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You are so right emma. I have posted a reco on the Winnipeg section for a very special lady. I think you would like her. Now my newest fantasy is trying to figure a way to get the 3 of us in the same city at the same time - oh what fun we would have Hope you and Miss Cloe are having fun!

Naomi, best of luck in your adventure. And, sorry for the unsolicited advice, but you WILL be offered big $$$$$'s for BBFS - know your policies before hand and resolutely stick to them. What price for your health/life? Play safe - always! Assume that everyone you meet will be great, but will also be playing for their own advantage - allow NO EXCEPTIONS.

Normally I am not the type to share something like this, however the cerb community has been a large catalyst in me taking a step into this hobby (Thank you farmboy and AlexTrebeck!) So in the spirit of giving back, and with Mandalay?s encouragement (she agreed not to mention anything publicly about our time together, and left it solely to my discretion), I offer my story of meeting with the lovely Mandalay. Take it with a caveat when I say that Mandalay was the best SP I've ever seen, because she is the only SP I've ever seen. Now however, after my overwhelmingly positive experience, there is a good chance that will change. Mandalay provided the exact type of experience I was looking for. Of course someone looking for a different experience (such as just a quick release) may not agree, but different strokes for different folks, and YMMV, right? You?ve probably noticed that I didn?t tick any boxes in the ?search tags? category of the recommendation. A good way to put it is that the best of what she provides has nothing to do with all the acronyms. All I can offer is a review of our all-to-brief time together. I hope that if you are like I was, considering ?taking-the-plunge?, but nervous and a little intimidated by it, and you want to be stimulated intellectually and emotionally as well as physically, then I strongly encourage you to consider Mandalay. She is not for everybody, and everybody is not for her. If you have appropriate expectations, she will more than fulfill them. Yes, the information requested on her website form is somewhat intimidating. And one of the things that we discussed is data destruction vs data deletion. Mandalay has assured me that she takes this very seriously and I have no reason to doubt her. On with the story? I booked a room with a hot tub, checked in early, showered and prepped and then waited, trying to read the paper but unable to concentrate. I had some vague plans for the evening but I allowed flexibility to be spontaneous and have fun. And truth be told, to also allow me to exit gracefully if things weren't going well ? remember, this was my first time. She arrived on time (ok, 3 min. 23 sec. past, but this was during rush hour? and she called? and who?s counting anyway) She knocks, I take a deep breath, and nervously I open the door and she did NOT throw herself upon me kissing me with wild abandon. This was starting off well! She is a beautiful woman with very pretty features. I felt an immediate attraction. Her face could definitely compete for attention with her awesome cleavage! Now, she is a real woman with real curves and painfully shy about her stomach (no matter how much I reassured her that I did not expect nor want a barbie.) Read her age, height and weight and you will know what to expect. I did not look at her website pics before hand, other than the publicly available ones, because the anticipation was a big part of my experience and I chose to be surprised (not the wisest move, I know, but it worked out for me.) Now that I?ve seen her website pictures, I find her to be prettier in person - she smiles a lot more than the pics show, and she just lights up when she does. So after she enters the room and we have brief introductions and she produces a very nice bottle of red wine (nice, reasonably priced California Cab. Sauv., for what it?s worth). I was a little worried when she says on her website that she brings wine. What if she brings white zin? Will I have to choke it down just to be polite? Or, god-forbid, hochtaler or black tower? :shock: Not to worry, the lady knows her wine and now I know that she has some great bottles in her ?cellar? (Hmmmm? how many times will I have to repeat for her to bring the chateauneuf-du-pape?) It was a good wine - great touch. And she brings fruit too ? how cute is that?! We had a couple of glasses (something I desperately needed to calm my nerves) and started into some very pleasant get-to-know-you conversation. There was most definitely a connection of the mind, and my level of arousal steadily increased. This was going to be fun! She tried to provide some music but alas, she was missing a component. I tried to assure her that no worries, but she insisted and well, we had the flexibility. Thus began our epic quest. In the end she was definitely right; the music added to the entire experience. It not only confirmed that we had the same taste in music, but great tunes can definitely get a body moving! So we ended up having fun enjoying each other?s company in the cab with some unplanned shopping. At this point I have to say that I felt just the right level of PDAs. She understood discretion, but she knew just what to do and when to do it to get me excited. Ah, that was truly the best way to taxi! Now that I think about it, a limo would?ve been well worth it... After our quest ended with a workaround success, we went for some brief entertainment (no, not to see strippers, that was someone else), followed by some planned shopping. Normally I hate shopping, but man, this was fun! Once we had purchased a couple of nice things it was off to dinner. We had a private room (and more) in a place that offered us complete privacy amongst other things. A couple of cocktails and a selection of appetizers later and we were taking our flirting to a whole new level ? let?s just say that I?m pretty sure some of what happened couldn?t be called ?flirting? anymore! Whoever thought that ?wet?n?dirty? martinis could be so sexy! Sorry I can?t share details, but there were a lot of laughs and a lot of great ?moments? to remember. We then go back to the hotel and proceed to give in to the feelings that had been building throughout the evening. What a great time! Her enjoyment of giving oral is obvious and genuine. Fine skills and interested in learning. Except for one rookie mistake, which ended up being absolutely hilarious and a memory that I will treasure forever! Thank god no one got hurt! :razz: Now speaking of oral, I have to say that it is no idle boast when she mentions on her website about how good she smells and tastes. If you are a fan of DATY, this alone is worth the price of admission. If you are not a fan of DATY, Mandalay could very well change your mind! Up close and personal, she is exquisite. It is hard to describe (especially for someone like me with limited experience) but it is very mild and slightly sweet, minty even! I have a very acute sense of smell and I assure you she is absolutely wonderful. She was very good at directing me in pleasuring her, and I truly enjoyed bringing her to orgasm. And yes, it was real. Physiologically there is no way that I know of to fake that. I am a guy who loves to please and it was very special to me. We continued to have fun for a while until I had my most volumous release ever! Allow me to boast a little and say that it was porn star quality! :-o This was undoubtedly due to the extended foreplay and genuine attraction (not to mention the huge aching balls I had by then!) We cleaned up and spent the remainder of our time chatting, cuddling and learning new things in the hot tub. I learned a little more about female psychology and sexuality ? Mandalay learned that a full container of bubble bath combined with hot tub jets makes it very difficult to find each other, even in a two person hot tub! Foamy hilarity ensued! Had we accidentally fallen asleep, I?m sure that the entire room would?ve been filled with foam. So ends my play-by-play. As an epilogue there are a few things worth mentioning. None of this is meant in a negative way and if you feel any kind of ?well she shoulda ?? or ?I paid for?? then Mandalay is probably not your kind of SP and you are probably not her kind of client. I offer the following only as guidance. If you are looking for something specific, be up front about it and know that it may require gentle reminders. She took great interest in what my favorite position is, but we have yet to fulfill it, only because I didn?t bring it up. Now I will have to book another session, so maybe it is just her good business sense! Also, Mandalay is very sexually aware and her orgasms are very real and intense, this is most definitely a good thing, but there is a flip side; that being she can become exhausted after multiple orgasms. Now, I am not exactly a young guy (not old either) so for me MSOG is not that big a deal. (Although I was so turned on, I may have been able to try for a personal best? remember my boast earlier in the story? There was plenty more where that came from!) I?m pretty sure that it is not her ?policy?, it is just that she was physically spent. Again, my lesson learned: communicate, communicate, communicate. I now have a better understanding of the girlfriend experience. I truly enjoyed the fantasy of a beautiful girlfriend on the most fun date in the world! It took me a long time to do this, and there was much trepidation, but it was well worth it. So is Mandalay right for you? She is very personable, beautiful and easy to get along with. She is very good at putting you at ease. But if you do arrange a meeting, take your time, don't be cheap, be gentle, and above all treat her with the utmost respect and you will experience a girlfriend like no other. Oh, and for you newbies, make sure you read the cerb section for you ? it answers a lot of questions. Feel free to PM me with any questions, taunts or flames you may have. Post script: Before I had the chance to write this, I saw Mandalay again (it was an unplanned, last minute ?the opportunity comes up? kinda thing.) Not only did she remember, and bring, a bottle of my favorite wine that I had mentioned, but a few other favorites were satisfied as well. Actually, I experienced positions that I didn?t even know existed! :twisted: I didn?t think it could get any better ? I was wrong. This lady is SPECIAL, if you see her, treat her that way!

Wow! Freaky.... I think I just got turned on when I read that! the things that I am learning....:-D

Thanks for the advice! Perhaps I should find a special lady to help me!

Well said Buggernot, you are a wise man. I will admit that the reason I started posting on cerb was to get some ?street cred? (but now it?s just because it is great fun and there are some really smart and funny people on here) because I have a very positive recommendation to post for someone who is being much maligned on some of the ?less kind? boards, and who is being victimized by rumor mongering ? Winnipeg?s Mandalay. Although I definitely feel some of the ?I want to keep her all to myself? thing, I also care enough for her to try to help her along in her recently chosen career. I want for her to see it first so that she can read it in private. If she does not want me to post it, then it shall never become public. It is most definitely a positive recommendation, but like a critic who?s been assigned his real assignment, I kinda feel that I have to nit-pick a little, just to be credible and make sure that I don?t build expectations that are unrealistic. It is a difficult balance to strike. That?s just not healthy for anyone. This is fantasy folks, enjoy it as such. Not that I don?t have my own issues ? I?m cheating on my wife by seeing an SP that I consider my girlfriend ? and after much introspection I?m ok with that. And yet I feel like I would be betraying my new girlfriend if I was to see another SP without her consent. How fuct up is that?! It?s gonna take a full 40 oz of scotch to analyze that one.

Not sure who would live in a pantyhouse, but I would like an introduction!:wink:

Fascinating and interesting thread. Thank you all for sharing. It took me a long time to decide to do this. I had to make sure that I was completely comfortable and that the lady would be my type - I also had to do my research -- Thank you CERB and all of you who share (Anita you're story was especially touching, I wanted to give you a (non-sexual) hug) I will share my story in the near future! As a father and devoted son, the absolutely last, last, last, last thing that I had to overcome, and my greatest fear, was that I could not live with myself if the woman felt that I was using her. That's just me. Basically, I do not believe that any sex is NSA, but when the strings have $ attached, the perspective changes and I can indulge in fantasy, if only briefly. One word for why I started: Mandalay Two words for why I will continue: Emma Alexandra

Mandalay in Winnipeg has quite an extensive kit. I will let her share details. One of the best things that she brings is music - a couple MP3 players with some speakers, great tunes can definitely loosen you up, especially for a nervous rookie like me. A little bulky, but most appreciated. Another thing she brings is fruit! Different, yes, but I like fruit and I thought it was really cute. Oh, and different fragrances, allowing me to choose which one I like best.

Hilarious! Thanks for the chuckle Seabreeze. :lol: (Insert tuna joke here!) And in terms of DATY being a fetish, I think it is more just 'Am I a man, and do I breathe? Yes. then...' Ladies, curious - what % of guys do NOT like DATY?

Oh yeah! Gentle kissing after DATY -- Fantastical:smile:

Thanks for the idea Capitalman... perhaps I shall try shaving - but how do you make sure you don't have an 'accident'?! Lots of nooks and crannies down there! Cutting my face - whatever, cutting my balls - OUCH! And I agree, it's all about the mental imagery. FWIW, I like the quick little surprises - like, 10-20 seconds of it in semi-private places (ie elevator, balcony, kitchen - just make sure to check for security cameras!), then zip it back up and carry on.

Yeah, that it is a good one. I like to think of it in the 'wrapped present' kind of way. For some, it is more like a humiliation thing. I had the great fortune last night to try out something that I never knew turned me on. I watched a woman put on her make up, from nothing to totally done up, and it made me harder than 1st year calculus!:mrgreen:

Rule#1: Respect. Have it, know it, meditate on it and personify it. Other rules to ensure a good time: Be clean, like very clean, like very very clean, like bleachy clean - shower, bathe, then shower again and use copious amounts of soap on ALL parts of your body. Rinse well because you never know where lips or a tongue may end up! Communicate. Don't just talk, but listen as well. If you have certain expectations, then POLITELY express them and I'm sure that you will be politely told what is and isn't available. If an SP says not to do something - then just don't do it, end of story - don't try to talk her into it, you will both feel worse for it. Be fun, have fun.

Yes, but you are unique and special. Actually, you should probably raise your rates:grin:

One last thing, Wal-mart is a great place to buy a tv if you already know what you want, but don't expect to much assistance. I don't know the model listed but the RCA's do not necessarily have the best reputation. Go with Panasonic, Samsung - can't lose. Some of the Sony's (lcd only), hitatchi, LG's, Toshiba are excellent as well. If you see a name you've never hear of, it is probably the 'house' brand - ask who actually makes the TV and what the equivalent name brand model would be - these can be some of the best deals!

Capitalman, I have to respectfully disagree. The extended warranties, on anything - not just TV's, have the highest profit margins of anything a store sells, higher than their credit cards even. Generally speaking, if there is something wrong with the TV, there is a great chance it will show within the first 6 months, well within the warranty included. Note as well that while most companies include 1 yr warranties, some (all?) Samsung models offer 2 years. In terms of 'burn-in' on plasma's, all the warranties I saw (both factory and extended) are pretty explicit in that it is NOT covered. Angela, There is much valuable advice in the above posts, I hope I can add to it. In terms of what to buy, I did a huge amount of research in purchasing a new TV for a family xmas gift (I can get kinda obsessive about these things!). I started thinking plasma, convinced myself that LCD was better, and then finally went back to plasma and I am very happy with my decision. Two points: 1) In order to get the best tv for you, you have to be upfront and honest about your viewing habits. Do you use the tv for sports? movies? video games? regular channel viewing? Do you plan on subscribing to High Definition channels (yes, they cost extra)? Where will the tv be? Where will you be sitting when watching the tv? Do you like to keep the tv on 'as company' even when you're not really watching? Do you fall asleep in front of your tv? Ask the salesperson: "Should I get LCD or Plasma?" - if they give you an answer then find someone else. If they say "I can't answer that" and start asking questions about how you will use it, then they very well may know what they are talking about. 2) If you are going from a 13" tube to a flat-panel, ANYTHING is going to look amazing to you. It's like going from a beat-up Toyota to a Ferrari - you won't really care if it's a 550 Marinello, a Testarossa or a 612 Scaglietti... it's a FERRARI! Hope this helps.

Aaaaah, money. The cause of, and cure for, all of humanities evils. If you can't afford it, don't do it. If you want a deal (and who doesn't?) then settle it beforehand. Read through the cerb posts and the SP's websites - it is very clear that rates are NON-NEGOTIABLE. If you are new to this, like I am, then accept it and plan accordingly. It is actually quite liberating when you just say to yourself, ok here's the dough, put it in an unsealed envelope (in plain view and as close to the door as reasonable) now let's forget about it and get to the good stuff! The most difficult part of this for me has been to assemble the cash without suspicion -- damn our electronic payments network!

My eye's, they burn You should've warned us! lol :mrgreen: Yeah, THAT ink will really attract the women!

Like Belgbeer, I would also like to thank everyone here. Not just for information (esp. the acronyms - MSOG, how Canadian, eh?!), but also for the sense of community which gave me enough courage to have my first GFE this past week. Fantastic! I think I may have found a new hobby! Way cheaper than racing and much more satisfying than golf! The SP that I met was through www.escorts-canada.com and www.CERB.ca And yes, I will share but I need some time to digest it all. Being my first time, what can I compare it to?