards, but the Priceline "name your price" option is magic, and really easy to use. I would assume during busy season like Winterlude etc, maybe a little less so because there are less empty rooms. I used it last night for first time and in less than a couple of minutes got a room at Novotel for $65 plus fees. Could have probably been cheaper. I just gave them a CC at the desk for "security" but essentially Priceline had paid the room and taxes already. The things I learn from this hobby. :grin:

emb3750 Neither, just planning to have someone lick the salt off my pretzel! :wink: Too bad for you there is absolutely no hobbying in the Fatherland.

Have you got your lederhosen all shined up and ready? or are you going with the dirndl this year? :P

I think when ever someone wants to take the reins and organize it. Alternating between lunches and after work beers seems to be a good idea. I was thinking a pool night at ****** (4-7pm aprrox) around Thurs 1 Oct might be an idea. Any takers? PM me for location details.

Well the dominating or power is a fine semantic difference. I think we mean the same thing. As for "under the influence" I agree with you. If someone uses chemical means to encourage compliance then it is wrong. If the woman herself takes something to give herself courage then I would argue that there is quite likely either coercion or exploitation going on and it is wrong. When I say that the women wants to be there, I meant she is aware of what is going on, and is having positive thoughts about the experience. My 2 cents anyway.

Very good points SA, but they apply to a lot more in this "Adult entertainment domain" than just GBs. ( I hesitate to use hobby in this case) A lot of people attacking the Adult industry use words like coerce, exploit, dominate etc. All very negative and not applicable in the majority of cases. With a Gang Bang, it is the symbolic nature of the event, where it appears like the woman may being dominated or exploited by the men. Notice I said "appears" and I would say that most women in that situation are there willingly and for their own motivations. The appearance is what un-nerves some people. I am aware of a sport where before the game the referee must inspect the footwear of the players. The traditional way to do this was for the players to line up.. drop to their knees and the referee walked behind them checking their footwear. I know recently that some female coaches of female teams told their players not to get on their knees if the referee was a man, because of the notion that they were kneeling down to a man. It was totally based on how the act appeared and how it could be misinterpreted. I have no problem with GBs if the women are willing participants and know what they are getting into. Any form of coercion or peer pressure (Yeah.. Sally all the cool kids are pulling train.) is unacceptable. And by the same token I would hope that nobody here would try and pressure someone into a situation they were not comfortable with. If everyone is a willing participant then others should keep their comments to themselves. It is only sex after all, and remember a lot of what all of our members here do regularly would be frowned upon by a large portion of mainstream society.

What about sheep? Are they OK? Just asking for umm a friend. :lol:

I agree totally. I have no problem answering peoples questions, but if you are asking to violate someone's trust, then you can guarantee you will not get a response from me. I get tired of people enquiring about which MA offers extras or does FS, or what SP does what. If I knew someone was giving me extras, do you think I would tell people that and ruin it? or get someone in trouble. I didn't just fall off the turnip truck. But worse than that you are asking me to violate the trust that the other individual put in me, and I won't do that. As Annessa said, YMMV is a strong concept on this board, and this hobby. I think you get better mileage if you are open, communicate clearly, and respect peoples boundaries and trust.

Everything that was said about Kate is true. Well actually I don't think they were as effusive with the praise as they should be. This was one amazing experience and I cannot wait to repeat. I can't wipe the smile off my face.

Who knew it would be that easy? Easy like most of us on here. :)

It is simple. Two basic reasons. One is that some people are not happy unless they can find something to bitch about. In line with that, maybe the hobbiest was using that as an excuse. Either way mountain out of molehill. The other reason was something we talked about at the other end of the table where all the really snazzy posing pouches were sitting. The general assessment is that everyone is weird in some way, and the degree of weirdness is what sets us apart. In this case some people in the hobby, should not be, because they lack the maturity or understanding of this business. They form one-sided personal attachments, or get jealous when you should know that this is the nature of the beast. Neither the SPs nor the clients are monogamous. I would wager 90% of the people involved in the business as clients or SPs (MAs and dancers included) are involved because we like sex, we like people, and we like variety. The people who come in with misguided notions like "saving" someone from the life, or that "she/he really likes me best" are the ones that are going to cause the problems. Dr Hooker's office is open for more consultations. Psycho therapy for pervs my speciality. :lol::lol:

I like spinners, I like the statuesque, I like the rubenesque, I like them curvy, I like them athletic... FFS I guess I just like women. However I can understand. I am not a really tall guy, and I am not intimidated by taller women and some of them are my favourites. However, there is a time I want someone a little shorter than me. Maybe it is the fantasy of being dominant by virtue of size, maybe it is an appealing to the traditional "guy must be taller than girl" stereotype. Either way, spinners are nice, but so are the curvy ladies.

How could you miss the posing pouches???? We were over by the fireplace on the extreme left as you came in the front door? Were some of your co-workers with us? Maybe you have something on them now. :lol:

We all wear rhinestone G-strings and posing pouches along with T-shirts that say "We Only F*** in Groups" j/k LOL Well if Dummpy and I are there look for two vertically challenged men surrounded by hot women. Otherwise I doubt we will be too hard to spot. As to Annessa's points, they were excellent. I have attended several of these social events, and that is all it is, a chance to meet some people from here in an open setting. I met Annessa there and as a result set up a more intimate meeting at a later date. I think that was a plus for both of us. I have met other ladies there that are definitely on my TDL either in a group or single setting. This is nothing more than lunch and drinks, with a few laughs thrown in. The conversation may tend to be a bit more "Adult themed" then other people in the bar, but that is about it. Hope to meet you tomorrow.

Walmart would be your best bet if you want a cheap inkjet. You could try Staples as well. They are really not that expensive these days because they make their money on the ink cartidges.

September 1oth is Thursday on my calendar.

I am probably in. Time and place? Nevermind.. found it. Doh!!!!

Everybody loves drama... or was it everybody loves blow-jobs.. I am confused.

There are two FS strip clubs, Hilltop near Vaudreuil, and Frontiere closer to Riviere Beaudette on 401. Rumour has it there are others north of there heading to the Ontario border, and around Hawkesbury.

I made my second trip to see the lovely Bella yesterday and can only reconfirm my previous recommendation. She is a gem.