Kyra.Graves

My Dear Acquaintance My dear acquaintance, it's so good to know you For strength of your hand That is loving and giving And a happy new year With love overflowing With joy in our hearts For the blessed new year Raise your glass and we'll have a cheer For us all who are gathered here And a happy new year to all that is living To all that is gentle, kind, and forgiving Raise your glass and we'll have a cheer My dear acquaintance, a happy new year All of those who are hither and yonder With love in our hearts We grow fonder and fonder Hail to those who we hold so dear And hail to those who are gathered here And a happy new year to all that is living To all that is gentle, young, and forgiving Raise your glass and we'll have a cheer My dear acquaintance, a happy new year Happy new year ~Regina Spektor I wanted to take a moment to wish those I have had the pleasure of spending some time with, those I have conversed with either in email or on the board, and those that I may have missed this year all the best to you and your loved ones. I hope 2015 will bring you much joy, pleasure and a reason to celebrate and that we may make each others acquaintance at some point in the happy new year! I will be in Toronto for the next few weeks and due to a recent change in plans I will be available New Years Eve and day. If you should find yourself looking to start the new year with some beautiful, intelligent and enjoyable company please send me a message. My favourite dates are evening dinner dates and early mornings lingering in bed with a little fresh squeezed OJ and something to nibble on, of course if you have something else in mind I would enjoy hearing your idea. It is my pleasure to arrange something memorable for the two of us. (or three? :wink: ) All the best to you and your loved ones for the new year! [email protected] http://www.ABenePlacito.com

I remember being on a black-and-white set all day and then going out into daylight and being amazed by the colour. -Jeff Bridges Sometimes that is how I feel during the long winter months, just adding a little bit of colour to my day can dazzling, fun and energizing. With that in mind I thought I'd share a few pics from my skittles shoot that I hope reflects that fun, energizing feeling. It was probably one of the most spontaneous and enjoyable shoots I have done and though there were a few casualties at the end of the day (the skittles did not survive) and more than an hour later I was still finding tiny little skittles hiding in places where no skittles had gone before I was still smiling, apparently I was an intelligent child, playing with your food can be a lot of fun! I am currently in Toronto and will be visiting downtown Ottawa from Jan. 15-16. I can arrange to host at my upscale accommodations or should you prefer with advance notice I can arrange to visit you at your Ottawa location. To find out a little more about me, view some of my photos and of course to arrange a date please visit my website and email me at the address below. [email protected] http://www.ABenePlacito.com

You have been looking at my pictures for some time, reading my posts, wondering who I might be. You have no plans for the next few days and decide to send an email, you want to know if we can meet. You receive a response, thoughtful, intelligent and available for the time in question. You decide to meet, to spend a few hours with me, it's a time to relax, indulge and enjoy. I love the connection that I feel when I am with another human being, the intimacy of the moment, the honesty and vulnerability we all feel when exposed in front of another person. I do not believe in a menu, I do not offer any one particular thing. I enjoy connecting with the individual and seeing where the dynamic we create takes us. It's intimate and personal and I truly enjoy spending my time in this manner. I am tall, slender but with some all-natural curves that you will enjoy. My hair is a light brown that falls in gentle waves just past my shoulders, I have expressive blue eyes. My mind, my compassion and my passion are what sets me apart. I enjoy life, I take pride in myself and what I do and I enjoy spending time with a few select companions. If you enjoy the finer things in life, taking your time with a beautiful intelligent woman. If you enjoy sharing a laugh, some conversation, indulging all the senses, making more than just a physical connection, if you enjoy sensuality I would enjoy hearing from you. I will be in Toronto for the next few weeks and would love to make a new acquaintance or perhaps reconnect with a familiar face. Please note that like you I have obligations outside of this lifestyle that keep me quite busy, as such I do require a min. of 24hrs notice for all dates. Due to a recent change in plans my NYE has just opened up, if you are looking to ring in the New Year with a leggy brunette send me an email and we can explore the possibilities. [email protected] http://www.ABenePlacito.com

I have been described by others as sophisticated, sensual, and intensely intimate. I like to think of myself as all of these things and much more. [CENTER][img]http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7312/12866387333_a09333a525_z.jpg[/img][/CENTER] When we meet the first thing you'll notice is my tall and slender frame with all the right curves, at 5'9 I measure a natural 36D-26-34. I have very expressive blue eyes and soft brown hair that falls in waves just past my shoulders. I am in my 30â??s and have managed to maintain a youthful expression and beauty while conducting myself as a woman and not as a girl. What sets me apart beyond my excellent physique is my sharp wit and my extensive knowledge on a wide range of subjects, we will never be short of interesting and provocative topics to explore. I am selective and only entertain gentlemen who are interested in a connecting with me on multiple levels beyond the physical. [CENTER][img]http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/picture.php?albumid=7494&pictureid=58558[/img][/CENTER] If you are intrigued by the possibilities then I would encourage you to take a look at my website, to reach out via email and to spend a little time with me. I will be in Ottawa Jan. 15-16 and will be available to host at a downtown hotel. Please note that I only offer dates that are 2hrs or longer, I have never enjoyed the rushed feeling of a shorter engagement and enjoy meeting those with similar preferences. I look forward to speaking with you! [CENTER][img]http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/picture.php?albumid=7494&pictureid=62187[/img] [B][email protected] [url]www.ABenePlacito.com[/url][/B][/CENTER]

You have been looking at my pictures for some time, reading my posts, wondering who I might be. You have no plans for the days I am in Ottawa and decide to send an email, you want to know if we can meet. You receive a response, thoughtful, intelligent and available for the night in question. You decide to meet, to spend a few hours with me, it's a time to relax, indulge and enjoy. I make all the arrangements, we meet at a comfortable downtown hotel. I have a bottle of wine and have surrounded myself with candles. I am playing music, soaking in a nice bubble bath, relaxed I await your arrival. I spent my entire morning at the spa, preparing for you. The evening belongs to you. If you enjoy the finer things in life, taking your time with a beautiful intelligent woman. If you enjoy sharing a laugh, some conversation, indulging all the senses, making more than just a physical connection, if you enjoy sensuality I would enjoy hearing from you. [email protected] http://www.ABenePlacito.com

I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naive or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman. -Anaïs Nin I have always found this quote to ring true to who I am, not only in my personal life but in my professional one as well. I believe it's important to select ones companions carefully, to spend time with those that enrich our lives in some way and that goes for both the ladies and the gentlemen in this industry. I enjoy spending time with someone that makes me laugh, makes me think, and makes me feel like a woman and I in turn strive to make them laugh, challenge them to think about the world in a new way and to feel like a man desired by a beautiful woman. This shouldn't be hard, it's not great acting, it's a matter of choosing your companions well and spending time with those that you truly enjoy. I am currently in Toronto and would be happy to arrange for a date over the next few days. Whether you are looking for an escape from the holiday stresses or perhaps a special treat to ring in the new year I would enjoy spending some time with you. To arrange a date please contact me via email at the address below and to find out a little more about me please visit my website. I look forward to hearing from you! [email protected] http://www.ABenePlacito.com

For me the holidays are not just a time of joy spent with family and friends but it's a time for reflection, taking a moment to think of all those that may not be so fortunate. It's a time when I think of loved ones now gone, of those that perhaps are not able to leave the home for whatever circumstance and may find themselves alone or those that live in other parts of the world dealing with hunger, war and a general lack of personal security that we are fortunate to enjoy here in Canada. With all that in mind I thought I'd share the above song, a simple reminder to take a moment for those that may be spending their holiday alone, to make a call, say hello and if possible send a note or small gift. Everyone likes to know they are valued, they are appreciated and whether your best friend would prefer some oats or a bottle of cheer I do hope you find a way to let them know they are valued and loved. Many wishes for a wonderful holiday to you and all your loved ones! [email protected] http://www.ABenePlacito.com

Find beauty not only in the thing itself but in the pattern of the shadows, the light and dark which that thing provides. ~Junichiro Tanizaki Are you looking for someone that will capture your interest both behind closed doors and across the dinner table? Someone that looks as good in a dress as out of one? Perhaps you desire someone that can not only carry on a conversation but knows how to let her hair down when the night is done? I'd encourage you to take a look at my website, I am just the type of woman you are looking for. With a business background and experience outside of this industry I know how to entertain. I can be a chameleon both blending into a work function, lighting up a room when you want someone on your arm for a night on the town or putting on my snow pants and hitting the slopes for an energetic escape from the city (Note: I'm still learning so expect a few tumbles!) Still there are times when you just want to relax after a long day, enjoy a glass of wine, forget about audits, proposals, and year end deadlines that are coming your way. When you want to take a few hours to yourself, enjoy the company of a beautiful woman and relax staring into those brilliant blue eyes and enjoying those long toned legs I am just the companion for you. I will be in Toronto throughout the holidays and into early January. It's never too early to plan ahead as I am already scheduling well into the spring and always appreciate a man that knows what he wants and goes after it. I am always happy to travel to your city or arrange for the two of us to go on a little adventure together should you be interested in a winter escape. For information please visit my website and to make arrangements contact me at the email address below. [email protected] http://www.ABenePlacito.com

I have always felt that you can learn more about me, the person you will spend time with by getting to know my likes and my dislikes than by reading a bunch of statistics on a page. Please take a moment to visit my website, see my blog and my images, each one has been selected because of the visual representation of my personality, I hope they tell you a little about who I am and you walk away feeling you know me a little better. I know you will enjoy what you find. Varekai inspires me, it makes my heart beat a little faster, it makes me smile and gives me an energy inside that is difficult to put into words. I love the music, mystical performances and the incredible talent that Cirque brings to each show. It's another world where one believes in magic, fairytales and the mythical stories of years gone by. For me it excites the imagination, provides a certain excitement and desire and I marvel at both the world they create and the world we live in that has inspired these transformations. The solo of crutches is one of my favorites, his dance is awkward, puppet like in it's movement and it is what inspires Icarus to fly once again. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7aEnQz31IL8 It is followed by the twins, Castor & Pollux, on ariel straps. In my opinion it's one of the most beautiful acts Cirque as ever put together and the music provides an uplifting background that makes me want to fly with them. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b4ZskPD9mfE What inspires you? I am currently in Toronto and available until Nov. 29. or after Dec. 15. To arrange a date please contact me via email. [email protected] http://www.ABenePlacito.com

How I remember sleepless nights When we would read by candlelight, And on the windowpane outside A new world made of snow; A million feathers falling down, A million stars that touch the ground, So many secrets to be found Amid the falling snow. Maybe I am falling down. Tell me should I touch the ground? Maybe I won't make a sound In the darkness all around. The silence of a winter's night Brings memories I hold inside; Remembering a blue moonlight Upon the fallen snow. Maybe I am falling down. Tell me should I touch the ground? Maybe I won't make sound In the darkness all around. I close my window to the night. I leave the sky her tears of white. And all is lit by candlelight Amid the falling snow. -Enya I have been sitting indoors watching the first real snowfall we have had since yesterday, the lyrics for this song running through my mind. Last night I lit some candles, opened a wonderful bottle of red wine and watched the snow fall outside. A soft white blanket wrapped around me, the red wine warming my body as I drank it and the flickering of many candles provided the perfect backdrop to the falling snow. I think it's important to take time to relax, unwind and enjoy the world that surrounds us, taking pleasure in such little things as the warmth of the candlelight to the way the wind suddenly changes direction and sends the snow in a massive flurry upwards before continuing it's journey downward to blanket the streets around me. That's todays little pleasure and what has provided such passion and warmth for me on a cold day. I am looking forward to repeating my night. What pleasures will your day bring? [email protected] http://www.ABenePlacito.com

Gosh... pink shoes and scotch. I may be in love. Though we have not met your posts have brought me a few laughs and even made me think a few times and for that I thank you. Being a person that would much rather have a fancy Japanese musical toilet rather than any football game I hope you find several amazing Super Bowls hiding throughout the city and get them to deliver a flower scented spritz your way - how is that not more fun than some silly sporting event? ;) Hope you don't mind I'm going to dip into the scotch early and pour myself some now, I just want to be in practice for when you decide we need to share that drink. Cheers to you! *hic*

Tiny little snowflakes fall softly outside the hotel window melting as they reach the sidewalk below, the soft lights from the city below illuminate them as they dance across the sky in their never ending journey downwards. It's early in the evening, we have just poured ourselves a glass of wine and are unwinding after a long day. Your arms wrapped around me. At this point there is only some thin blue lace separating our bodies, ever so teasingly. The music plays a familiar song. I spent my entire day preparing for you. You know this because I let sent you a teasing little note telling you I was in the bath, doing my toes, putting on makeup, getting the room ready. All just to see you this evening. All day you were excited, you liked knowing that I spent the day preparing for our date, preparing for you and that soon you would be at my door, gazing into those brilliant blue eyes. At some point you realize this little fantasy will end but not just yet, for now the time belongs to us and right now the only thing that you have to worry about is removing the cork and of course what comes next. If you enjoy the finer things in life, taking your time with a beautiful intelligent woman. If you enjoy sharing a laugh, some conversation, indulging all the senses, making more than just a physical connection, if you enjoy sensuality I would enjoy hearing from you. I will be in Toronto until Nov. 28 and available with advance notice, should you wish to meet in the city or perhaps arrange a private rendezvous anywhere our passports may take us please reach out to me via email. I look forward to hearing from you. [email protected] http://www.ABenePlacito.com

Those who dream by day are cognizant of many things that escape those who only dream at night. -Edgar Allen Poe I am an early riser; I love waking slowly with the morning sun streaming through the windows, warming the room, lingering in the warm bed while the day begins. Watching the sun rise, the people run off to work, while I linger in a nice hot shower, a fluffy white robe covering my naked and still wet body, it all comes together to make the morning special, memorable and inviting. I am available in Toronto from now until Dec. 1. I'd love to spend some time with someone that is like minded, someone that would enjoy relaxing in a room lit only by candles and the early morning sun, where the smell of fresh brewed coffee fills the air and we nibble a little fresh fruit prepared by the hotel; where tasting and teasing are our only plans. An early morning indulgence where we can focus on each other and all the wonderful pleasures that surround us. If this is you, if this is something you'd enjoy please let me know. I am looking forward to candle light and wonderful company. If you prefer to meet outside of Toronto, perhaps a more private and exclusive engagement in another city or town please contact me about a travel date. I would be happy to make the appropriate arrangements. [email protected] http://www.ABenePlacito.com

Ask the client for her contact information, he had to contact her somehow. Oh and then yes you do verify it online, search the information given, that's a part of the job to verify that the information is legitimate. If you cannot find any information, you just have a phone number that is unlisted and not searchable in any way then for all you know you could be contacting a friend and it's not a legitimate reference. You are trying to ensure your safety, if you take that seriously then you invest time in it, if it isn't a high priority then you take a risk seeing the client which is entirely your prerogative. Still there is no point in asking for references if you are not going to check them, it's just busy work for both you and the client.

Sorry if this has been posted already, I did a quick scan and didn't see it. Police released the suspects image as they believe there may be other victims out there. Ladies please take a look. http://toronto.ctvnews.ca/arrest-made-in-death-of-sex-trade-worker-1.2056524

To be clear they always were in Vancouver, we have just been spreading out into their habitat and with habitat loss they are being forced to adapt and integrate. As we Canadians are deforesting at an alarming rate, (We're number one, we're number one!! oh wait... :icon_frown:) conflict with wildlife will continue to rise and we will need to adapt just as the animals are. We cannot live without them, they have an and we cannot be the sole gatekeepers of the earth and all of it's habitats/ecosystems, that would be hubris on our part. In regards to the one woman that was killed by a coyote 5 years ago, ummm... ? Yes it's sad but that is all it is, let's not look to much into it or try to draw meaning from it where there is none. From what I could find you have about 800 people killed by sheep in a year so perhaps we should watch out for the lowly sheep, they are menacing and vicious, sneaky and evil. :icon_wink: Or perhaps more importantly we can recognize that all human and non-human animal interactions require caution and care but it doesn't mean the animal is bad when someone is injured or killed. Predatory behaviour doesn't actually equal aggression, it's predatory behaviour and there is a difference, respond appropriately and you just might survive (assuming you aren't appropriate prey) but if you act like prey then you might find yourself in trouble. Of course if you respond with aggression then you will escalate a situation, this is true when dealing with anything in life, people or animals as aggression is aggression and we all fight for survival. We like to think we as humans are the ones that will win these interactions but the fact is when you take away our guns we are just poo flinging apes and pretty weak ones at that, not a great match for bears, sharks, wolves and coyotes. *Now this thread was about coats, perhaps someone has a great coat recommendation for the OP. I'm still on the Hoodlamb ones but Vaute Couture just came out with this one with a Primaloft fill which I think is quite stylish too, definitely a lighter jacket than the Hoodlamb ones but a good around the city jacket. (they also have some nice dress jackets for men) http://vautecouture.com/collections/men/products/the-derek-in-quilted

Personally I like Hoodlamb coats if you are looking for that style, just another option and they don't use real fur or down. Of course if you are looking for something that is warm and durable for sport something with Primaloft fill (like The North Face "Thermoball") will be good in humid and wet conditions which let's face it winter can be. :) http://www.hoodlamb.com/

I find the article to be poorly thought out. I thought we were finally past the idea that sexual preference is not a choice but rather it something we are born with. The choice to see a sex worker is indeed a choice, that is a huge part of what the discussion surrounding the proposed legislation is, do we have the freedom of choice both as sex workers and as clients and how far should those choices extend. Though I do not believe in the proposed legislation we as a society live with a ton of legislation that is based 'on moral grounds', and when we do not agree with the morals being proposed we debate and discuss. The sexual preferences of the LGBTTIQQ2SA* community should not be a debate of morals or ethics but one of science and recognizing that people have a right to live their life how they identify. I not only see the comparison of the two as offensive but it cheapens the argument for sex workers and clients. Staying on topic, discussing the issues that surround it as to whether we believe the legislation is good or not is important but saying that it is comparable to the persecution that others in history faced for something that was not at all a choice is a logical fallacy. *Thankfully it's World Pride right now, I had to Google that to be sure I had the current acronym I think I lost it at LGBTQ

It's not an issue of supply and demand, that is a mistake that far too many people make in this business. Supply and demand would apply if we were selling widgets but we are not, we are far more comparable to knowledge workers, this business is all about the individual provider, their particular skill set, 'value added services' and of course relationship selling. Almost every lady has a different business and profit model, see three different ladies and you'll discover three different areas they focus their attention as well as different plans for success. Clients select ladies based on their individual needs and interests, cost is actually a very small factor compared to value. Yes there is a limit to what any individual client will spend but you only have to look at the various business models to know that there are clients in all price ranges and certainly enough to keep any one individual in a price bracket busy. If you feel like you are being undercut then you need to evaluate your own business, see what is comparable in your particular market segment and what sets you apart and focus on that. If you compare yourself to businesses outside of your market then you will always feel like you are on the losing end simply because it's not your market and not your business model. As always I'll use myself as an example, if I compare myself to ladies with rates less than my own I often notice they have a larger client base, work more frequently and have less overhead. There are also a huge number of clients that will see them and will not see me, some because they see no value in the particular date I offer and others because my consideration is simply out of their price range. If I compared my own business to these ladies I would appear to come up lacking in several specific areas, this does not however mean that I am not successful or running an effective business. If I compare myself to the ladies that charge more than I do I find that often they are travelling more (by request) and have a smaller but more loyal client base. Depending on their individual model often their overhead is a little higher and they tend to require far more flexibility in their personal lives - something I do not have. So again on a one to one comparison of any particular area I appear come up lacking but that doesn't take the entire business model into account. What truly matters is does my model work for me? I have enough clients that I am happy, my current model integrates well with my 'outside life' and it allows me both the freedom to pursue other interests without compromising on the things that are important to me when going in to an individual date. You have to compare with other ladies that are in your market, evaluate how your business is working for you and if there are areas you need to improve on. There is always some cross-over in clientele, some people will see me, you and another lady with a consideration that is either higher or lower than ours or perhaps simply has a longer (or shorter) date minimum. That part of the market isn't nearly as big as the people that 'shop' within a particular interest or business model and it's those clients that you focus on, the others will come and go anyway and you generally won't build a loyal clientele out of them.

I generally change what I drink with the season, in the winters I enjoy a nice full bodied red like a Barolo or a California Cab but in the summer I'll switch it up for a sweeter white perhaps a Gewürztraminer or Reisling. Today I opened a California Chardonnay so I guess I'm in between seasons, just like outside. It's actually a fantastic wine from Newton Vineyards, one of my favs that my assistant turned me onto. http://www.newtonvineyard.com/

I honestly couldn't believe it when I first heard about it, it's almost April! I have never been so tired of winter but this year is really testing my patience, I've been stuck in so many storms and airports that I have lost count. Fortunately I heard about this in advance so I'll be in Toronto not NS when it hits but Wed. was the day I was supposed to fly... and well I'm definitely not doing that now. I do hope everyone stays safe and warm and that their are minimal power disruptions, I know for me that's one of the worst parts of a winter storm - losing heat! Stay safe and warm everyone!

It's great to be committed to what you want to do and to be serious about it, having strong ethics is important especially in a career such as that. Still sometimes it's important to also consider the spirit of the rule and not just what they are saying. I mean some people are incredibly safe in this industry, see people only a couple times a year and would be low risk. Then some people that are in a committed relationship will have unprotected sex with their partner who maybe isn't as committed to the relationship, so their risk factor is much higher. There are no absolutes but you try to be careful and understand if you are genuinely at risk or not. Oh and trust me if everyone in the health profession avoided seeing companions we'd be in trouble. I suspect there are a few Surgeons, Radiologists, Oncologists, Anesthesiologists, Dentists, Dermatologists, Pathologists, Cardiologists, etc. that are keeping some of your favourite ladies in business... just a hunch though. :tongue:

Not only should you not apologize but it's important for everyone to remember there are actually plenty of board members that might qualify, we see lots of threads each year from people that post "Still haven't taken the plunge, long time lurker but thinking about it..." The fact is it's a good reminder for people and yes though Canadian Blood Services does rule out a large number of us for multiple reasons there are still others on here that can donate and more importantly friends, family and loved ones that also can and it's good to keep it top of mind as you never know who in our lives might also need a blood donation. I too fall in the category of cannot donate, not just for the obvious reason but like a few others on here the extensive questionnaire rules me out in more than one place however I've had loved ones that have needed blood before and I am truly grateful to those that donate. I also have a pet that is a blood donor, not everyone realizes this but sometimes our little furry friends need blood too and mine have donated in the past to help save the lives of a few shelter animals and other pets that came into my Vets office, little ones that needed a helping hand (and a cooperative universal donor). It's good to give back when and where you can. Oh and my furry one was rewarded with a ton of treats and snuggles... well when I was forgiven. ;)

Have you thought about getting a custom gown done or perhaps for those days when you venture out with the backside on display a tattoo on your derriere? In all seriousness I'm glad you are okay, sounds like a really tough day.

The perceived quality of any date, longer or shorter, seems more to depend on knowing what you want and selecting the right sort of companion for that date. There are many ladies that enjoy shorter encounters, they find the 30min. option ideal as they prefer a more physical encounter and there is no shortage of clients that also seek that out. Then there are ladies that are uncomfortable in shorter time frames, have min. 1hr (or longer) dates because they like to go a little slower, ease into the date if you will. There are a number of clients that seek out this sort of companionship as well. A 1hr date can be entirely physical or it can be a little slower, where you have a little conversation and some time to sip wine or lie back and relax together. In that situation you really just need to know your companion, know what type of date she prefers as it will flow best when you are both on the same page. Figure out what you find most appealing, whether you prefer a date with more of a mental connection or something that is more of a raw physical encounter then seek out a lady that has similar tastes. If you connect with someone with a similar interest then it will be a quality date. :)