Ariane Valmont
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Best Album Award on CERB
Ariane Valmont replied to sexnonstop724's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
Thanks to Pete and moosemeat. I really appreciate the compliment. By the way, you might be interested to know that I will have new pictures in the weeks to come. I'll keep you guys posted. ;) xox -
A poem for all the Ladies
Ariane Valmont replied to Emma Alexandra's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
Beautiful and powerful. Thank you, Emma. -
Valued Member and SP Awards - NOW TOGETHER!
Ariane Valmont replied to mod's topic in Town Council announcements - public area
Thanks sweetie. That's very kind of you. xox -
Thank you for such a lovely description of our encounter, tomfu. The time we spent together was amazing. I'm very much looking forward to see you again. Ariane xoxox
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Thank you my darling. ;) xox
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As far as I'm concerned, sex can be good even if there is no kissing involved but it can't be great. Without kissing, there is no intimacy. Without intimacy, sex feels a bit empty. Kissing me softly and sensually while you caress my hair, my face, my breasts, etc, is the best way to turn me on and make me want to do very naughty things to you. ;)
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I think the answer to that question depends a lot on your personality. Myself, I'm someone rather shy and reserved in public. I'm at my best and most at ease when I am in an intimate context with one person (or two, sometimes ;)). Also, I value human contacts a lot and I like to establish a connection with people. Finally, I'm a very sexual person and I enjoy sharing my love of eroticism with men. For all those reasons, I feel super comfortable as an escort but stripping would be difficult. That being said, for someone else, it could be the complete opposite! I'm certain that a lot of strippers could never see themselves as escorts.
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My rant: The Spinner Complex
Ariane Valmont replied to Cumquat's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
hellojoe, I have very generous breasts and my nipples are super sensitive. And they were as sensitive when I was a D cup than they are now that I am a G cup. So either I'm an exception to the rule or what you heard is just an urban legend. ;) Homer_doh, sad to say but I think your explanation is right in many (not all!) cases. -
My rant: The Spinner Complex
Ariane Valmont replied to Cumquat's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
I agree completely that beauty is a changing concept depending on who you ask. Also, remember that at the beginning of my last post, I precisely said that you would have as many answers to your question as there are members here on cerb... What I gave you were my definitions of these terms. I didn't realize you had asked those questions only to prove a point. I was just trying to be helpful. ;) To answer your other questions, even though they might once again be only to prove your point (hihi): No, in my opinion, you can't be a spinner if you have big breasts. "Meat on her bones" = someone who has a bit of excess weight. I doubt that most women with 36' hips would be chubby. No, a BBW doesn't have to be over 250-300 pounds. A BBW means that you're a large lady but it doesn't mean that you're morbidly obese! There's another term for that which is SSBBW. Those are just expressions to describe certain type of figures. I don't see them as being reductive. They are a simple and easy way to give people an approximate idea of what a lady looks like. -
My rant: The Spinner Complex
Ariane Valmont replied to Cumquat's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
I think you could have as many answers to this question as there are members on cerb. ;) Here is my definition: Spinner... A woman who is short and thin with discreet curves. "Average" (sorry! Couldn't find a better word)... A woman with a weight proportioned to her height and moderate curves. Curvy... A woman with a little meat on her bones. Plus-size... The minute you wear a size 14 and up, you are considered a plus-size woman. I'm 5'10 so when I was wearing a size 14 (I am now an 18 ), I was curvy but definitely not BBW. But if, for example, you're 5'2 and you wear a size 14, that's a bit different. Voluptuous... This one is tricky too. For me, no matter if you're curvy or BBW, if you have well balanced generous curves, you are voluptuous. BBW... A woman who has very ample curves. She's not just chubby, she's overweight. She may carry it very well... She may not. It all depends. In my opinion, the second B is optional. :) -
My rant: The Spinner Complex
Ariane Valmont replied to Cumquat's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
Let's see the perspective of a larger lady (yes, me! hihi) for a minute here... I have been a BBW for about 7 years. Before that, I guess we could say I was the chubby/curvy type. One thing is sure though: I was never thin. When it comes to men and their opinions on curvaceous women, I've heard it all and I've seen it all. My experience is that the majority of men who are attracted to ample curves are not at ease to openly admit it. Many guys will flirt with you when you're alone in a corner but in front of the "boys", they will say that bigger women are not attractive. (note that I'm using terms like "majority" and "most" to emphasize the fact that, thank god, not all men are like that! ;)) It sounds ridiculous, right? Well, it is! But for some unknown reason, it seems that for many, it is shameful to find beauty in forms that do not correspond to the usual stereotypes. I guess it has to do with people's need to fit in, to be accepted. Once, I was talking about this very topic with a guy and he told me this: "You know what's the difference between a fat girl and a scooter? None. They're both fun to ride but in both cases, you don't want your friends to find out." I have to thank him for sharing that "classy" joke with me because I think it illustrates very well how many men feel. So, yes, Cumquat post does make sense. I don't think he's looking down on people who are attracted to spinners (there's certainly nothing wrong with liking petite women!). I don't think either that he's trying to censor people in any way. In fact, it's just the opposite. I think he is trying to encourage more people to express the attraction they feel towards women with generous curves. Can you be against that? I know I'm not! :) On a final note... I said it before but I feel the need to say it again: cerb definitely is a friendly place. This is the only escort board where I post without having any fear of being critised for the way I look (yes, I do have those fears even though I'm confident and comfortable in my own skin for the simple reason that it's never pleasant to get insulted, especially if you're a softie like me! hihi). That's fantastic! But let's not forget that before anythine else, cerb is a group of individuals who come here with their own backgrounds, experiences, fears and limitations, meaning that if someone is used to hide the fact they like a certain type of women, it won't drastically change because they are now part of virtual community who welcomes diversity. It's a learning process. ;) -
My rant: The Spinner Complex
Ariane Valmont replied to Cumquat's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
There are many things that are wrong in this world and the first step towards change is to talk openly about them. That's how I see it anyway. If everybody keeps quiet about what's unfair, how can we hope to evolve as a society? -
My rant: The Spinner Complex
Ariane Valmont replied to Cumquat's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
Darling, I think Cumquat was talking in general. I'm sure he is aware that there are exceptions. ;) You are one of the few gentlemen here who seem to see beauty in all kinds of women and who is not afraid to express it. That's wonderful! We need more men like you! Angela, thank you my dear. :) -
My rant: The Spinner Complex
Ariane Valmont replied to Cumquat's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
Thank you. I really appreciate that. :) You are a great flirt too, sweetheart. And I am most definitely looking forward to spend time snuggled in your arms. xox -
My rant: The Spinner Complex
Ariane Valmont replied to Cumquat's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
Well, if we agree on that, I don't really see how this thread is silly. :) From what I understand (and I could of course be wrong), Cumquat deplores the fact that the vast majority of the women recommanded as well as the ones who are cited as being a representation of beauty are petite and thin. Since we agree that sex appeal comes in all shapes and sizes, why do we rarely "hear" about larger ladies from you guys? From experience, I know very well that many men can be attracted to full-figured women. In that case, how come most men are not vocal about it? Are they afraid of being judged? Sometimes, it seems that way. I think that this thread is completely relevant and that it puts the focus on an issue that is rarely discussed. Kudos to Cumquat for bringing it up. Just for the record, I'd like to add this : even though there is definitely room for improvement, the men on CERB are generally a lot more respectful of the diversity of the ladies looks and styles than any other board I know. -
My rant: The Spinner Complex
Ariane Valmont replied to Cumquat's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
News flash: you don't have to be thin to be considered beautiful. ;) -
My rant: The Spinner Complex
Ariane Valmont replied to Cumquat's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
Cumquat, I only have two words to answer to this beautiful post of yours: Thank you. -
Curious if anyone has had this happen
Ariane Valmont replied to slurp's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
I've never said it and never would. Anytime a partner can cum inside me (while using protection, of course), I'm happy! It makes the experience more complete, in a way. The only reason I can think of why she wouldn't want you to come during penetration is that she's paranoid about std. If that's the case, she should read more about the possible risks or just get out of the business. -
What do you call it...or them?
Ariane Valmont replied to antlerman's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
I just looove the word cock. Please, keep using it. I'm hoping that others will follow your example. ;) -
A od question to ask
Ariane Valmont replied to adam4landry's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
Some of the men I meet sometimes ask for a specific outfit... If I don't have it and feel it could be useful in other situations, I don't ask an extra fee: I just buy it. If I think it will be useful mostly in that context, I ask my date to cover the cost. -
Good question. Eventhough it's not very smart, I can understand that a guy would "lose it" during the action and ask for BBFS. It did happen to me a couple of times that my partner requested it... needless to say that I refused and they respected my choice. Don't get me wrong : I don't think that it's ok!! But I do think we all have been in a situation where we were so turned on that we did not think straight. The guys that asked me for BBFS during intercourse were very intelligent and respectful men but for a minute, they simply forgot what was best for them. Good thing that I was there to remind them. :) But planning to have BBFS? This is just crazy. I can't find any rational justification to explain why someone would want to do that. Hopefully, one day we will have the pleasure to combine the PPE and the AVE. ;)
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I think everyone has their own definition. :) To me, GFE means a sweet and loving attitude + most of the acronyms, except CIM, greek and COF. PSE means a sexually agressive attitude + most of the acronyms, except french kissing, which is left to the discretion of the provider. No restrictions mean that anything goes as long as it does not put the health of anyone at serious risks (so of course, this mean NO bareback penetration). As for me... I consider myself 100% GFE with a touch of PSE.