Amanda Bella

I am afraid of not self actualising my artistic and intellectual dreans. I fell dead walking without art or creativity and food for thought in my life.

WrinkledinTime I think a well educated guess with emotional and sexual intelligence will prefer to ask "how do you prefer" Instead of i do this and that to her. WrinkledinTime You are absolutely right assuming he is insensitive to her likes and dislikes it is wrong of me. I only wish more guys had more interest in learning the likes and dislikes of individual woman because some guys grab and bounce and pinch and hurt our breasts and do hard painful stuff to us assuming because he is paying our bodies are playground for him to do as you wish!

Annessa is right they have not interviewd enough people. This business has a class issue either the lady has a upper middle class background or she comes from lower class and have not a clue on emotional and social intelligence and self care and manners etc.. I do not do drugues and most of the sex workers i know are busy doing their PHD or in Law school they cannot afford drugues etheir. I have done it but i would not do it with clients given i prefer to be aware of my surrounds while in the presence of a male person that i am not familiar with. And what is drugues anyways? Coffe? TV? Internet? Alcohol? I have never worked on the streets although i completely understand someone who does. Most of my friends are like me they will spend money on expensive hotel rooms and care for their apparence and see their clients as luxurious dates who have good manners and health life style and formal education. Women work on the streets because it is expensive to rent a hotel room and some guys are game players no show thus things can either be great or turn sore. True some guys just want companionship but i believe that if they walk out without sex they would be very desapointed for guys are rather sexual beings.

SRCHintimacy! Has ever occur to you to ask a woman if she wants or enjoys you to lick her breasts? It is annoying when guys assume that their tecnique it is the best because they donne once and it worked! Like Mistert said! It depends when and to whom and everyone is different and i find everyone has a differengt sexual envelloppe, unfortunately sex it is one of those luxuries that requires knowledge on the individual bases! Mistert you sound like you got emotional and sexual intelligence wow, check this out guys! There is always room for improvement and its a continuous learning experience. What works one time might not the next, as everyone is different and every moment in time is different. The erotic arts, sensuality and sexuality is based on respect of oneself and the other's, as well as on the art of "listening", communication and open mondedness, in my opinion. Mistert Thank you for educating the Canadian lovers wanna be on how to make the best of love making opportunities in the post modern feminist times.

Sweetes Massage! I believe in this business that parking and discreetion and my well being it is essential! From this perspective i prefer to pay more and fell good from within when i look around my room! I find the Arc hotel pure seduction but the fact that the reception can see who my visitors are and how many does not sound discreet to me. Annessa i agree! The Bawdy law is absurd in reality we live in a world that theoretically only males can enjoy life and take advantage of their possibilities.

Imdec123! I do not know about Canadian Ladies but a Brazilian or a Latin girl or a Black girl, we will tell you if we dislike what you are doing to us. It fells awfull to have someone doing something to our bodies that we cannot stand. Imdec123 Some guys have the nerve to tell me " I am not here to learn" or " I already know about the female body" It is very sad that some gents completely refuse to find out and ask what are the sexual preferences of a lady with whom they could have loads of fun with. Males who are humble and curious about individual female sexual desire and preferences will have the luxury of experiencing his woman come without stop. Our female body is designed for multiple orgasmic experience thus like Imdec123 said sex for us it is the whole body not particular erogenous zone or better ask your girl, how do you like? How and what do you prefer? Where? Ask her to do to you, what you would like her to do it to her. Female sexuality it is the whole body and mind experience if you say something to turn us off, we will be turn off. Trust me! If you lack good hygiene with your bum ( I get that a lot believe or not from clients ) We will are turn off right the way! If you guys were more humble in bed you could make us come by pleasuring our whole body! Not just the breasts! And we can go on and on and on, our female body it is made for multiple orgasms and squirts if we are with a gentleman who is emotionally and sexually generous and curious to learn about our particular sexual likes and dislikes! Forget chocolatte! We dont like to get fat! We like to get a great F!

Moonshadow why does breasts make you happy? What is it about breasts that turns you on and why? This debate has a few educated fellows and i would like to know why does breasts make you happy? I am happier if a guy tries to give me what i want the way i enjoy getting it, he does not have to have breasts;)!

You are soooooo right Mistert! A great lover is someone who is caring and concerned about the other like you said, i love how elegant you said "selflessness and the discovery of what works for both" I love the way you put it, it is nicelly said you are probably great in bed mmmmmmmmm! Additional Comments: I am so happy to know that i am not alone in the search of ways to make good sex better! To me great sex it is when i make my lover come over and over and over again! Or he makes me go and and on and on and on. As you said it takes communication and pleasuring the other mmm! Can you return ot the debate which are breasts? How does some of you ladies prefer when someone make love to you? I am curious to know.....:rolleyes:

MRGREEN Thank you for letting me know that at least you have some awareness of some principles in the arts of erotics, why are the great lovers in this world so rare? I think although sex it is one of the most searched after activities most people do not bother to read about sexuality neither care to find out the likes and dislikes of their sexual partners. I will never understand how come some people study to become lawyers engineers and politicians, but most people will not bother reading about sexual intelligence, it is so sad and as a result most people are zero lovers. I think good sex requires some knowledge and fitness and finess and self awareness and generosity, if one is self centred sex cannot be any good right? But generous guys are the best lovers. Not generous in a financial sense but in a emotional attentive and sexual sense.

Are you kidding me! I loooooooved the Marriott! The roons were elegant and clean and when they were nicer, they were outstanding! I did not book at the marriott this time because the rates were 300 and up and i prefer to book something i can afford. Hotwire does not tell which hotel it is thus i fell insecure about booking them. Sweetest Massage & Annessa, thank you for sharing with me. Once i get regular lovers in Ottawa i will book The arc hotel sound beautiful and romantic mmmmmmmmmmmmm!

In my female body! Breasts are a wonderful source of pleasure, but only if you care to find out how i would like you to touch mine. If you grab it hurts, please dont! If you jump into suking my nipple it hurts like hell dont do that either. Just ask the lady, how would you like me to eroticise your body? We usually want to have a good time with you. At least i do! Been an attentive caring lover can lead us to have multiple orgasms with you! Whereas been rough with our delicate parts leads us to think of you as repulsive and annoying. Thank you for this thread awesome idea!

I went to the crowne plaza after had staying at the Marriott! Which was a culture clash, the crowne plaza might be sp friendly but they have junk furniture and dirty carpetes. The marriott is elegant and clean and the furniture top notch classy. Yesterday the Arc Hotel was 170, today it is 114! I starting to realise that booking in advance might not be a good idea, hotels seem to lower their prices very often! Have any sex workers here worked from the Arc Hotel? or the Indigo? What do you mean by boutique Hotel? Thank you. Amanda

Thank you so much, i truly appretiatte it, so helpful! I stay at the Mintos the last time, sure they are super nice. Additional Comments: The problen with those cheap hotels it is that their roon lack personality and taste. Our job can be so hard at times, thus i need to get up and look around and think. wow this roon it is sooooooooo nice! I loved the marriott but the prices are so hogh these days wow!

Thank you so much! I am looking for hotels as we speak! I will check for the Novotel for sure, thank you! Have anyone been to the Extended Stay? Bay At Albert? Do they require key cards to the lelvators? Will my visitors be seeing by the front desk? Thank you. Amanda

How about the Westin in Ottawa? Will the gents be seeing by the Front Desk? Does it requires Key Cards to the lelvators? Ah! Remember i was asking you about Hotels in Edmonton? I found it, apparently nice one's that does not requires key cards to the elevators, let me know if you want the names. Thank you Charlotte!

Hello Ladies & Gentleman in Ottawa! Wow booking a Hotel In Downtown Ottawa these days it is tough, the nice places are all booked! Is the Arc Hotel in Ottawa Discreet for a sex worker to do in calls? Will my visitos be seeing my the Reception, at The Arc Hotel? Thank you so much!

I find different cities have different scheduals it also depends on what kind of clients one fells more confortable with.

I think the best way to increase brain power is by taking a nap or a good night of sleep!

U r too smarty babe! I prefer candle lights and dim lights, sexy requires atmosphear and ambiance, dont u think?

Intense Caring Passionate Vivacious Dense Thoughtfull Interested Curious Sensitive Loving Intellectual Self-absolved Self-inflated and Modest, of course! I'm obsessively opposed to the typical. Lady Gaga From her song, The Fame.

Excessive fat around your belly and below your belly buton it is an impediment to good erectal function given the blood will have a hard time getting to the arteries to give the guy a functional erection, thus this research makes no sense at all! Estrogene alone makes a guy more compassionate or more peacefull but has no influence on blood flow in the arteries, for fat it is too dense to allow good blood circulation! I think we did not read the same endocrinology text books. I'm obsessively opposed to the typical. Lady Gaga From her song, The Fame.

Just over a year - I guess I'm just a "posting whore" (HA!) You are also genuinely good and well spoken and honest and damn interesting person. Visiting Ottawa would have been hell without you there to give us your helping hand, thank you for been your loving caring self. I'm obsessively opposed to the typical. Lady Gaga From her song, The Fame.

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I love watching debates on The Agenda! My favority was when they were discussing Great speechs some were moving! But when i am very tired i just want to watch comedy, like 22 Minutes! "Knowledge is learning something every day. Wisdom is letting go of something every day." (Zen Proverb )