NotchJohnson

Wishing you the happiest of birthdays.

This would be a fantasy for me, and for you to realize this fantasy with that fantastic duo is out of this world. I'm glad you enjoyed yourself winnipegcub.

This is by far the most interesting site that I visit(almost everyday and more then once a day) I enjoy looking at the beautiful ladies here on CERB and getting to know them better. I read pretty much all the thread on here and when possible I share my thoughts on any subject and appreciate any feed back. I don't keep grudges if someone does not agree with me because I might change my mind after reading his thoughts.

Cerb is a fantastic community.

One of the things that I also enjoy a lot is writing/reading the recommendation of all the ladies here. I must admit many guys here are fantastic story/experience writers.

I like to share jokes, videos, thoughts and experiences.

Very good choice for your first thread starting Gentleman11

I'm a big motorcycle fan myself and I understand your concern about any HD being expensive but with our Canadian dollar high right now you can get a brand new HD at below $20 G which many of the 1500 cc or more are worth.

Keep in mind that any HD motorcycle lose less value then any Japanese bikes. I can't say about the European bikes cause I'm not sure. My 1994 HD has never let me down and would buy another one in a heart beat.

My 2 cent.

I enjoy when a lady grinds on me and also when she will use her full body from the seam of my pants to beside my head just lightly touches me with her head and kisses my neck.

You have my deepest sympathies on the passing of your mother. You are in my prayers.

I have had a fair share of lapdance in my life and would be curious on how both guys and girls perceive a lapdance.

Guys: Do you like to touch her or to be touched by her? What part of her body do you like to feel? Do you enjoy her grinding on you? Etc...

Ladies: Does it turn you on to grind on a guy? Do you let him(or mind if he) grope you?

I don't want to seem to forward on this and you don't need to answer if you are uncomfortable to say.

I was simply remembering the last lapdance that I received from Megan(Megan's touch) and I must admit it was one of the best ever. She was very sensual and just her lapdance was enough for me to appreciate her qualities.

Ok she may not have the bunny outfit but she does have bunny underwear.

And this one is a picture of a real bunny,lol

Thanks Isabella and Winnipegcub for sharing those video.

500 post WOW!!! Congrats on reaching it. Love them all.

To make a long story short, it was lunch time and I was at a chip wagon in my hometown when I noticed the aunt of my ex-girlfriend, so we chat a bit and she introduced me to a sexy hot blonde. Fast forward two weeks and I get a call from the aunt of my ex, asking if I wanted to go on a blind date with that hot blonde, so I agreed.

I was nervous and met them at her place(double date) we went for supper and I had forgot my wallet so she was happy to pay for me which I felt really bad so I decided to go back home after and get my wallet and headed to a local sports bar were we drank and danced all night and I paid everything. Not so bad for a first impression.

I knew she had feelings for me and wanted to give her a better impression of me. The following weekend I picked her and her son(6 years old) and took the bicycle to Montreal and pedaled on the bicycle path and then went to the botanical garden and a nice meal the three of us.

Just my two cents worth, and it is difficult to comment intelligently without knowing some other possible factors of the kind that Samantha mentioned above.

 

However, when I read your post first a while ago, my initial thoughts went very much toward what Samantha was getting at.

 

Having encounters with SP's is far more than a sexual encounter, as many men here have so eloquently written about in so many posts. There is the personal factor, the personal connection, or maybe even one can go as far as the "friend" connection that plays through your head.

 

Perhaps the concept of paying for intimacy is one thing but the concept of paying for a friendship is something that is far more difficult to get ones head around?

 

I really like what Samantha has said as being a possibility, that it may be a more lasting personal connection that you seek, along with all of the things that go along with that.

 

I can easily see that some men because of that and depending upon their past or current experiences, might have a difficulty as you describe.

 

Best of luck with your dilema and as much as many people like to keep things to themselves to work out, sharing helps whether it be here or with a friend or family doctor.

 

Take care of yourself.

Again well said, I have went through this in a part of my life and now back to normal, whatever normal is.

A few years ago I had something that marked me in my life and had a hard time to cope with and lost all desire to have sex or anything to do with the opposite sex but always admired the female body. Now for over 3 years things are working just great and probably better then ever.

If you can still perform well when you're with a woman--and particularly when you masturbate--you don't need the little blue pill (Viagra) or any of its substitutes. Don't fall into the trap of taking meds you don't need and don't try to fix what ain't broken! :icon_wink:

 

It sounds to me like you're needing something that's not usually available from a paid companion. You might take some time to ask yourself what it is you feel you really, truly, deeply want and need from another person in your life. You don't say whether you're married or in a steady relationship, but if you are, it could be that some of your needs there aren't being fulfilled. If your partner is going through a difficult time and you're having to carry a bigger share of the load without getting a lot back from her, right now, you may be feeling emotionally drained and physically tired. If you're single, it could be that you want more non-sexual companionship as in social connection, or a relationship based on shared interests and activities. Maybe the certainty of an encounter with a paid companion is no longer what you need; dating, with all its pitfalls, uncertainties and realities can be a joyous thing in part because the outcome is not so certain. Maybe you need to know that the woman you're with is there because she wants to be with you and not because you've paid her for her time and attention. We companions often say that we're paid to go away. Maybe you want someone who might be able to stay for a long time.

 

Maybe, for a little while, it would be better for you to get lots of good exercise, be sure to eat a healthy diet and get plenty of sleep. It's surprising how often attending to these things can improve how we feel about everything in our lives.

 

Whatever you feel, trust that feeling and listen to your own heart. There's absolutely nothing wrong with not wanting paid companionship, or even sex, for awhile!

 

But if it seems that you don't feel you want want anything, or that you don't find pleasure in the things that used to delight you, please do talk to your doctor. Anhedonia (the loss of joy in life) is a symptom of depression. Depression is treatable, but when it's ignored, can cause serious problems in your life and at times may become life-threatening.

Those are the same exact words i was going to use.

Right on Isabella and congrats on reaching the first 500 th post.

I have met some very beautiful ladies from CERB. All of them as beautiful inside and out and got close to many because of your charm and affection you expose yourself out here.

I'm very happy to be a part of this fine community we call CERB.

You are all very appreciated by many of us, don't ever forget that.

Hugs and kisses to you all.

I do not like to talk politics that much because IMHO are we ever going to get a party that will please everyone?

Keep them coming Steve, and congrats on 1000 post.

I was previously known here as T'storm and changed my name just late last year because some thought I was TS and I did not like that, I did not mind T or storm.

Fast forward to today I'm known here as NotchJohnson or NJ for short is good or even just Notch I'll take that any day. I've been called the ETP kid (Eat The Pussy). And also been called "Horse" by an Asian girl, even though I told her that I couldn't run fast. Don't know why she did call me that?

Then join our new group here at http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/group.php?groupid=67

We are waiting for you.

May Exquisite Love Touch You.

 

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They see me rollin'

Many Happy Returns Ava.

Here is a little something that happen to me and got frustrated once. I arrange a meeting with a lady 1 or 2 days ahead and she says to call her when I get close to her location on that day. The day comes and I travel over one hour away from home and call her at a gas station near her location. She does not answer and her answering machine is full, what do I do? I wait 15 minutes and call back, same story, wait another 15 minutes and now I'm passed my scheduled time and don't want her to get mad at me.

I drive all the way back home and write her to tell her what has happened, she says she forgot about our arrangement.

All this to say if she would have left a message saying "I will be away until x time on this day, sorry about missing you etc... It would have been better then wasting my time waiting in my car for so long. Just saying.

Congrats mistert on becoming an Elite member and keep your post coming.

Congrats Meg, way to go, loved everyone of them.