Fumble Fingerz

1992 I believe with a British SP "Billie" on James Steet downtown Ottawa. Pleasant, open-minded lady. Safe and basic full service with some DFK.

My views exactly on this whole issue...make your own decisions as to credibility as you read through the posts. You have a brain, so use it.

Amelia: I just wanted to add that this is very much about mutual chemistry too as I love playing with someone to whom I'm very passionate about and someone I want to please. Again, limits can be tested, but they should respected on both parts. I did have a session some years ago with someone who was totally drop dead gorgeous, but very mean spirited and cruel...too much so for my liking. Safe, sane and consentual was the standard for one of my favourites...and she was, of course, most beautiful indeed and totally unattainable. Hope you achieve your goals.

Ottawa is a pretty small city. On a number of occasions, over the years, I have run across friends, co-workers and past co-workers in the company of an SP who is known to me. All of these people have family and there have been time when I have caught their eye. I know who they were with, but do they know that I know who they were with? I value discretion immensely even though I'm in a less than loving relationship with my wife and am primarily self-employed as an independent contractor in my field and as a part-time musician. Some of my clients would raise an eyebrow. Some would care less. Others would have a melt-down. So even if I were single, there would be some fallout or ramifications of some sort workwise perhaps, but nothing I couldn't handle really. I prefer to be discrete and live and let live.

Operating in stealth mode (discretion) with a tad of creative accounting (no paper trail) and time management on my part will usually suffice.

You're on your way to burnin' in hell Emma...time for a fetish party I guess. LOL

Daytime weekdays is best for me as I can make myself absent easily. Not so during evenings and weekends, however for obvious reasons.

I just did Brandi...you got more points now but coming from me that may work against you. LOL I don't believe me and don't expect you to either.

Brandi: I started with one this morning and now I have three...totally bogus! I wouldn't believe anything that comes from either my mouth or fingers. LOL

I'm not into astrology but enjoy the research! LOL

If it's anonymous, it lacks credibility IMOP. I'm bright enough to make my own decisions based upon life experience and my ability to read posts/threads. It makes no difference to me if someone has one icon or one thousand. I don't know you nor have I met you; your posts are articulate, intelligent and well-informed. You have received recommendations from some well regarded members of CERB. That's good enough for me. Don't worry about it.

I'm not predisposed towards discussing either politics or religion on forums/boards. I will say, however, I was glad to see him come to Ottawa. He has a very difficult task at hand as do all world leaders given the current economic situation, wars, environmental issues, poverty and health-care. Obama's only one person; hopefully, he will be given a fair chance and that he will work in cooperation with US trading partners and other countries.

I really wouldn't want to hear, "Hey, you're my father! Remember me?" Might spoil the mood somewhat. LOL Seriously, it wouldn't bother me in the slightest.

Exactly Seymour! With me, respect is always given freely (to everyone).

Exactly Seymour! With me, respect is always given freely (to everyone).