Ariane Valmont

Rape is rape... But at the risks of enraging some members, I do think some circumstances are worst than others. According to Erin's list, I was raped when I was 20 years old. To make a long story short, I was out clubbing, had too much to drink, accepted a lift back home from two strangers... But of course, they had no intention to bring me home. Instead, they took me to an area I did not know, in a deserted park. Once there, they asked me to perform sexual acts or they would either hurt me or abandon me there. I was drunk, I was young, it was 3am, I had no idea where I was... so I said yes. This was a bad experience but it didn't scar me in any way. It does make me a bit upset when I remember it but nothing more. However, I can think of many rape scenarios who would have left me completely traumatised.

That's too bad. Anita was a bit too blunt at times but I still liked reading her posts. It's unfortunate that she lost her cool and became agressive... I will miss her input.

No problem. ;) I understand very well that role play is a way to live out certain experiences you would not want to go through in reality. For example, I like to role play the naive and defenceless woman who is being taken advantage of by someone who is in a position of authority. So you see... I do get the whole concept. hihi ... I just have some kind of mental block when it comes to the rape scenario. But again, that's just me. And maybe one day I'll see things differently. That's what is great about sex: it's a life long journey and you never know where it will take you.

I hope you're not trying to say that's what I meant because it's not. I personnally can't get into the rape fantasy. It turns my stomach just to think about it. But I have absolutely no judgements towards women who enjoy that kind of role play. Read my post again and you'll see that it does not concern anyone but me.

I consider myself very open-minded but I am sooo not into the whole rape thing! I don't care if it's only role play. I have never been raped but I still feel very strongly about it and the simple idea of a man trying to force himself on me (even if he's just pretending) makes me mad. :shock:

Did you read her post properly? Susie isn't the "angry wife". She posted this letter because she received it from the said angry wife!

I second that. ;) Congratulations Sexy! I hope you will stay around for another 2000 posts. :) Ariane xoxox

I did not participate since this poll seemed to be aimed at the gentlemen only. But as an SP, I can tell you I definitely prefer the lights on. I like watching and being watched. Ideally, is it nice to have a warm and soft lighting. I find it more sensual and inviting.

I certainly do not judge anyone who pay for sex. I don't see anything wrong with it, whether you are a man or a woman. But I have to admit I don't understand why a woman whould feel the need to pay for sex on a regular basis. There are just so many choices and opportunities out there! We ladies are very lucky.

Happy birthday to one of my favourites posters! :) Hugs and kisses, Ariane xox

Unless you're rather small, I usually can't do deepthroat. I give it my best every time but I have a pretty bad gag reflex. I wish I could control it better. I love giving blow jobs. I just have that one thing to add to my repertoire. hihi But at the same time, I have to admit I find it a turn on to continually try to push my limits. ;)

One of my fantasies is to call a female escort for me. ;) I guess I am certainly not the only woman who would like to do that but would be surprised if there was a "big market" for this category.

I also think the thirties are good because you gradually have a better sense of who you really are, what you really want, etc. But 35... For a woman, the clock starts ticking at this age! I do not have any kids and although I would like to have one or two, I am not ready right now. I only have about 5 years left to get there! It just seems scary to me. :shock:

I'm 34. And I have to admit that I am a bit scared about turning 35 in 6 months. :oops:

I am a bit late but I wanted to let you know I completely agree with you. I am always amazed at people who pretend to be in love after a couple of weeks! There is a big difference between passion and love. Ideally, you should have both but they do not always come together! At the beginning of a relationship, you are infatuated with the perception you have of your partner. It will take months (if not years) to discover if this perception is right or not. Hope I am making sense. It is difficult for me to explain this in English. :)

Now this is great news! :-D Thanks for sharing, Susie.

I agree 100% with you. And at the risk of offending some gentlemen here, I always find it disturbing when I see some older guys looking specifically for young girls.

My anticipation is already veeerrry high... Can you imagine in a month from now? You better be ready for me! ;) xoxox

Pete, good to know because I do intend to take full advantage of your sexy body in so many ways... :boobies: (I just love this emoticon! hihi) And by the way, with all this flirting and teasing, you are making it difficult for me to wait until August for my visit to Ottawa. But maybe that's part of your plan. ;)

Bonjour! I have been warned by a friend that someone is posting my pictures without my permission in Toronto's erotic section of CL. If you ever see my pictures posted in this section (they are easy to recognised since they are water marked with my name), please let me know by pm. I do not intend to visit Toronto in a near future and if I ever do, you guys on cerb will be the first to know. I know this is not such a big deal since none of my pictures are showing my face... But still! It irritates me that some people are so shady and that because of my photos, a few gentlemen could be taken advantage of. Thanks for your help. Ariane xox

As an SP, I can tell you that CERB is the friendliest board for us ladies. Most people here are very respectful. It is much appreciated. Hooray for CERB and its members! :boobies:

I have only met one famous gentleman. He is staying in Montreal and he is my most faithful and regular "client". He is also one of my favourites (not because he is well-known but because we share great sexual chemistry). He used his real name right away and invited me directly to his home. He is very sexy and good looking. He is also respectful and down to earth. So he certainly does not have any problems seducing ladies. I think he likes to meet courtesans because he does not want to deal with groupies and women who could expect more from him. With me, things are crystal clear: we meet, we have amazing sex and I am gone. He is a busy guy so his free time is very limited. Sometimes, I do not hear from him for a while and it's ok. He does not owe me anything and can contact me whenever he wants. As I told him before, it is a good thing we have this "special" relationship because I probably would not be as understanding if I were his mistress or girlfriend. ;)

I would be interested but would like even more to see it happening live. Hmmmm. ;)

Ok. :) Thank you!! xox

Emma, I would LOVE a live demonstration. ;) Wrinkled, I agree with you. And we have to be realistic : a lot of married people are unsatisfied sexually. Whatever the reason is, many men and some women will feel the need to find sexual gratification away from home. I do not judge them and I do not think it means they do not love their SO. I do not believe in monogamy in the long run. I think it's only normal that after 5-10-20 years, you will feel the need to explore, caress and taste a different body.