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he·don·ism (h d n- z m). n. 1. Pursuit of or devotion to pleasure, especially to the pleasures of the senses. Women, men, couples, fetishes and cross dressers are most welcome and appreciated. Couples please add an additional $100 to any of the packages below. Please add $20 for out calls to downtown hotels, River Rock Casino, or the airport Fairmont. For the month of December and January if you bring me a $10 or more donation to the food bank or a receipt for a donation to a charity (you just have to show it to me), please add a free half hour to any of the services below :) Deluxe Massage: This package is all about self indulgent pampering. My massage includes a full head to toe deep tissue massage, with a slippery body slide, all along your 2001 body parts, finishing with a slow, sexy, sensual hand (or foot) release. $120/1hr, $180/1.5hrs (in call only) (please add $40 for prostate massage) Non full service safe gfe (no intercourse): The same amazing gfe but only to 3rd base ;) $200/1hr, $300/1.5hrs, $400/2hrs All inclusive sexy fun (safe gfe): I'm an extremely passionate woman. I love to touch and be touched. $250/1hr, $350/1.5hrs, $450/2hrs (Traveling to the greek isles, please add $50) Alternative Services: Smothering, bondage, foot worship, body worship, spanking, wrestling, cbt, ball busting, tease & denial, corporal punishment, gagging with panties, humiliation, waxing, hot wax/ice, nipple torture, slapping, spitting, head scissors, trampling, some role playing $250/1hr, $350/1.5hrs, $450/2hrs Extended times : This is a combination of any or all of the above packages. We can stay in or go out on the town. I'm available for sporting events, clubbing, dinner, or what would you like to do? I'm super easy going and I laugh easily. I have a wide range of tastes and I can have fun anywhere. $550/3hrs, $700/4hrs, $900/6hrs, $1000/8hrs

I have been bisexual since puberty. I am completely capable of falling in love with a man or a woman. Some of my best friends are very, very gay. I have 2 very good friends that are transgendered. This is Harpers stance on gay rights. His views on prostitution are bad enough, but imo, this is worse. So archaic. What decade is he from? I haven't voted for years, but May 2nd, I'm definitely voting. I'm so passionate about my freedom to marry who I want. If Harper gets in I will cry. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xFbPz6hMa1c

Very, very, very true, but......um...... Bush is American. Last I checked, I'm Canadian. I think Harper is just as bad as Bush. I also wouldn't be surprised if he has American backing. Harper stands for every reason why I'm glad I'm not American. ugh, I hate him so much. I don't hate Americans, just their politics. Their stance on gay rights, health care, prostitution, and weed.

I'm a non smoker. I personally don't care if anybody smokes. I don't want smoking in my place (because of my furniture and clothes) and I don't want to kiss cigarette breath, but that's what mouth wash and gum is for. As for your clothes smelling, hopefully they'll be on the floor or hung up, so who cares what they smell like? Don't worry about it. I'm sure you smell wonderful. I'm sure 50% of my clients smoke, I never notice. I have one client, that I can tell he just had a smoke in the car before ringing my bell, but a shower and some mouth wash and I don't notice anymore. There are much, much, much worse things to smell. Some of my best friends are smokers :D

If anybody knows how destructive the world of prostitution is, then Burnaby resident Tania Fiolleau would know. I'm definitely not saying her experience isn't valid, just heavily exaggerated and made up in parts. I'm going to go through this piece by piece and share my experience/what I know, and what I have seen first hand Fiolleau was also in an abusive marriage. Having left that situation and living in a battered women's shelter, she discovered she didn't qualify for legal aid in the custody battle with the father of their two sons. I think an abusive relationship, having too spend tons of money on a custody battle, and having your dreams shattered will definitely leave scars and make you bitter. Who's to say her ptsd, didn't come from that. Why blame sex work? She saw an ad in the newspaper promising $1,500 a day in a fun, friendly and safe environment and applied, not knowing exactly what she was getting into. "I was told it was erotic massage or a body slide" - she understood body slide to mean no more than rubbing her breasts on a client - but she found out differently the first time she had a client. Every interview I've ever been to, they tell you exactly what is expected of you in the room. They're customers are more important than you. Why would they want to send a girl in there that may run out crying because she didn't know she might have to touch a penis? Also when she started it was all run on a tipping system. the owners wanted to make sure you didn't over charge by not knowing what to charge. Yes you may not quite know what to expect. I know I was quite nervous my first one. But I walked in, knowing that I had to give a hand release or more. Also her friend would have completely filled her in. That's what girls do. Even as Fiolleau felt that what she was doing was wrong - "I would go home and scrub myself because I felt so dirty," she said - she couldn't turn down the big money that came with the job. Possible. I have known a few girls that have felt this way, sometimes. I'm sure everybody on the planet has had a bad day at the office, lol Definitely not every time, though. Some guys are a lot of fun. My experience is most guys are genuinely just looking to have a good old fashioned romp. After you've been doing this long enough you get a very highly tuned radar to ween out the creeps. "I was earning $1,700 per six-hour night shift," she said. "Once I learned how much I was making, I started working double shifts." Why exaggerate? Most people would be impressed if you said $1000. Not everyone goes to parlors looking for sex. Places like Cleos, Platinum, Swedish touch, le mirage, mata hara's, all started at hand jobs and went up to full service. The average prices were 100 for a hand job, 200 for a blow job and 300 for sex. Some times you had to negotiate down to 80, 150, and 200. and then you tipped in all the places I mentioned the manager 20 [sometimes more]. So if every single guy came in and paid the most, it would equal out to 21 hand jobs in a day, 9 blow jobs or 6 full services. Sometimes you got a high roller that would just keep on giving you money, so you ended up with well over her 1700, but they were rare. 10 years ago, an average night was between 400 and 800. A great night was over a G. I don't work as hard as I did back then, so I honestly don't know what others are making on a regular basis today, which is why I said a few years ago. Even as Fiolleau got advice from her co-workers, she didn't know how destructive the job was. "I remember one girl telling me, when I asked her how she did it, she told me 'I'm a robot,' so that's what I did when I was with a client, I became a robot too," she said. I know lots of girls that go through the motions and are robots. I've seen it first hand on outcalls, working for escort agencies. Come on, can you please at least pretend to smile, so we can stay longer? I've also witnessed lousy sales people in all forms of jobs, just going through the motions. Those girls often don't make as much money as the bubbly, happy girls. Same as any service job. Just the same as any job, some girls should be here, some shouldn't. "I guess I thought that running a brothel was better than being an escort," she said. "I owned the business, I ran the business, and it was one big muddy puddle I was in." Fiolleau also ran two top-secret penthouse brothels that catered to people wanting discreet encounters, which meant she was running four operations. If you run the place ethically and responsibly for both the men and the women, I don't see the problem? The problem with most brothels in Vancouver is the ridiculous fines they have for girls and the outrageous fees, and the way they take the clients word over yours. These kind of things can make you feel powerless, and as a woman, who was raised by feminist hippies, I hate that feeling. The number one reason I went independent is because I don't want to be pimped. At the touch, this guy came in and picked me. I told the manager I didn't want to see him, she told me if I felt that way, I could pack my bags and go, that I wasn't allowed to pick and choose. I understand her point, but ick. I hated him in the first 10 seconds because he was overbearing, grabby, rude and he turned out to be really cheap. I think women who are starting out in this business need a friendly, safe environment to learn the ropes. I worked at this one place, so long ago. the prices were all inclusive, so you didn't make as much per call, but she had no fines, and no hidden book on fees. You didn't have to tip anybody, or anything. She had the health nurses come in on a regular basis to explain about condoms, diseases, answer questions, etc. She invited vice to staff meetings to answer legal questions, and she had parties/staff meetings for the girls every few months. It wasn't a party for clients, just a party for the girls to show her appreciation. She also had contests. The girl that had the most calls that year got a trip for 2 to somewhere. The girl that turned over a new leaf and stopped getting complaints would get a 500 shopping certificate, etc. I didn't work there long, because I was used to more money at the time [only a month] then I went and danced in Niagara falls and had a blast. She used a rewards system and a camaraderie system to keep her girls in line, instead of a punishment and a fine system. Girls that were chronically irresponsible or bitchy were just given the least desirable shifts or fired. Her girls were the nicest and the most loyal of any I've seen. The money was coming in fast and furious, which was sorely needed because her custody case dragged on for more than four years, and Fiolleau estimated it cost her more than $400,000. At the end, Fiolleau promised the judge that if she won custody of her two boys, she would leave the business, and that's exactly what happened in 2002. "I got custody, so I left the business," she said. Good for you. I'm gald you are on the path to a happy and fulfilling life. "I'd become Christian at this point, and God told me, you have to walk away from this ... and write a book and help save the women who are in prostitution," said Fiolleau. Man, maybe you need a prescription for schizophrenia. Thats what most people need when they start hearing voices. And that's what Fiolleau did, spending the next two years writing Souled Out!, which she finally completed in October 2010. Good for you In her book, Fiolleau tells of her experience in what she calls "a sick world, full of broken dreams and empty promises, battered, shattered, sexually abused women, men and children. ... (The sex industry) is causing alarming divorce rates, teen pregnancies, STDs-AIDS, drug usage, not to mention altered views of what sex really means." Where do you get these statistics from? You're as crazy as most bible thumpers. just make up stuff to sell books? Fiolleau said proceeds of the book don't go to her, but rather will go back into raising awareness and doing prevention for sexually exploited women and children and human traffic victims. Really? That's good, but I doubt it You're going to try and make money to live, other wise you will be right back where you left "Please do not judge these girls/men any longer that are in the sex industry. Know that most of them are being 'forced' to do it, physically or mentally, by manipulation of people around them. I definitely know women that have had all the above happen to them, but weren't you also manipulated by your husband? It doesn't just happen in the sex trade and it not all sex trade workers. "It could be your sister, your mother, your best friend's girl or even your daughter - and then think, is it all really worth the 'thrill' of self-gratification that lasts only a couple minutes? You are destroying lives of countless women while you do it - feeding the monster the sex industry has become. And now you are part of it too ... for there must be enablers to create victims. blah blah blah. Why are you trying to take my power as a woman away from me? Please stop. I agree with staying away from kiddie stroll, but if someone is over 19 have at er. "Be part of my campaign to help educate these women, clients and the public. If we can just save even one life, it was all worth it." That's a lofty cause. I sincerely wish you luck in your endeavors. I just wish you didn't paint all sex workers with the same brush I'm going to tackle her stupid stats in another post. This one is too stupid long as it is, lol

I have worked in quite a few place, where if the gentleman refuses extras, not only do you not make any money, but you also have to tip the manager 20. The only place where I didn't have to tip if I made no money was the swedish touch. Most parlors the manager also makes her money off your tips. I don't know how its done all over Canada, but in Vancouver, this is the way. Thank you Universe for allowing me to being independent, and never having to pay to massage someone again, lol

That's what I thought of!! hahahaha

Clean is good. :smile: Wear what you're comfortable wearing. On the weekend I get a lot of jeans and sneakers. During the week, I get suits. I think my jeans and sneakers guys are probably in suits during the week, lol :bddog:

I understand how you feel, but my private residence is set up the same as my in-call was. I have a huge walk in closet, so that's where I keep my personal effects. Don't rule a girl out, just because she works out of her home. I don't have anything personal left out, ever. Its always spotless, and set up with a romantic ambiance.

In this particular order. 1. humor, 2. things in common, 3. humor, 4. passion, 5. confidence, 6. humor, lol Someone that will put up with all my idiosyncrasies, and that can hold his own against my red headed Leo will. I notice when I haven't seen a long time regular, and I wonder where he went. If I just met someone for an hour or two first meeting, I of course want him to come back, I want everyone to come back. Yes 10 years ago. It was scary. Mainly because he was not stable, and did really weird things that freaked me out. I saved all his phone messages, just in case I would need them if I ever disappeared. I have many women I admire, but no role models in this business

I get a lot of requests for noon weekdays. I don't start until after 2, though. Monday seems to be my busiest day and Tuesdays seem to be my slowest, but that can change. I think it gets slow around the end of the month, as your average guy is paying his mortgage/rent, etc. There really is not rhyme or reason to it though, lol. One day I'll be slow all day, then I'll get 3 requests all wanting the same time. I really, really wish I could predict it, but I can't.

One of my favorite regulars I met because I was his plan B. So thank you to whoever you are for not answering the phone when he was on your corner, lol Life happens. Work wise, I have been stood up hundreds of time. In my personal life, I have been stood up a few times, and I have also been the guilty one once or twice.

I was referring to the term light bbw. My friend was voluptious not a bbw, but she advertised light bbw.