The General

I dropped by today, and saw Bridgette and Kitty, old times. Hockey game tonight, lots of Maple Leafs fans in town, so the place had some traffic, which was nice.

Fond memories indeed. Too bad some of us guys, never grow up. Nah, better that way 🤣

Haven't been to the Barefax for some time, but Sally was always a favourite and sometimes elusive. That said, well worth the wait, for sure. :-)

There was a link, the ad has been deleted, maybe for good reason. And everyone should determine on their own how to factor in the experience and posting history of the poster. is ir

Certainly inappropriate for this site, but not sure unhelpful..... :-)

Awesome girl, you are a great contributor around here. :-)

Guess without Rob Ford still as the mayor, no champion for the SC.

Never mind

I still am the brew and pot guy, but have a thermal pot, so it stay hot and doesn't need heat under it, which typically makes the coffee taste awful, pretty fast. In fact, I just microwave the next day, and don't waste much coffee. So, I figure about $10 for coffee, which equates to about 10c per cup. Then I have more money for fun things in life. :-)

So I really think we have become a victim of the retailer and bought into the whole it is better and we should spoil ourselves and get a better coffee (I could probably replace that word with a million other ones). At the margin it is better, and perhaps spoil ourselves every now and then, but it has become an everyday staple. As to the coffee, give me the old fashion coffee maker, I will gladly buy the coffee in bulk and will dispose of the grounds as per normal. Let me see, what do I save. Perhaps $50 dollars a month, $600 a year, and $3,000 every 5 years. And for this, I would take a lovely vacation in the South. So, which is it, snotty coffee or a nice vacation, you chose.... I know which one I would take.

Maybe give the test version for a small amount first, and then see what you think. Hey you never know, could be the gem of the century.

So, I have now limited myself to just asking about rates, nothing else, seems to be the safest route. Can we just ask about rates, and still be okay? I figure that will mean less screening, and greater chance of disappointments. What does everyone think? Perhaps over time, things will normalize, but am more inclined to stick with knowns, regardless of a love of variety. Such maybe life. :-(

Yep, now that is much better and discreet, I think that is more in line with what the OP was thinking. lol

It is not that unusual for bp ads to be removed, so wouldn't put too much into that.

I believe that Ebony lady mostly went by the name "Sally", but changed that when she move from the Mate to Fax, since "Sally" was already owned by one of the Fax ladies.

I do think you need to have a bit of a special relationship, at least that is what I found. Maybe tough on the first visit. But then again, really depends on the comfort level of the lady. If she is willing to do BBBJCIM, snowballing isn't much beyond that. And if you kiss after BBBJCIM, you might get a little cum anyway. Not sure why this was thought to be unsafe, beyond BBBJCIM. Seems pretty obvious.

A simple search of the recommendation section brings up this: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=147957 I did see her at PK too, so there might be another recommendation around. I would not hesitate to see her.

I have to say at the end of the day, guys ask to confirm things, regardless of what ladies put in your ad. This way you feel that everything was clear up front. Your ads are helpful, but don't expect that they will avoid questions that are in the ads. I am not saying don't put it in your ad, just don't expect that will avoid questions, some of the questions are ice breakers too.

She has an old recommendation. Worth a start. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=A&t=174081

So about a month ago I started thread about how people treat posters, and this is a classic example of someone asking a legitimate question and looking for some feedback, and mostly gets flak. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=189426 I sometimes wonder how much easier it might be just to pass or give the feedback sought. Guess not very...

Oh man, Purdy's chocolates... and I am in trouble now, they have opened up shop in Ottawa... And a 10 minute walk...... thank god they are now closed, or I would be heading there now.

Explosion......mmm

Not really sure what it is with all these on the edge type of people. Robin Williams was very cunning, awesome actor, but obviously needed to have a high all the time with work, etc. And when you don't have it, hard to find the right place in life.... very tragic and sad.

Jabba, The main point was that why people often have strong, mostly negative views when they think someone breached edict or rules, and why once someone raises a point, it is like everyone needs to chime in on the same point. And the one post in particular (and this was a relatively minor one) was a recommendation on Beautiful Delilah that was posted in both the Ottawa (generally her home city) and NL (where she was seen). It is like everyone is the rules cop, and if you read the rules carefully, it was not unreasonable judgement that they could post in both places. That said, some thought otherwise, and even when presented a perspective and rationale why it might have been a reasonable to have posted in both placed and asked if it is a reasonable interpretation, refuse to respond. To me, it was pretty clear the rules were vague enough. The result can be that it basically can scare someone away from posting again for fear of the repercussions. It happens with some frequency, and often even continues after the original poster apologizes, and accepts the points. Anyways, time for me to move on from this post. OP- Can you expand a little about your thoughts?

Thanks Gabrielle. I don't think it is absolutely necessary to have posted in multiple cities, but I don't think it is wrong either. And it is a fine line about whether guys are providing some support in promoting you or whether you have to do it yourself. If you have no recommendations anywhere, you wouldn't have any link to provide, so recommendation do provide the vehicle for ladies to promote themselves. For me, I might use several search tools, but one is to look for the lady in the city I think I would see her, I don't always look in the other cities, nor use the global search tool.