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Congratulations Isabella!

Any Wookiees out there who speak greek?

That it is 2012 and we still don't have flying cars, or rocket shoes :( http://blogs.smithsonianmag.com/paleofuture/2011/12/the-fanciful-chocolate-filled-world-of-2012/ Though humanity has made a lot of progress, slower than people expected many years ago, but we are moving forward :)

Turn off: This is being a little picky but having the TV on while we are doing it and having something definitely not sexy being shown! Turn on: When your both in the act, things are getting intense. Your eyes meet and she gives you that fiery look that just pierces right through you.

A great topic! I agree with the all the points made but the problem I find is that basic human rights are sometimes at odds with influential groups of people and gets in the way of business (Maybe sex wouldn't sell anymore if it was readily available to everyone). But imagine a world where women don't get labeled as sluts because they "oh my god!" have sex with more than one person! Where people don't have to live fake lives in order to hide their sexual orientation from friends and family. Where young people can get proper sex education. Where violence against sex workers isn't ignored by our legal system and finally, where the individuals I just listed above and many others don't have to be ignored/shamed/abused by those who think they know what is best for us (while not judging their own actions of course). I believe many would like this world better and I like to think we are slowly getting there!!

hey everybody! First of all thanks to everyone who has responded (very thoughtfully I may add) to my previous threads! This question is much more silly! Here Goes! So today I'm looking in my fridge. It has been the same since Christmas: Turkey, turkey stuffing, gravy, mashed potatoes, etc. I have been eating turkey for days, adding turkey to every meal of the day in what is usually a futile attempt to finish it all before having to throw it out (A tough task if you run out of stuffing or gravy first!) Leftover turkey is still delicious though and eating it always reminds me how lucky I am to be eating it, making me realize how fortunate I am in general! So my question is what is your favorite food leftovers? Food that can be eaten cold and/or doesn't get gross in the microwave? Food that flawlessly pulls the double duty of being two separate meals? Thank you all for your responses!

What I like about Cerb is that it is a sort of gateway that can lead you to physical and emotional intimacy with like minded people or lead you to discovering new kinds of pleasure you may have been only curious about before or that you didn't know you'd enjoy! We are all sexual beings (well most of us anyways!) and it is great to have a place to be open about sex in ways we just can't be elsewhere, to discuss issues of all kinds, crack some jokes, give and receive advice on various things (thanks everyone for the advice I've received!) and help each other out. Sites like this help break down the stereotypes one may have about the hobby, about service providers and about clients and most importantly, Cerb also provides tools and community support to help the providers and clients have safe encounters!

One thing that is gonna suck in the near future: Shoveling snow off of your car (assuming we ever get any)!

Great comments so far! Thanks! My answer is nothing that hasn't been posted but here it is! I've never been on a date with a service provider before and have no experience on the matter. I just know that if I do, I really what this person I am with to enjoy my company, friendship, and to look forward to the next date. There definately has to be a click there before any intimacy occurs because like what has already been posted, I just can't see myself having sex without some kind of mutual emotional bond and respect. It would just feel.... hallow and like I'm missing out on the full experience! Haven't been a big part of the forums but what I've seen so far is that there are a lot of great people in this hobby (both providers and hobbiests) that have so much to offer than just sex and I think I've got a bit to offer myself :) So if I do dive into the hobby, yes it would probably be best to start with online stuff, getting to know each other dates (I like to take things slow anyway) and pretty much everything that roamingguy said in his post! If things click then go from there, if not then that's okay because it happens and you can always learn from the experience :)

Mashed Potatoes!! Stuffing!! Turkey!! And also gravy! Gravy is the duct tape of food. It can (and should) be used in as many occasions involving edibles as possible. Breakfast, Brunch, Lunch, Linner (?), Dinner It can make bad food taste good, and good food taste like a party in your mouth and ladies get in free.

All are welcome to answer! A few questions in one thread! This may not be worded the best (I'll probably edit it 60 times!) but here it goes: Why is it so important to some clients to have a true connection with a service provider if they are receiving the fantasy that they ask for anyways? (that fantasy being everything that happens in or out of the bedroom) What makes those genuine emotions (from a client or provider) so special and what do they encompass? (Edit: I agree that there should be emotional connection but I hope my question wasn't originally posted like I didn't understand why! Oops my bad!) Thanks everyone!

I love this thread! Cuddliest thread ever :)

I always thought it would be fun to do some baking, maybe a cake or something! How about drawing each other in the nude? Or pottery? Now all I can think about is this movie!

Hope you recover soon Eric! I'm so disappointed that this stuff keeps happening. Where are the friends and family of these people when they decide to get behind the wheel?

If your a dog lover you should check out this Japanese film about the life of a guide dog. It is pretty good and adorable :) Link for the trailer:

Great post! I have another one: NRKB - Negotiating Rates gets you Kicked in the Balls Maybe a bit too aggressive to put on the menu but maybe some more people might get the hint!

The fact that even with the knowledge we have gained and the technology we possess, that there is still so much fighting, corruption, poverty and intolerance in the world. I so amazingly lucky to be born in this country and to be able to do the activities I like doing, like sitting here at my computer right now talking to so many sexually free people without fear of being punished or being judged. Or little things, like getting a drink of clean water or not having to worry about a bomb going off while driving to work. It is unreal how some people have to live day to day.

- Keep being there for my friends, family, strangers and charities - Work out more - Hopefully stop being so shy and book an appointment with one of these lovely ladies, eventually becoming a trusted semi-regular! (hmmm I wonder if anyone does paid webcam sessions as sort of a starting point to pry me out of my shell a bit? hmmm I will have to look into that!) - Contribute more to this great community!

There is room in this world for both (preferably my bed part of the world!). There is room in this world for all shapes and sizes! However I will say this: if I could invent implants that lactate mountain dew, I'd be a rich rich man.

I don't think that I am really into BDSM at all (maybe some spanking!) but if someone else is then great for them for doing the activities they enjoy :). As far as someone telling me why they like it either on the boards or on a date, sure why not! It is interesting to listen to why someone has the tastes that they do and open my mind up a bit. Perhaps I can learn a thing or two about myself!

I could eat a bathtub full of them in one sitting!

"The real man *(or woman!)* smiles in trouble, gathers strength from distress, and grows brave by reflection" - Thomas Paine "I don't have anything against anyone else's beliefs but my opinion is that if god or whoever didn't want us to masturbate, why give us hands and not two more feet? Put I believe there is a reason you only place ONE hand on the bible, so that the other one is free to do its job!" -DixonD, a wise philosopher of all things sexy and not by the way! "Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around." - Leo Buscaglia

A question for everyone, clients and providers: What would be something you would really like to do (or have done) during a date with a client/SP (ex- going to a certain restaurant, having a great conversation). An activity that isn't a sex act, though it can be something sensual! I always thought it would be fun to go take salsa dancing lessons! Or just have a nice talk about random things!