Ariane Valmont

I always prefer to break the ice by chatting at the beginning of the rendezvous. I'm often kind of shy at first (even though I'm good at hiding it :)) so it gives me time to get comfortable with my partner. I also appreciate the fact that it feels more like a date when we get to know each other a little bit. But as much as I like that part of the rendezvous, I try to make sure it doesn't last too long because I want to be certain we will have plenty of time to get intimate and enjoy each other. We can always continue our conversation afterwards anyway!

The exact same rule can be applied to sex. What I mean is that despite the fact not everyone is a skillful lover, if you can find at least one thing you appreciate about them sexually and focus on that, it will make it a lot easier to enjoy yourself. I think that's how you can achieve having pleasure with most (not ALL of course) of your partners. It's not so laughable when you think about it this way. :) (Did that make sense? Sorry, my English is deficient at times!) Oh and about the rate question : Angela, mod and Carrie already provided excellent answers!

cat and Sara already answered very well. I also love the answer of Amanda Seyfried's character because I feel the same way. I would like to add this: To this day, the only clients I found "downright repulsive" were either lacking good hygiene or sending a bad vibe (hard to explain that one but some guys just make you really uncomfortable). How do I do it when this happens? I freak out inside, try to look cool outside and just concentrate on what has to be done. If it becomes overwhelming, I put a stop to the encounter and refund part of the money. The few times I had to go through this, it had nothing to do with looks. To be honest, it's a difficult experience for me. Thankfully, it rarely happens. If it was a regular thing, I would have quit being an escort a long time ago. P.S. How was the movie Chloe? I'm really intrigued by it! Did you know that it's actually a remake from a French film?

Annessa, MY mom would know. Believe me. She is aware that I'm an escort and is incredibly hurt by it. Would I want to take the chance to inflict more pain on her? Absolutely not.

My rates are all inclusive. I don't like extras because they make things feel unnatural. Go with the flow is the best approach to me.

I agree with you guys: we are lucky to have Pete on CERB. He's a true gentleman, has great insight and is always ready to help his fellow cerbites. Bravo Pete! xoxox

Happy Birthday to one of the sweetest ladies around! :) Ariane xox

Totally understandable. I never make first contact, whether the person is alone or not. You never know how they feel about the possibility of being seen with an escort. So I think it's better not to take any chances. As far as I'm concerned, I wouldn't mind if a client would come to say hello... Unless I'm with my mom. If it were the case, I would feel extremely uncomfortable. Extremely.

hihi! That's so cute. :)

The youngest was 21. I felt comfortable because he had been super polite and respectful from the start. I usually don't meet younger guys but I sometimes make exceptions if it feels right. Anyway... He was adorable: so excited and nervous at the same time. It was very touching.

Thank you WIT! xox It all makes sense now. But... I still don't like it. hihi

My darling, you are welcome to do that anytime you'd like. ;)

Good question indeed! Recently, someone accidentally gave me "bad reputation" because of this problem. It's no big deal but still. I wasn't very happy to see the "judgemental face" staring at me! hihi

To be honest, yes, it can sometimes be a little disappointing. A brief anecdote: Shortly after I started working as an escort, I met this man with whom I shared incredible chemistry with. Without going into details, our encounter was very passionate and intense. I saw him again several months later and he had completely changed his approach. After feeling guilty towards his family and putting in question some of his choices, he had decided that even though he would continue to meet SPs, he would from now on play very safe. In other words, and as some of you guys would say, there was not much left on the menu! hihi I thought it was too bad (for me anyway!) but I totally respected his choice and we continued to see each other for a while. Bottom line: the most important thing is for my partner to feel comfortable and satisfied. That is, after all, the reason why he pays for my company. If I can have my personal desires fulfilled at the same time, it's just a bonus.

It's hard to tell. Both Mr. Insecure and Mr. Cool can be fun... Just like they can be both unpleasant! Often, insecure guys are very gentle and tender, which I really enjoy. But if their insecurity is so bad that they have no clue what to do and just stand there: that's not good. At all! Confident guys are sometimes very sexy because they can take the lead and make you feel super desirable and womanly. But as Annessa and others have pointed out, if it's to the point where they are full of themselves, it becomes a big turn off. I guess whether you're Mr. Insecure or Mr. Cool, if you genuinely like women and treat them well, they will appreciate your company.