I have an Sp friend of mine who got turned down once and got the full money for it. This is what she said:
I took the time to get all dolled up for you, drive to this hotel, I actually took the time off my day to come and see you, my pictures are a very clear representation of me, my description about myself is exact so if you are not happy, it is because you asked me to come without reading my website or looking at my pictures. You are wasting my time. I can leave without a problem, but you need to pay me for my trouble.
Personally, I could never do that. I wouldn't want to be with a man that doesn't want to be with me. I got turned down just once when I started 2 years ago and was working with an agency, but I am pretty sure the guy was on heavy duty drugs so it was better off this way. :)
Maria
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