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Originally, my only point was whether it was right for this section of CL to be taken over for advertising services that it was specifically designed to avoid advertisements from. There was no implication made about the quality of the advertisers here. The reason CL decided to stop advertising adult services was as a result of threats from the US government. It first eliminated the adult services in the States, and then it made this a mandatory directive throughout the world. It had nothing to do with whether the advertisers in this section were "shady". It was just a corporate directive worldwide.

It feels almost like as if people are regularly driving west on the eastbound lane, now.

I noticed in the therapeutic section of CL that the vast majority are erotic now. It's a little unfortunate as I can see how inconvenient it would be to find a real therapeutic massage anymore. CL's own policy is at fault here, they should've never shutdown their adult services section here in Canada, as there was no real crackdown from the governments here, and it was all just an America-only brouhaha, as usual.

Oh my god, I can't believe somebody else remembers Cheek's!?

Rimming is something that will only get offered to you after you get to know someone. Good luck.

I did, but that might be asking too much of some guys, so I kept the genuine vs. pretend interest part optional for them. If you're only going to be able to muster pretend interest, then that's all you can muster. ;)

Although everyone usually says downtown is the most convenient, mainly because of its central location where everyone can get to it, I think it's a bitch to park in. Only time it's convenient in DT is evenings or weekends. Every other time, you pretty much gotta get there by bus (and who wants to get to a session by bus?). I personally think going against the herd towards downtown is the best bet. Don't go out into any extreme locations like Kanata or Orleans, but stay in the central-east or central-west, or central-south areas. There should be good enough parking available there. Most people who have cars will not have a problem getting to you no matter where you are, as long as you're somewhat close to the Queensway.

I don't normally go to Nuden, but I was in earlier in the week because I was getting my car repaired nearby. I saw the menu, but didn't really look at it in detail, how reasonable are the prices for the Nuden food compared to say food from a food court in a mall? Also noticed that the WiFi inside the club was named Obsessions2, is Obsessions a different place from Nuden?

Yeah, the chemistry thing is a big factor, I find that if I'm having trouble holding a conversation with somebody before the dance, then she's not going to be any good in the dance either. That's one of my filtering techniques actually. And I don't mean having trouble with holding a conversation because of language differences either. I've had plenty of fun discussions with girls who barely spoke any English, lots of body language used instead. If there's chemistry between you two, then you'll both find a way to connect. Also you gotta know when to give up on a girl. Sometimes your little brain sees a real hot girl, you call her over and you got no chemistry, but your little brain still wants to see her naked. Those are really hard to let go, but you gotta let go of them.

How is your conversation like with these dancers? I find that if you sit and talk and joke with them a bit before the dance, they are much freer and opener with you during the dance. For example, a buddy of mine with terrible conversation skills is always amazed by how much action I can get with the girls in the CR. He often gets to a CR, and he comes out right away because he's pissed off the dancer in some way. I'm not saying you would be that bad, but sitting and listening to their conversation and looking interested goes a long way.

I was surprised to find out that she's 34, I would've easily guessed 24. She's even got an 18 year old daughter just entering uni. I tried telling her how much I love her hips, and she asked if I was implying she was fat? :icon_eek: No winning on that subject with women, you pay them a compliment and they may start crying. :)

I never take more than 1 or 2 dances with anybody. :)

And it looks like Cara is now gone. The girls here seem to leave then come back, hope Cara does the same, or I hope somebody knows where she is now.

It wasn't as much of a mountain when I saw her, it was well managed. Perhaps she trimmed it a little.

Was in the neighborhood. Had a dance with Cayenne, either the hot pepper or the Porsche, take your pick. ;) Tall Italian girl, 5'6". Long wavy hair, very friendly. No problem with the CR more than enough privacy. Also saw Audrey, similar description as Cayenne, but shorter straighter brunette hair. Audrey is a French girl, but quite good English. Not bad, but I preferred Cayenne. Petra, tall, curvy girl with hips to die for, 5'8". Long, straight hair, down past her shoulders. With her heals she must've been over 6'. Quite friendly.

As Skinflute said, the ladies at Michelle's seem to specialize in this. Additional Comments: It doesn't have to go towards full penetration. Just stimulation of the rectum often suffices. Oral stimulation is even hotter (and for obvious reasons, rarer).

BP = back-pages

I think you're talking about Sweet 300?

Actually one of my own problems is that I like to see certain girls, and I'm not interested in other girls. Giving them the "I'm only here to see the stage show" excuse falls flat when they see you taking another girl into the CR. What's the best excuse for those situations? Also, to OP, a good place where you won't be assaulted constantly by dancers is Taboo, Playmate, and Silver Dollar.

Update on this, I finally managed to see this girl Adora, the boobs are enhanced as I thought. She's a little finicky in the CR, but she will eventually do stuff your way.

Where was this earlier Oasis? It's not the same Oasis that's there now, is it?

Hi Lee, I'll admit I was one of the ones that expressed concern about what you were doing. But now knowing your history better, since you started as an SP, where you're coming from makes more sense to me. Still part of the reason the "concern" was brought up was not so much about anything that you specifically were doing, you were probably a convenient sounding board about a debate about general service levels offered by each tier of services. I think there are too many (perhaps artificial) barriers that have been put up between massage and escort, which might now be time to dismantle. The barriers were put up because of concerns about LE interference, but the laws may now be changing enough that some of these old taboos may no longer apply.

Yes exactly, because of competition from the indies. And whether or not customers are currently allowed to ask an MA (either indy or spa) about BBBJ is irrelevant, because once the first one allows it, it's going to become an acceptable question to ask at all these places. Things always work out this way. I have no problem one way or another whether this is an acceptable question from now on, but I would just like to have a level playing field where all of the providers agree it's either acceptable or not. Once the floodgates are open, they are open, that's why.

Me thinks that this lady is going to be very busy soon. :)

I understand what you're saying, and I have no problem with your logic as it is. However, it does set up a situation with two separate sets of rules for MA's, one for indies, and one for spa girls. Will the spas now be obligated to allow BBBJ's too, in order to compete against indies?