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And sometimes, you can have such a good time at ALO that you're still not allowed to talk about it here. :bddog:

Since you said your experience was in Pennsylvania, the situation might have been different over there, as prostitution is totally illegal over there. So the girls are in a bit more of a wary attitude over there than here. So any sort of public communication might be a no-no, just communicate when she gets to your hotel room and that's it. I would just suggest that you try one of the ladies in town instead. And as the ladies have suggested here, they are a bit more open to communications here in town than they would've been in PA.

It's YMMV of course, but try some of the girls at Angels Touch/Paradise. I could recommend SabrinaR, but she's not everybody's body type.

What type of service is this?

I believe she used to work many years ago at Angels Touch/Paradise.

Maybe, but so far most municipalities have shown very little inclination to include stripclubs into their definition of prostitution. It seems that provinces and municipalities will be selectively enforcing this law, simply because they realize how ill-conceived it is. There are so many ways of interpreting everything in it, it's just begging for the courts to come in and gut it and quickly. There have been previous rulings over the years, which set a precedent about the status of stripclubs, I suspect that whatever precedents have already been set, is the way things will remain with stripclubs. My feeling is that with this little bit of stability, stripclub popularity will go up again, as more "interactive" forms of entertainment will become illegal to purchase.

I might be wrong here, but I think that the problem here is that with CMJ, since it's an all-inclusive price, there are no separate payments for door fees and tips, so you pay all at once. At other places, you'd be paying each of these separately at different phases of the session, so there's less chance of just running away without paying anything. I guess it's a trade-off between convenience, and additional procedures.

Go for it, Candy's not your wife, you don't have to stay faithful to her.

Well, anything is possible, but I would think that if you have an established relationship with certain spas or their girls, then keeping on seeing them shouldn't be a problem. We'd probably have to be more careful about seeing new providers and stuff, though.

It usually isn't, but it seems to confuse the newer providers sometimes. They misinterpret it. I sometimes keep my shorts or towel on, just to be mysterious to them. :pimp: But then, I eventually let my wandering hands brush against their legs, and that's usually a sign that they can understand meaning that I want a bit more. That brushing against the legs or caressing has to be handled extremely delicately, so that it doesn't seem all creepy.

Yeah, some of them are more liberal with their clue interpretations than others. ;)

Nope, nothing that you could've done at the end, the impression was already made by that point. Draping the towel around yourself was the mistake. We've all had these situations in the past. Best best is to simply avoid going to that place again, or at least seeing that provider again. So are you saying this happened to you when you went to see Sarah (since she's the subject of this thread)? Or was it someone else at this location?

Does your partner show any signs of interest in women?

Hard to say, did you keep your underwear on when she entered the room? Or did you put a towel around yourself? MA's often interpret these as signs that you're there only for a basic massage. Because if you wanted more, you wouldn't be shy about showing yourself naked to them.

Perfect solution, no need to mention any specific spa at all. And the meaning of the original message becomes even more clear then.

MA's are a bit shier about posting such pix. There are a few though, check out JessicaMassage, for example.

A buddy and I dropped in today (well yesterday by now), in the evening. It was relatively quiet, today strangely. My buddy took Devine, an athletic blonde, 5'4" (6' with the heels), she had a spinner body, with well toned abs. Tiny little itty-bitties (natural, of course). She said she is from Toronto, touring in Ottawa this week, says she'll be gone by Sunday. She had relatively above-average CR mileage. Willing to offer extracurriculars, for a steep price, of course. I took another blonde spinner, Mikaela. 5'3". Not as well toned as Devine, but quite cute. Tiny itty-bitties as well. Reasonable in the CR. Also willing to do extracurriculars. Then there were other girls, who we didn't have time to see personally. Quite a few ebony girls today, at least 3-4 of them, only caught one name Cassie. And one other spinner blonde, Briana or Bree-Bree. Not sure why so many blonde spinners or ebony girls today.

I got into this hobby when I was single, on again, off again. But I don't think I've ever needed this hobby as much as I do after getting married. Typical problems, we can't communicate with each other properly, trying to communicate only makes it worse. She constantly misinterprets what I'm trying to say, weirdest things end up in fights. Best to keep quiet, so she has fewer opportunities to misinterpret me. No sex, I don't even ask anymore. Without the hobby, I'd have to fume under my collar, until I blew up. In the hobby, I get to joke around with the girls, they enjoy my stories, they tell me their stories. It really does relieve the tension, both physically and mentally. Additional Comments: Wow, your kids are okay with it?!? You should almost choose, "don't keep it secret, and she's okay with it". ;) The kids are acting as a proxy for your wife, I guess. How did you find out about this world?

I posted the following link the General section, Ottawa hobbyists should check it out. Link: The hobby and your relationship? - CERB - Canadian Escort Recommendation Board

I posted the following link the General section, Ottawa hobbyists should check it out. Link: The hobby and your relationship? - CERB - Canadian Escort Recommendation Board

I posted the following link the General section, Ottawa hobbyists should check it out. Link: The hobby and your relationship? - CERB - Canadian Escort Recommendation Board

Then how are you supposed to get addicted to it? :bddog:

I posted the following link the General section, Ottawa hobbyists should check it out. Link: The hobby and your relationship? - CERB - Canadian Escort Recommendation Board

I've communicated with her, but she holds some very strange hours, so I haven't been able to connect. She's also not very quick about answering texts.

Been talking to other hobbyists on this and other boards, and been finding some uncanny similarities between their lives at home and mine. But at the same time, I've also talked to other hobbyists who have quite different relationships with their SO's. I'm wondering, amongst the hobbyists here, how many of us are sneaking around behind an SO's back? And why? So I'm asking for a vote. Which best describes your hobbying status right now? Being in a relationship can either mean being married or having a girlfriend (whether live-in or not). After you've voted, post a message describing how and why you got into this hobby.