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Ariane Valmont

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  1. Ariane Valmont
    I always prefer to break the ice by chatting at the beginning of the rendezvous. I'm often kind of shy at first (even though I'm good at hiding it :)) so it gives me time to get comfortable with my partner. I also appreciate the fact that it feels more like a date when we get to know each other a little bit. But as much as I like that part of the rendezvous, I try to make sure it doesn't last too long because I want to be certain we will have plenty of time to get intimate and enjoy each other. We can always continue our conversation afterwards anyway!
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    The exact same rule can be applied to sex. What I mean is that despite the fact not everyone is a skillful lover, if you can find at least one thing you appreciate about them sexually and focus on that, it will make it a lot easier to enjoy yourself. I think that's how you can achieve having pleasure with most (not ALL of course) of your partners. It's not so laughable when you think about it this way. :) (Did that make sense? Sorry, my English is deficient at times!) Oh and about the rate question : Angela, mod and Carrie already provided excellent answers!
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    cat and Sara already answered very well. I also love the answer of Amanda Seyfried's character because I feel the same way. I would like to add this: To this day, the only clients I found "downright repulsive" were either lacking good hygiene or sending a bad vibe (hard to explain that one but some guys just make you really uncomfortable). How do I do it when this happens? I freak out inside, try to look cool outside and just concentrate on what has to be done. If it becomes overwhelming, I put a stop to the encounter and refund part of the money. The few times I had to go through this, it had nothing to do with looks. To be honest, it's a difficult experience for me. Thankfully, it rarely happens. If it was a regular thing, I would have quit being an escort a long time ago. P.S. How was the movie Chloe? I'm really intrigued by it! Did you know that it's actually a remake from a French film?
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    Annessa, MY mom would know. Believe me. She is aware that I'm an escort and is incredibly hurt by it. Would I want to take the chance to inflict more pain on her? Absolutely not.
  5. Ariane Valmont
    My rates are all inclusive. I don't like extras because they make things feel unnatural. Go with the flow is the best approach to me.
  6. Ariane Valmont
    I agree with you guys: we are lucky to have Pete on CERB. He's a true gentleman, has great insight and is always ready to help his fellow cerbites. Bravo Pete! xoxox
  7. Ariane Valmont
    Happy Birthday to one of the sweetest ladies around! :) Ariane xox
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    Totally understandable. I never make first contact, whether the person is alone or not. You never know how they feel about the possibility of being seen with an escort. So I think it's better not to take any chances. As far as I'm concerned, I wouldn't mind if a client would come to say hello... Unless I'm with my mom. If it were the case, I would feel extremely uncomfortable. Extremely.
  9. Ariane Valmont
    hihi! That's so cute. :)
  10. Ariane Valmont
    The youngest was 21. I felt comfortable because he had been super polite and respectful from the start. I usually don't meet younger guys but I sometimes make exceptions if it feels right. Anyway... He was adorable: so excited and nervous at the same time. It was very touching.
  11. Ariane Valmont
    Thank you WIT! xox It all makes sense now. But... I still don't like it. hihi
  12. Ariane Valmont
    My darling, you are welcome to do that anytime you'd like. ;)
  13. Ariane Valmont
    Good question indeed! Recently, someone accidentally gave me "bad reputation" because of this problem. It's no big deal but still. I wasn't very happy to see the "judgemental face" staring at me! hihi
  14. Ariane Valmont
    To be honest, yes, it can sometimes be a little disappointing. A brief anecdote: Shortly after I started working as an escort, I met this man with whom I shared incredible chemistry with. Without going into details, our encounter was very passionate and intense. I saw him again several months later and he had completely changed his approach. After feeling guilty towards his family and putting in question some of his choices, he had decided that even though he would continue to meet SPs, he would from now on play very safe. In other words, and as some of you guys would say, there was not much left on the menu! hihi I thought it was too bad (for me anyway!) but I totally respected his choice and we continued to see each other for a while. Bottom line: the most important thing is for my partner to feel comfortable and satisfied. That is, after all, the reason why he pays for my company. If I can have my personal desires fulfilled at the same time, it's just a bonus.
  15. Ariane Valmont
    It's hard to tell. Both Mr. Insecure and Mr. Cool can be fun... Just like they can be both unpleasant! Often, insecure guys are very gentle and tender, which I really enjoy. But if their insecurity is so bad that they have no clue what to do and just stand there: that's not good. At all! Confident guys are sometimes very sexy because they can take the lead and make you feel super desirable and womanly. But as Annessa and others have pointed out, if it's to the point where they are full of themselves, it becomes a big turn off. I guess whether you're Mr. Insecure or Mr. Cool, if you genuinely like women and treat them well, they will appreciate your company.
  16. Ariane Valmont
    Arrested for bad behaviour
    Can I play too? :)
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    Ariane Valmont commented on KraveKarma's gallery image in Converted Albums

    Very hot indeed!!
  18. Ariane Valmont
    Ava, thank you Mademoiselle. :) Vanessa, don't worry about it. We all judge sometimes. There are many things in this business that I don't agree with. But what can you do? Live and let live, I suppose!
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    Vanessa, when you say this: "how ever I am puzzled regarding all of the the unprotected activities people are willing to take part in ..so my question is this (to the SP's)....do these "no restrictions" policies apply to whomever you meet with????", it does sound like your judging a bit... But that's ok. ;) I have of course some restrictions but only a few. I'm not comfortable discussing publicly what they are but I still can answer some of your questions. First of all, just a little clarification: it would be nice if people stop assuming that SPs who are more "liberal" only care about making good business. Some of us want to enjoy ourselves sexually as much as possible and that's why we share some specific intimate acts with the men we meet. For example, I really like kissing and that's the main reason why I offer it. I voluntarily meet only a few men weekly so the "volume" is not an issue for me. Would I be so open if I was seeing several men a day? Probably not. Do I offer the exact same type of service to every men I meet? No, I don't. I'm hoping the people I select are smart enough to understand that chemistry and personal hygiene plays an important part in how I will interact with them. Don't get me wrong, I always do my best to please whoever I spend time with. But that "best" is influenced by the context of the encounter and it's only natural that the more we hit it off, the more giving I will be. I never had a situation where my partner told me they were upset because I did not do this or do that. I never even sensed it. If the day comes when someone tells me they don't accept my personal limits, I will have to explain to them that eventhough I'm an escort, I'm first and foremost a human being.
  20. Ariane Valmont
    I've never felt guilty about masturbating. It was simply not a topic at my house so I didn't have any preconceived notions about it when I discovered it. I was around 10 and one of my friends showed me how it was done. I thought it was kind of fun but I was too young to truly enjoy it so I didn't really get into it. I started masturbating again when I was 12 and that's when I experienced for the first time what it was like to have an orgasm! Since then, I've been a fan. ;) The only thing I ever considered taboo about sexuality was the one night stands. I was tought that "respectable" women should not have sex outside of a romantical relationship. So I felt pretty guilty about that until I was in my late twenties! As you may have guessed, things have changed since then. :boobies:
  21. Ariane Valmont
    Thank you for the compliment, whatsup! I greatly appreciate it. xox
  22. Ariane Valmont
    Well... I can understand that for some guys, the whole experience is more exciting and fulfilling if the escort has some kind of attraction to them. If I were a client, I would feel this way too. It's nice to be desired.
  23. Ariane Valmont
    Thank you for that link! I've just watched recently The Secret Diary Of A Call Girl and I absolutely loved it. It's great to know who is behind it! There has been so much speculations.
  24. Ariane Valmont
    Well said! That's how I feel also. voltio, as an escort, it happens all the time that I become attracted to guys who I find average looking. I would say that around 10% of the men I meet are my type physically but I become sexually aroused during, more or less, 90% of my encounters (I'm being conservative here as I was tempted to put 95%!). What does that say? Simple: attitude is everything. Either I know how to pick them or I attract good people but rarely do I meet a man who I feel zero chemistry with. To be able to achieve a level of closeness with someone you barely know, you need to feel comfortable. So in a context where I have to create instant intimacy, I'll take a great personnality over great looks anytime of the day. And if on top of being a nice guy, my partner is a passionate lover... I could hardly ask for more! Like most women, I'm much more sensitive to the way a man touches me, kisses me, etc, than the way he looks.
  25. Ariane Valmont
    Exactly. BIG difference. voltio, I'm not sure what you meant with your question. Are you talking about a physical attraction strictly based on looks? Or are you in fact talking about getting turned on by your partner? Because as far as I'm concerned, depending on the exact meaning of your question, my answer will vary greatly.
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