Alexa Cummings

Cleanliness is always number one for me. Appearance goes as, well groomed, taken care of, clean clothes, not having to have the business man look but casual laid back is always best. Treat us with respect and you will get that and nine times out of ten, much more! I have found that the not so best looking gentlemen have treated me far better than a sexy hunk business man. I think it is rude of us to judge you as we are offering ourselves to you and in that case, no matter how beautiful we are or "out of your league we may appear..That is why we are here so you can experience us and be comfortable! Never put yourself down over looks, its the kind soft hearted, respectable gents I always mesh well with.

Being in the dancing industry off and on over the years I am kind of caught in the middle with both comments here... Simply due to: 1. When you go a stripclub and ask to be on stage, normally you are telling them what it is you would like and I know that it can be costly, they will tell you their limit for ladies to go up and as long as you pay it shouldnt be a problem. There I can agree with being ripped off. 2. When you are asking ladies to do certain things on stage yes I can understand it will make the clients not so happy and that it may hurt he ladies business. So that would be a part of where you didnt get exactly what you wanted. However, my philosophy about stripclubs have always been, the clients see the ladies going around sitting on guys laps and hugging and rubbing on them anyways....A guy going on stage for his bachelor party, that is just them showing just what could happen given the right amount of cash and make others want the same. I myself was at barefax the other night to end a night of clubbing and was not impressed with what I saw. We were waiting at the table and didnt get table service for about 15 minutes and no ladies came up to us and we had a couple of guys and girls sitting at the table. And when the ladies went on stage they didnt even dance on the pole. I was amazed at how easy they got off and where I dance in Toronto when we go on stage we make sure we give a show that will impress and leave you wanting more. I guess it all depends on where you go and whos working. It can be a hit or miss but Im sorry that happened to you because that is unfortunate as a not everyday kind of thing to happen and you are looking for fun!

As a sp who in the past has traveled to different cities (trip out west and frequent visits to Toronto) it does cost! When I visit Toronto I am usually in a Very Upscale Hotel and they are not cheap. When I traveled to Alberta I had air fares and hotel fees as well as studio fees as I was renting a condo for the duration of my stay. We all have our regular fees for when we are in our home city. However, when it comes to traveling I couldnt agree more with the ladies here expressing that yes our price may go up and if it does it could be for more then one reason. My biggest reason is always "We are a treat to your city and consider us a 'Limited Time' while we are there". We arent always gonna be available in whatever city we are in until our return and having said that yes we may choose to up our menu options as we are not like the lady next door where you can come by any day you choose. There is limited space to see us and we have to make our schedules flexible. Then there are the other reasons such as our traveling fees. And yes sometimes we do have no shows and others it turns out excellent. So for someone to say they think that a sp is charging too much or isnt going by the going rate is uncalled for. It all depends on the lady and the setting. If she chooses to mark herself in the 300+ range and makes out well then she is clearly worth every penny and much more! And if not then I am sure she will figure things out for the next trip. Everyone has their comfortable price that works well with them just like many agencies do as well... But I also feel that when it comes to agencies it is a whole other situation then dealing with a lady individually. You must always also put into consideration that we have certain demands we must keep up to such as: Hair, nails, outfits, etc. Sometimes we get special demands and others we just have to keep ourselves looking our best...This all comes into how we market ourselves.

I have to agree with you Luxie, I actually had this problem myself today. I checked my work email (which I dont usually book same day appointments on) and there were 4 people requesting an appointment at a specific time and they never even called. So I responded that if they would like to book its best to call me as I dont have time to often check my emails and respond quickly and that the ideal way to reach is yes a text if you are intimidated or a call if your looking for something as they say "asap"

Family is one of the most important things. Without them ultimately it can feel sometimes as if you have nothing. I think a bond between a parent and a child (being a mother myself) cannot be compared to any kind of love out there in the world. It is the strongest love I have ever known. And yes, for a man to openly be able to express his feelings I think that it is incredible as not many are able to and I think that being able makes you all that much more better of a man not being scared of hiding your feelings. Congratulations on your daughters Univeristy! This will be something that will make a new beginning for her and its memories like this you will want to cherish as she steps out into the world.