Whatshisname

Sorry - what I mean is that it would be perfectly okay for me to have someone drop by my house as I have a lot of visitors etc. who come by - but I would require the SP to not sex/porn it up too much in my driveway. I'm looking to host, to have fun, for everyone to be comfortable, have a drink or two.

Hi Everyone. I am a very new member (about 10mins) but a lurker for some time. Long story short - it took me years to figure out that it was okay to call a SP - I was the nervous guy that got over it in two minutes, everyone had fun, and I've been a secret hobbyist since - I love the term by the way. it sounds like a collect stamps. Anyway - the one problem I have is that I am far more relaxed in my own home - I can appreciate that a SP would feel better on her turf. I am always concerned when I am the visitor that its a sting - and I'm not even sure if that makes me sound like an idiot - if so, an honest idiot I assure you. That said - I would like to meet a SP for a PSE in my own home - my concern is that I require total discretion - ie you can't show up at my house looking like a porn star - as I have neighbors etc. I do have lots of people in and out of my house - but ... well you know what I mean. To all of you - thanks for all of your posts. I looked at this site so often, that I got comfortable - so thanks. Happy New Year.