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There is no standard definition because every SP is within her means and rights to define it as she so pleases. The service offering is something each SP has to individually and personally decide if they are comfortable with it. It is up you, the client, to make sure she is offering what you are looking for. Caveat emptor.

I disagree here. as long she is clear on what she offers i'm comfortable having her call herself 'safe gfe'

T.O.R and onions

if only i was as handsome as you bro

few times a day and check Today's Post. sometimes pics.

Most ladies have dinner dates, just check out their website. Or find someone you are interested in and ask them about dinner dates.

GFE isn't just a list of services nor does it imply uncovered services either. Although some people use the term 'safe' GFE for everything covered, some GFE providers insist on a covered BJ yet willing to receive an uncovered DATY. I've even met a GFE SP who would do everything uncovered (except FS of course) but will not kiss ever. Lets face it GF in real life aren't all alike, some don't care for deep french kissing, others love going down on their BF, some (yes they are out there!) love anal and the list goes on. What is common though (or I hope would be common) with all GF is the sense of connection between two people. This connection can occur via physical contact (cuddling, foreplay), talking, teasing and whatever else floats your boat. Bottom line, it is up to you to decide where your boundaries are and what you mean by GFE. Forget about what it means to most people....you are the one providing the service, what does it mean to you?

Depending on the intensity of the experience identity can form in a moment. E.g.1. anyone with a life threatening allergy automatically and irrevocably self identifies as "i am allergic to X" upon initial encounter with the allergen. This may not be a conscious decision, the evidence is in the body's reaction to the allergen. E.g.2. phobia is another example of identity formation with initial encounter of the trigger. Even if there is a build up there is a pivotal point in time where you teeter between forming or changing the identity. In psychology this is call the Choice Point. E.g.3. long term abuse victims form a co-dependency with their abuser. This co-dependency can take years to form and take years of conventional therapy to remove. Unless the victim 'snaps'. In this example please note that the victim can identify as a victim wholly giving up control to their abuser or identify as a survivor and take back control from their abuser. Taking the violent experiences out of the equation there are also examples of pivotal identification: E.g.4. this is a common narrative from the LGBT community. Someone who is struggling with their sexual identity especially in an environment which is antagonistic towards it. Upon encountering the larger community there is a sense of relief, "I am normal", self identification towards it, "I am lesbian/gay/bi/transgender" and acceptance, "These are my people". E.g.5. I suspect many of us had a similar experience when we first found cerb, I am a hobbiest. This does not imply acceptance of the entire culture.

there was never justification needed for their compensation.

Why don't you find out for yourself ? :b A number of ladies have have tongue studs, one whom i know off is Malika.

A court in the southern Philippines found Bo Stefan Sederholm, 31, and Emil Andreas Solemo, 35, guilty of trafficking charges. The life sentences are unprecedented both for their severity and for the spotlight they cast on cybersex dens. These involve naked women chatting and performing sexual acts in front of webcams for internet clients. Three Filipinos were given 20-year jail sentences for helping the Swedes, who had set up the internet and payment systems, to run the business. Regional court clerk Nelison Salcedo was quoted by AFP as saying judge Jeoffre Acebido had stressed the need to protect women. "Disrespect for Filipino women and violations of our laws deserve the strongest condemnations from this court," Ms Salcedo quoted from the judge's ruling. "It will not shirk from its duty to impose the most severe of penalties against anybody, be he a foreign national or a citizen of this country, who tramples upon the dignity of a woman by taking advantage of her vulnerability." Under-age fears The Swedes were arrested when police raided a commercial building in the town of Kauswagan, Mindanao, in April 2009. Police found 17 naked Filipinas in front of computer screens, some of them under-age. They were described as having been forced into performing cybersex. Ms Salcedo was quoted as saying that the women were paid 15,000 pesos ($350) a month. "Once the client has paid for a private show, anything goes," she said. The Swedish embassy in Bangkok, which oversees the Swedish consulate in Manila, confirmed the court ruling. "We learned that they have been convicted and sentenced to life in prison," said senior consular officer Par Kageby. Cybersex, or sexually explicit chat over the internet, is a growing industry in many parts of the world; business is booming in the Philippines. The BBC's Manila correspondent, Kate McGeown, says an already established sex trade, high levels of poverty and a population that speaks at least basic English means there is a ready supply of girls. Officials estimate that thousands could be working in the small apartments that are the usual locations of these so-called cybersex dens. All internet sex is classed as pornography and therefore illegal in the Philippines, but what most concerns the authorities is the number of girls who are trafficked into these dens - many of whom are well under 18, the legal age of consent. Original article

Scarlet Road Video The main website.

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=855

I took the bus for many years. Same route same time often same driver for months. You could say there was a relationship formed, he would know my stops, sometimes wait a bit if he was early. Heck we might even talk about how the day went, it was a 45 mins ride on his bus. I don't think there is any difference here. Devils are in the details of course. Some people (lady and gentleman) find it better to treat it at arms length, business like. They need it to protect their psychological health, nothing wrong with that. Others find a deeper relationship healthier, its just like massaging/sleeping with my BF/GF. Nothing wrong with that either. Problems arise when there is a mis-match in the expectations for the relationship. It is also true that relationships are fluid, they strengthen and weaken with the passage of time and effort. The real question is, what are you looking for. I no longer take the bus.

i have a work phone and no personal phone. got a temp cell phone for making appointments. i guess you could call it my personal phone but really i dont make a habit of giving that number out.

when would this be ? in 2 months ? 3 months ? we are heading into summer holiday season....

which...errr.....lips

Many of the ladies here are mature enough to feel honored to help someone start out. AngelaOfOttawa had put her name forward, and quite a number of others would as well. In terms of agency like setup I believe the French Kiss Society has a mentoring setup.

Consider it official :b

Congrats Nicki!

We didn't forget your wonderful Birthday!! Just keeping it a surprise :D Party hats for all!

unless of course she got some bad *bad* advice :redface:

Poverty is a constant companion........ Not saying all of it is poverty driven, I've been fortunate enough to chat with a few who are here for fun.

If you want better representation from your region then pass the word. We love to have more folks on.