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he·don·ism (h d n- z m). n. 1. Pursuit of or devotion to pleasure, especially to the pleasures of the senses. Women, men, couples, fetishes and cross dressers are most welcome and appreciated. Couples please add an additional $100 to any of the packages below. Please add $20 for out calls to downtown hotels, River Rock Casino, or the airport Fairmont. For the month of December and January if you bring me a $10 or more donation to the food bank or a receipt for a donation to a charity (you just have to show it to me), please add a free half hour to any of the services below :) Deluxe Massage: This package is all about self indulgent pampering. My massage includes a full head to toe deep tissue massage, with a slippery body slide, all along your 2001 body parts, finishing with a slow, sexy, sensual hand (or foot) release. $120/1hr, $180/1.5hrs (in call only) (please add $40 for prostate massage) Non full service safe gfe (no intercourse): The same amazing gfe but only to 3rd base ;) $200/1hr, $300/1.5hrs, $400/2hrs All inclusive sexy fun (safe gfe): I'm an extremely passionate woman. I love to touch and be touched. $250/1hr, $350/1.5hrs, $450/2hrs (Traveling to the greek isles, please add $50) Alternative Services: Smothering, bondage, foot worship, body worship, spanking, wrestling, cbt, ball busting, tease & denial, corporal punishment, gagging with panties, humiliation, waxing, hot wax/ice, nipple torture, slapping, spitting, head scissors, trampling, some role playing $250/1hr, $350/1.5hrs, $450/2hrs Extended times : This is a combination of any or all of the above packages. We can stay in or go out on the town. I'm available for sporting events, clubbing, dinner, or what would you like to do? I'm super easy going and I laugh easily. I have a wide range of tastes and I can have fun anywhere. $550/3hrs, $700/4hrs, $900/6hrs, $1000/8hrs

I have been bisexual since puberty. I am completely capable of falling in love with a man or a woman. Some of my best friends are very, very gay. I have 2 very good friends that are transgendered. This is Harpers stance on gay rights. His views on prostitution are bad enough, but imo, this is worse. So archaic. What decade is he from? I haven't voted for years, but May 2nd, I'm definitely voting. I'm so passionate about my freedom to marry who I want. If Harper gets in I will cry. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xFbPz6hMa1c

Very, very, very true, but......um...... Bush is American. Last I checked, I'm Canadian. I think Harper is just as bad as Bush. I also wouldn't be surprised if he has American backing. Harper stands for every reason why I'm glad I'm not American. ugh, I hate him so much. I don't hate Americans, just their politics. Their stance on gay rights, health care, prostitution, and weed.

I'm a non smoker. I personally don't care if anybody smokes. I don't want smoking in my place (because of my furniture and clothes) and I don't want to kiss cigarette breath, but that's what mouth wash and gum is for. As for your clothes smelling, hopefully they'll be on the floor or hung up, so who cares what they smell like? Don't worry about it. I'm sure you smell wonderful. I'm sure 50% of my clients smoke, I never notice. I have one client, that I can tell he just had a smoke in the car before ringing my bell, but a shower and some mouth wash and I don't notice anymore. There are much, much, much worse things to smell. Some of my best friends are smokers :D

If anybody knows how destructive the world of prostitution is, then Burnaby resident Tania Fiolleau would know. I'm definitely not saying her experience isn't valid, just heavily exaggerated and made up in parts. I'm going to go through this piece by piece and share my experience/what I know, and what I have seen first hand Fiolleau was also in an abusive marriage. Having left that situation and living in a battered women's shelter, she discovered she didn't qualify for legal aid in the custody battle with the father of their two sons. I think an abusive relationship, having too spend tons of money on a custody battle, and having your dreams shattered will definitely leave scars and make you bitter. Who's to say her ptsd, didn't come from that. Why blame sex work? She saw an ad in the newspaper promising $1,500 a day in a fun, friendly and safe environment and applied, not knowing exactly what she was getting into. "I was told it was erotic massage or a body slide" - she understood body slide to mean no more than rubbing her breasts on a client - but she found out differently the first time she had a client. Every interview I've ever been to, they tell you exactly what is expected of you in the room. They're customers are more important than you. Why would they want to send a girl in there that may run out crying because she didn't know she might have to touch a penis? Also when she started it was all run on a tipping system. the owners wanted to make sure you didn't over charge by not knowing what to charge. Yes you may not quite know what to expect. I know I was quite nervous my first one. But I walked in, knowing that I had to give a hand release or more. Also her friend would have completely filled her in. That's what girls do. Even as Fiolleau felt that what she was doing was wrong - "I would go home and scrub myself because I felt so dirty," she said - she couldn't turn down the big money that came with the job. Possible. I have known a few girls that have felt this way, sometimes. I'm sure everybody on the planet has had a bad day at the office, lol Definitely not every time, though. Some guys are a lot of fun. My experience is most guys are genuinely just looking to have a good old fashioned romp. After you've been doing this long enough you get a very highly tuned radar to ween out the creeps. "I was earning $1,700 per six-hour night shift," she said. "Once I learned how much I was making, I started working double shifts." Why exaggerate? Most people would be impressed if you said $1000. Not everyone goes to parlors looking for sex. Places like Cleos, Platinum, Swedish touch, le mirage, mata hara's, all started at hand jobs and went up to full service. The average prices were 100 for a hand job, 200 for a blow job and 300 for sex. Some times you had to negotiate down to 80, 150, and 200. and then you tipped in all the places I mentioned the manager 20 [sometimes more]. So if every single guy came in and paid the most, it would equal out to 21 hand jobs in a day, 9 blow jobs or 6 full services. Sometimes you got a high roller that would just keep on giving you money, so you ended up with well over her 1700, but they were rare. 10 years ago, an average night was between 400 and 800. A great night was over a G. I don't work as hard as I did back then, so I honestly don't know what others are making on a regular basis today, which is why I said a few years ago. Even as Fiolleau got advice from her co-workers, she didn't know how destructive the job was. "I remember one girl telling me, when I asked her how she did it, she told me 'I'm a robot,' so that's what I did when I was with a client, I became a robot too," she said. I know lots of girls that go through the motions and are robots. I've seen it first hand on outcalls, working for escort agencies. Come on, can you please at least pretend to smile, so we can stay longer? I've also witnessed lousy sales people in all forms of jobs, just going through the motions. Those girls often don't make as much money as the bubbly, happy girls. Same as any service job. Just the same as any job, some girls should be here, some shouldn't. "I guess I thought that running a brothel was better than being an escort," she said. "I owned the business, I ran the business, and it was one big muddy puddle I was in." Fiolleau also ran two top-secret penthouse brothels that catered to people wanting discreet encounters, which meant she was running four operations. If you run the place ethically and responsibly for both the men and the women, I don't see the problem? The problem with most brothels in Vancouver is the ridiculous fines they have for girls and the outrageous fees, and the way they take the clients word over yours. These kind of things can make you feel powerless, and as a woman, who was raised by feminist hippies, I hate that feeling. The number one reason I went independent is because I don't want to be pimped. At the touch, this guy came in and picked me. I told the manager I didn't want to see him, she told me if I felt that way, I could pack my bags and go, that I wasn't allowed to pick and choose. I understand her point, but ick. I hated him in the first 10 seconds because he was overbearing, grabby, rude and he turned out to be really cheap. I think women who are starting out in this business need a friendly, safe environment to learn the ropes. I worked at this one place, so long ago. the prices were all inclusive, so you didn't make as much per call, but she had no fines, and no hidden book on fees. You didn't have to tip anybody, or anything. She had the health nurses come in on a regular basis to explain about condoms, diseases, answer questions, etc. She invited vice to staff meetings to answer legal questions, and she had parties/staff meetings for the girls every few months. It wasn't a party for clients, just a party for the girls to show her appreciation. She also had contests. The girl that had the most calls that year got a trip for 2 to somewhere. The girl that turned over a new leaf and stopped getting complaints would get a 500 shopping certificate, etc. I didn't work there long, because I was used to more money at the time [only a month] then I went and danced in Niagara falls and had a blast. She used a rewards system and a camaraderie system to keep her girls in line, instead of a punishment and a fine system. Girls that were chronically irresponsible or bitchy were just given the least desirable shifts or fired. Her girls were the nicest and the most loyal of any I've seen. The money was coming in fast and furious, which was sorely needed because her custody case dragged on for more than four years, and Fiolleau estimated it cost her more than $400,000. At the end, Fiolleau promised the judge that if she won custody of her two boys, she would leave the business, and that's exactly what happened in 2002. "I got custody, so I left the business," she said. Good for you. I'm gald you are on the path to a happy and fulfilling life. "I'd become Christian at this point, and God told me, you have to walk away from this ... and write a book and help save the women who are in prostitution," said Fiolleau. Man, maybe you need a prescription for schizophrenia. Thats what most people need when they start hearing voices. And that's what Fiolleau did, spending the next two years writing Souled Out!, which she finally completed in October 2010. Good for you In her book, Fiolleau tells of her experience in what she calls "a sick world, full of broken dreams and empty promises, battered, shattered, sexually abused women, men and children. ... (The sex industry) is causing alarming divorce rates, teen pregnancies, STDs-AIDS, drug usage, not to mention altered views of what sex really means." Where do you get these statistics from? You're as crazy as most bible thumpers. just make up stuff to sell books? Fiolleau said proceeds of the book don't go to her, but rather will go back into raising awareness and doing prevention for sexually exploited women and children and human traffic victims. Really? That's good, but I doubt it You're going to try and make money to live, other wise you will be right back where you left "Please do not judge these girls/men any longer that are in the sex industry. Know that most of them are being 'forced' to do it, physically or mentally, by manipulation of people around them. I definitely know women that have had all the above happen to them, but weren't you also manipulated by your husband? It doesn't just happen in the sex trade and it not all sex trade workers. "It could be your sister, your mother, your best friend's girl or even your daughter - and then think, is it all really worth the 'thrill' of self-gratification that lasts only a couple minutes? You are destroying lives of countless women while you do it - feeding the monster the sex industry has become. And now you are part of it too ... for there must be enablers to create victims. blah blah blah. Why are you trying to take my power as a woman away from me? Please stop. I agree with staying away from kiddie stroll, but if someone is over 19 have at er. "Be part of my campaign to help educate these women, clients and the public. If we can just save even one life, it was all worth it." That's a lofty cause. I sincerely wish you luck in your endeavors. I just wish you didn't paint all sex workers with the same brush I'm going to tackle her stupid stats in another post. This one is too stupid long as it is, lol

I have worked in quite a few place, where if the gentleman refuses extras, not only do you not make any money, but you also have to tip the manager 20. The only place where I didn't have to tip if I made no money was the swedish touch. Most parlors the manager also makes her money off your tips. I don't know how its done all over Canada, but in Vancouver, this is the way. Thank you Universe for allowing me to being independent, and never having to pay to massage someone again, lol

That's what I thought of!! hahahaha

Clean is good. :smile: Wear what you're comfortable wearing. On the weekend I get a lot of jeans and sneakers. During the week, I get suits. I think my jeans and sneakers guys are probably in suits during the week, lol :bddog:

I understand how you feel, but my private residence is set up the same as my in-call was. I have a huge walk in closet, so that's where I keep my personal effects. Don't rule a girl out, just because she works out of her home. I don't have anything personal left out, ever. Its always spotless, and set up with a romantic ambiance.

In this particular order. 1. humor, 2. things in common, 3. humor, 4. passion, 5. confidence, 6. humor, lol Someone that will put up with all my idiosyncrasies, and that can hold his own against my red headed Leo will. I notice when I haven't seen a long time regular, and I wonder where he went. If I just met someone for an hour or two first meeting, I of course want him to come back, I want everyone to come back. Yes 10 years ago. It was scary. Mainly because he was not stable, and did really weird things that freaked me out. I saved all his phone messages, just in case I would need them if I ever disappeared. I have many women I admire, but no role models in this business

I get a lot of requests for noon weekdays. I don't start until after 2, though. Monday seems to be my busiest day and Tuesdays seem to be my slowest, but that can change. I think it gets slow around the end of the month, as your average guy is paying his mortgage/rent, etc. There really is not rhyme or reason to it though, lol. One day I'll be slow all day, then I'll get 3 requests all wanting the same time. I really, really wish I could predict it, but I can't.

One of my favorite regulars I met because I was his plan B. So thank you to whoever you are for not answering the phone when he was on your corner, lol Life happens. Work wise, I have been stood up hundreds of time. In my personal life, I have been stood up a few times, and I have also been the guilty one once or twice.

I was referring to the term light bbw. My friend was voluptious not a bbw, but she advertised light bbw.

Looking at your pictures, I would not consider you a bbw. I personally don't do the acronym thing. I don't really have them on my website. A few, but definitely not the alphabet soup, lol. I think you look really beautiful and the parts of your body that I could see did not look bbw to me. I had a friend [she retired from the biz, but is still a friend] that had a very sexy hour glass figure. She always advertised light bbw. I didn't think she was. Voluptuous is a much more flattering term and means the same thing.

My new years resolutions are to drink less, save more, take more appointments, and go to the gym more. My most important resolution is to always think about what I'm buying and where its coming from, and to make more ethical choices. Its important to support mom and pop shops when and where I can as opposed to big business. I already do this with food [i try to buy local and organic, and I'm a pescetarian] so why not with video games, furniture, etc

I used to have a separate suite' date=' that I shared with 2 other girls. We were like a micro agency, hahaha. We had a very nice 2 bedroom condo. We always had a duo partner on hand and we had tons of fun. I have tried working out of a friends place. Way too awkward to coordinate times. I had to give her tons of notice [which is sometimes hard to do'], meet her where ever she was to get the keys, etc. Sometimes she couldn't do it for whatever reason. Its better to just have your own place. Now, while I acknowledge that it would be safer to have some guy around, I think that it would scare off a lot of clientele. I also don't think its a good idea to involve any relationship I may have with working. If guys knew about a SO, I think it would wreck the fantasy for some. Some guys are lonely, and they want to believe for that hour or two, that its a real date. I actually don't date in my personal life. I am way too much of a free spirit. I get enough sex at work and I have pets and friends for companionship, lol For the last few years, I've been an independent working out of my home. I consider it living at the office, lol. I want to own a house and can't justify paying 2 high rents. I have to have a nice place to bring my callers and I have to live in a nice place. So I combine the 2. I am careful about leaving bills in plain site, and I don't have anything of value left out, and I listen to my gut. My last place was a one bedroom condo, in an extremely high security building. There was cameras everywhere. I could watch a gentleman buzz, and then get into the elevator on my TV. I also had an escape route pre planned, and safety measures in place. I personally would not be comfortable working completely alone unless it was a high security building. I'm also very empathic and rely a lot on gut instincts. Currently I share a big 2 bedroom, 2 bathroom, 2 floor town house with another working girl and our pets. We both work, but we're both low volume, so we rarely ever work at the same time. if that ever happens we stagger our appointments by half hours so they don't meet at the front door, lol. I like doing out calls to hotels, but my place is very clean and comfortable. And I'm very comfy to be with, so it works for me.:bddog:

I like either. Its nice to go to an outcall sometimes. it breaks the routine. Most of my sessions are done at my place. I think this question depends a lot on whether the lady has kids, a serious relationship, what province she is in, or whether she is touring. Myself, I date people sometimes, but I'm honest about my life, and I share with another working girl. Just fur babies at my house. I don't need the added expense of a separate in call. For safety reasons, I request a reference from a known service provider if at a private residence, but other than that, I'm comfortable either way.

The best part of being a service provider is the freedom, of choosing when to work. Thank you :boobies: Unlike other people that have commented, I don't mind the word hooker. The only word, I really don't like is ho. I take things as they come in context, and I really didn't get the impression that you were trying to offend. I think getting old is a fear most women [or people in general] have, not just escorts. If you are honest, reliable, and sweet, there will always be enough clients. Yes, privacy issues is a big one, because of discretion and neighbors wondering what you are doing if a client knocks on the wrong door by accident [it has happened to me, ack] I don't have a preference. I live in a multicultural city and grew up in a multicultural neighborhood. People are people. Sometimes there are cultural differences, but there are jerks in every ethnicity. Look how many white middle class serial killers there are. Racism is just wrong, ignorant, and hopefully one day will be obsolete. That said, some accents are just so mmmmm sexy. I prefer to keep a professional distance in my private life, but my repeat clients become friends of a sort. How can we not? Part of the experience is sharing pieces of ourselves. Its impossible to spend time with me and not get to know me. I have trouble being fake. I have never had sex with a client any place other than my place or his place, whether that be the hotel or apartment. I would be open to kinky places with a long time regular, but definitely not with someone I just met. Like someone else mentioned, size only matters if its a condom issue, or if the person has insecurities of his size. There are so many ways to have fun. Personally, I don't like really huge. It feels uncomfortable, and I worry about condom mishaps more.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hm2BdCbZkKY http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hse1btS7jR0 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VXd-Xhg_gx8 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Siksvi_xsyo I really wish we could link youtube videos. Just curious why we can't?

Here in Van, I worked for an agency that had a picture of a young hot blond in the georgia straight, advertising pse, independent, and 19. I got turned away 50% of the time. I stayed with the agency because they were busy and the owner didnt have a lot of rules with his girls. I had a lot of freedom. No fines, no book on fees, if you didn't want to work, no big deal, etc. I find with a lot of agencies they want to own you. I really want to belong only to myself. I used to work at a place that is closed now, but you got fined $75 if you were late for your shift. The evening shift started at 4, but they wanted you there at 3:30, so that you could be ready for the couch at 4. If you weren't ready by 4, you got fined, even if you got there at 3:30. Never again, lol. I knew a girl at a place in Kelowna that owed our boss over $2000 in fines. The poor girl would get a client that paid by credit card and the money would get kept, towards her fines. I remember her telling her dates to go to the bank and come back, lol. Instead of fining girls, agencies should take shifts away, that would hurt more. If I work at a restaurant, i can work part time at another restaurant. the only agency that I ever worked at that allowed that was the touch. Now that I am 100% independent, I couldn't even imagine working for anyone ever again.

I personally think it was just a misunderstanding on all sides. I don't know if anybody deserves a time out, but you're the mod :) I don't think bcb quite understood what Carrie was trying to say, so chose to get offended instead. I did not find his original few posts offensive, but I can completely see how they may have been misunderstood. Every girl works differently, and has different rates for things. What he was asking for is just as sexual as my massage rate. However my massage rate is my social rate, seeing as how recession or not, I am busy enough I don't need to make less than $150/hr. Additional Comments: I personally think it was just a misunderstanding on all sides. I don't know if anybody deserves a time out, but you're the mod :) I don't think bcb quite understood what Carrie was trying to say, so chose to get offended instead. I did not find his original few posts offensive, but I can completely see how they may have been misunderstood. Every girl works differently, and has different rates for things. What he was asking for is just as sexual as my massage rate. However my massage rate is my social rate, seeing as how recession or not, I am busy enough I don't need to make less than $150/hr.

When I started working, I was 110lbs, with a 24 inch waist and a 32 A bra. I had the waif anorexic model look down to perfection, lol No curves. I was like a feminine skinny boy with nice hair, perky nipples, and a vagina. For some strange reason men loved me. I never had a problem finding boyfriends in my personal life or regulars in my professional life. My description has always been accurate, and having bigger boobs did not make an ounce of difference. When I got my implants, I went to a 34 c with still a pretty tiny waist. The doctor gave the measure around the rib cage is your number size and how many inches round the fullest part, minus the rib cage is your cup size. I am still a 34 c, even though, I am curvy now. That's what happens when you hit your 30's. The discipline I had back then is gone, lol. I'm definitely curvier now then back then and older, and I still do fine business wise, :) I have just as many regs now as I did 10 years ago, maybe even more. I'm a firm believer in advertising honestly. Not for the clients but for you. I hate rejection, yuck. What ever I can do to alleviate that risk, I will embrace. I also love compliments. I'm like a cat, please stroke my ego. Being honest is the best way to get those 2 results, lol Anyways my whole point is men like all sizes and shapes. A, B, C, D etc. There are people who like them all, and others that like a certain type, but there is enough for everybody :) :butt:

That article was so true. I am not a picky eater at all, but I don't eat furry, cute, or intelligent. Only sea food or vegetarian for this girl. I could have a fling with a meat eater, but nothing serious. I love to cook, and I'm not cooking meat ! I also love vegetables, and fruit, all of them. If you don't, then way too high maintenance for me. If I have to worry about your likes and dislikes while I'm cooking, it takes all the fun right out of it (the exception being allergies)! I also think if you aren't willing to take chances with food, then what else are you stuck in? Food is fantastic and fun !!! Cheese whiz is the grossest thing ever invented, yuck. I don't eat anything from a can or processed. I prefer fresh. I cook from scratch.