WhiteKnight

So true. I can't fully know the impact seeing photoshopped women all day have on other women, but I can say that it has also a negative impact on some men. Being fed unrealistic expectations robs us from enjoying the beauty, inside and out, all around us. A lady once told me that she finds something attractive in every man she meets; I do the same (with women I mean :) ). Another lady told me not be to shy to say what I enjoy and find beautiful about someone. I also do now. Putting a smile on their lips and a twinkle in their eyes is the kind of sunshine I can enjoy everyday :)

#ChooseBeautiful Spring is in the air! http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/04/07/dove-beauty-choose-beautiful-campaign-video_n_7010178.html

What makes me happy? Many things! On top of my list is during social dancing, when I ask a girl to dance and her shy smile transforms itself in joyful, happy laughters as we dance :)

Her lips and her eyes when she smiles :)

Allo Nathalie! I wish you the very best. You have been an inspiration and helped me become a better lover, a better man. Congrats for your Masters! I have no doubt you will be successful in your future endeavors.

In my (humble and limited) experience, oftentimes those who use the word desperate regarding someone trying to improve oneself may have themselves some repressed issues they should work on. Let someone wiser than me respond to them: "Let the refining and improving of your own life keep you so busy that you have little time to criticize others." H. Jackson Brown, Jr. Godspeed.

I agree with you and that is not what I tried to convey! I should have used a different term. For me it is about sharing the playfulness that exist in me and celebrating life in the small things. I guess I feel like a bad boy even though to you I would appear normal :)

I used to call myself a Nice guy. However, a little while ago, a lady friend told me: "You are not a Nice guy, you are a Good guy!". I asked what the difference was? She told me Nice guys are being nice, at least partly, because they expect something from a woman (consciously, or unconsciously), and when this expectation is not fulfilled, frustration may build up. A Good guy is nice because he enjoys to, he has his life together and is relaxed about it all. She picks up on this underlying vibe and is attracted to one and not the other. She told me that many ladies use all available signals (body language, energy, manners, how one dresses, etc.) to size up a man as quickly as she can. If you are, like me, a naturally quiet, reserved man, even though nice, it makes it more difficult for the ladies to differentiate between the Nice and the Good. Some are not attracted to the quiet guys, some are intrigued by the mystery. In my experience, the later are sometimes themselves a bit reserved and brainy, so maybe they have atomes crochus? Then she told me a secret: "You already have a golden heart and your life together. Simply work on being a playful (but not silly) bad boy at the right time and your social life will change forever". She had a mysterious but very attractive grin on her face while telling me this... like she told me the deepest secret of the Secret Women's Guild. :) Since then I applied myself to let this playfulness inhabiting my heart out, in the right way, at the right time. It is actually not easy, I am not quite there yet, but it is worth it lol. A companion told me that my new tag line described me well: "I am like good quality French vanilla ice cream, sometimes with exotic toppings such as spicy black pepper, silly jelly beans or sweet balsamic vinegar reduction". You know you should not have too much of it, but you can't resist (or that is what I hope anyway hi hi hi). Food for thought :)

It is funny because I always thought WhiteKnight had a positive connotation. It is how I feel and what I strive to become :) However, I learned recently that WhiteKnight can be used in a pejorative manner as it relates to this industry! Oh well... I decided to keep it because no lady ever complained lol :)

I was going to write something about compassion and this industry, above and beyond free market theory, and then MigthyPen said it more eloquently than I could ever do. I, too, believe compassion should be a part of this industry and our topics of discussion.

Happy National Hug Day everyone. I hope you have hugged someone today, if not it is not too late! :) http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/National_Hug_Day btw... I tried the new cuddle only service. It is wonderful what a warm, friendly, tender and relaxing embrace can provide. It is uplifting for the soul. :)

Holy shit indeed. I find both disgusting. And she looks fourteen years old for chri**'s sake.

I agree with Kathryn. I had similar issues in the past (stressful job, bad relationships, libido issues, chronic pain, on top of overall shyness). I exercised, ate well, went to the doctor, but things really started to improve when I let go of all my expectations and accepted that it was ok to be vulnerable with the ladies I met. With the right lady, I simply could let the encounter flow wherever it felt the best. Many times it was simply soft, sensual cuddling and kissing. Sometimes it was about giving each other sensual massages. A few times I simply perfected my spanking techniques :) Eventually, without me realizing it, the libido came back and the passionate lovemaking. But in the meantime I had grown tremendously as a lover, able to embrace and rejoice in all the wonderful facets of women's erotic universe. This is worth a lot, because you will keep this experience and newfound knowledge for the rest of your life. After getting checked by your MD and managing the job situation as best you can, find a lady you are comfy with and you trust, have the courage to be vulnerable, and let her share with you everything that is good about sensuality. Abandon yourself in her arms. There are wonderful, generous and experienced ladies around here. You might just be transformed as I have been :)

There is something warm, safe and inviting about someone eating a small snack or drinking something hot like coffee or tea. As a shy person, I had to find ways of attracting and engaging women in my daily life without being able to fully entertain them with my words. I had an Eureka when I watched Ocean 11 for the first time and realized that Brad Pitt was eating all the time, and that made him, somehow, relaxed, warm and inviting. During the summer you can see me eat a lot of ice cream when meeting women outside (they always want a bite lol). In the winter coffee works wonder: it cannot be easier to ask a lady on an instant coffee date when its cold outside and I have a warm cup in my hand already. It feels like cheating the universe :)

As I walk or drive around town, I seem to know more about Ottawa hotels than I should lol (as I live in Ottawa). Sometimes, inadvertently, I comment on hotels to friends: beautiful lobby, so so food, rooms renovated, etc. They wonder why I know these things! "Oh, I get invited from time to time by suppliers renting suites to showcase their new products to their preferred clients". This works and I don't even have to lie :)