hairyblueeyes

Sorry can't make it.

Might be able to make it as I am on holidays (sort of). Need to take my car in for new tires, so will try to book it for first thing Thurs am. CanHook, LOL at first I read your post as coughing and the solution was a glue pot... but them I remembered (memory fading with age LOL) right next to "Barbarella's" right?

...which would be sad. I think CERB is a great place to show this type incident. It is CERB that gives "consumers" like myself a safe place to "research" my next adventure. Of course it would not be possible without the CERB community as a whole acting responsible and in particular the hard work of the mods keeping things under control. This is what I learned: There are truly some sick individuals out there. ALWAYS insist on protection. BBBJ is nice but is it really worth the risk. Maybe once a "relationship" has been established,and I use that term loosely ladies. But even then there is some risk. What is really needed is greater availability of anon testing as well as a professional association for SPs with guidelines and ethics to be followed. I can tell you one thing for sure, if I had a choice between 2 women, one belonging to an organization that promotes good choices, safety and ethical business practices and one that puts a blurb up on CL, I think the choice is a no brainer... even if I have to pay a little extra 'cause that lady is a member.. Thanks Susie for posting that. Doesn't matter whether it actually happened.. it just shows we are living in the wild wild west and need to learn from our EU friends.........ORGANIZE AND LEGALIZE

Too bad its gone. :cry: Hope it comes back soon :evil: But search works well as its been 2 days that I have been trying to figure out what happened to it. I just change to FF from IE in Vista and thought it might be related. Then I thought "lets search for shout" and voila here I am 8), mystery solved.

:razz: Hmm, let see, the thread name is spinner of the day. It was started on the 22nd of July. It is now the 27th, so if the title is correct, we should have 5 spinner pics on this thread..... unless ur making up for lost time. Then let the pic flood begin. :boobies: Spinner or hooters or bbw they all have their unique beauty and before I depart this paradise we call earth I hope to enjoy the company of them all. Thanks Dreamer for all the enlightenment. :-)

Here is another area to look at: • To ensure consumers have access to resources, are safe engaging in sex industry consumption, can maintain discretion, are treated fairly and have clear and choices for ethical purchasing. Not sure what this means, unless it is a typo. If you like I can contnue to proof. Just let me know. I must say it is awsome that the customer is able to join and participate as well, although at times it might get a little distracting for us if we attend a meeting :mrgreen: Some xxoo right back at ya, HBE

"Decisions will be made through a consensus model. All members in good standing are voting members and will enter any of the following 5 responses to issues that are being considered:" Not sure if you want any comments on content or form, but here is goes fwiw. In the above you mention 5 responses but only list 4. Response # 3 "can't live with the decision, will resign.." leaves the ability for a member to "coerce?" other members by the threat of resigning. Also in my opinion this is somewhat redundant as the decision is only made after the vote is tallied. Also if the decision is not in their favor, are they forced to resign based on their vote? I would just go with the standard 3; yes, no and abstain. Of course only my 2 cents worth

Not that I know Sophie, only been with her once; but my feeling is she loved it and would be back for more if the vacation didn't get in the way. :lol:

Bummer man, I have my sister and hubby in town for the week, till thurs... "hey sis, I off to a poly event..." ya right. Hey guys can you show me the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow... I mean that is where all this is being funded from, right? Natasha sounds spectacular, I love spinners. Never had one but it is a big dream

54 here and at 35 your still a younger lady in my books. Age is experience and without experience we would all be dead :twisted: I may be 54 but in my mind I am still in my 30s which can some times get me into trouble .... but trouble is good:mrgreen:

What are these posts doing in the Ottawa Male/Shemale/... thread :? Is there something I am missing here LOL. Funny thing, I sat in dreamers seat after he left on wed and I too was drawn in by sophie's spell. So much so that I just got back from a amazing encounter with her and can hardly wait for the next one. maybe a poly event. Of course an old guy like me could never measure up to the likes of dreamer and dummpy. I am some what of a rookie at this new found hobby. I am certainly not as adventurous nor have the experience that you 2 studs have. But that doesn't seem to matter with Sophie. A true warm heart that loves to have fun. What really amazed me is how responsive Sophie is. The few SPs I have been with in the past, and I am talking over 5 years ago, I never ever had such a good time! Its like making it to the major leagues! You rock my world Sophie. I hope I was able to give back a little of what you give so much!

As a consumer I commend you on your efforts. At a recent social event I was talking to some other hobbyists and we were reminiscing over the old days of scouting the various local papers or cruising the market etc and how risky that was, for both parties. From my stand point my money is hard earned and sure hate getting taking for a ride, or worse yet putting my life at risk. This place here is a gift. It gives me the opportunity to "research" and after quickly looking thru the faqs etc I have some faith in the mods. That being said, there is always room for improvement. Having this place for the SPs to bring forth to light initiatives such as this one will show the power of "social networks". Is it not for the protection of our well being, both consumers and businesses? Do we not ALL benefit from initiatives such as this? My answer is a big loud YES I will be subscribing to this thread in order to stay informed, and offer support when able.

Sounds like y'all got all the bases covered. I was going to add to the comment that it must be always up to the SP.... but I guess that is obvious .. and you just reiterated that LOL.

Ok folks, just my 2 cents here.:boobies: First the smiles above mean nothing, just thought they were hilarious. Big thanx to dumpy for yesterday. When I got back to work (yuk) all I could think about was the bright future this social group has, and all the fun I'm gonna have :smile: Was nice to get to know some of the group. Wish we had more time so I could get to know Annessa but it was sure great talking to Sophie. All the other members attending that I had a chance to talk with were a lot of fun. Looking fwd to sharing some of these future experiences with you guys. I was looking fwd to meeting red, but I guess I will have to keep imagining. Someday we will meet I hope. Too bad Rachel is leaving, she is one of the SP's that definitely got my attention :boobies: Please let us know the next time you around I have to agree that more advance notice is needed for events. Seems that most SPs are avail days only and myself having a day job, makes it difficult to be spontaneous, although spontaneity is the spice of life. Also I got to thinking, :idea: I wonder if it might be a good idea that in order to participate in a GB etc with a SP the participant should have had a previous date with the SP. This would accomplish a few things. First the SP will have some familiarity with the participant; their approach, likes etc. The participant will have an idea as to what is in or out of bounds for that SP. It would be a terrible experience for all involved if one member thinks that something is OK but it isn't with the SP and only to start some sort of incident. So to close, I am going to pm some with some addition contact info so as to keep in the loop. Man I wish I had more free time. CERB is a premium candy store and man do I have a sweet tooth.

What sort of place are we looking for. What's the attendance expected? Sure hope I can sneak off of work