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I think this is an interesting question. I am very much a last minute guy, so days of planning and prepartion are not part of my routine. That said, I give myself about an hour between calling and booking and inbetween get myself ready. I grab a shower and make sure that it is a good one, cleaning cleaning and making everything squeaky clean. Then I shave, put on dedorant, brush teeth and mouthwash. I try to make sure my hair is neat and check my nails to see if they need trimming. If so, I trim and then file them down so they are not sharp, don't want to have them rough. It is okay for my tongue to be sharp though, I think the ladies like that. Change my clothes, clean undies, etc. and then am ready to go. Hate the winter, especially if really cold and need to wear a hat, messes the hair. I live downtown, so often walk to my dates, so hence the concern about needing to wear a hat. Basically try to look presentable for my date, so that hopefully gives just a little more to the experience. So that is it. Hope the ladies find this acceptable preparation.
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Thanks Berlin for the support (in general), I hope that other guys are not jealous that you singled me out for this......lol.....just kidding everyone. As for DATY, in general, the more the better.
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Is there anything better?
The General replied to a topic in Ottawa Discussion - Stripclubs & Dancers
Okay, let's agree to it being a tie. The two together work just fine. -
Is there anything better?
The General replied to a topic in Ottawa Discussion - Stripclubs & Dancers
Always a fun time at the S/C. Never a dull moment for Joe. The king. I enjoy having the nice aroma around that can only be described as the scent of the women, nothing finer in life. -
What are you listening to right now?
The General replied to Andee's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
I am a soft rock guy (get you mind out of the gutter now) and listen to Majic 100 most of the time. -
Have you ever texted the wrong #?
The General replied to Carrie Moon's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
I am not a big texter, so thankfully this has never happened to me, but based on the number of wrong number phone calls, it probably happens all the time. I am sure there are some dozzers that have occurred. I wonder if any have ended a marriage or two. Text: Hey Sweetie, can we get together. Response: Love to. Text: Great my wife is out for the evening. Response: This is your wife. Silence....... -
Too bad shortcake, it will be so unfortunate. Additional Comments: Hey Nicki, great of you to step up an offer. I plan to be there, and hope that everyone has learnt from the past. Too bad we need a new venue, the last one was perfect in that it was a separate room and quite isolated from other areas. Hopefully we can find something as nice, and that we can enjoy like the last.
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Actually Nicki, you are sitting around and looking pretty all day long. That is the only way you are, all the time. I have to say that I am a bit last minute, but respect that probably around an hour notice is necessary. If guys think that 5 minutes, or just around the corner is all the notice that is necessary, who are they kidding.
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I think this is a matter of choice, many ladies offer reduced service as a matter of course, and men choose to accept this. So long as the lady is passionate, willing to explore and allow exploring, excluding of course the FS option and other services around that part of the body, this is fine. And of course, make sure it is well known up front what is excluded. The issue may be, is this priced differently or not. That is the choice of the lady, but if the service is less, the price might be too. While I realize the women say you are paying for my time in many cases, in the end, that is not what most men are really paying for, let's not kid ourselves. Have a good one.
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I think for the majority, it is possible that the lady partner can reach an orgasm. If one is attentive and can find that right spot, the ladies will respond and while not always, it is way more often than not that they will reach that plateau. You ladies, if it is not working for you, Berlin has it right, just guide us to where you want us, we are very willing partners and most of us find it very rewarding to have the lady enjoy the experience as much as the guy, and be able to orgasm.
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A Big Thanks... Re: Cerb Social
The General replied to Nicolette Vaughn's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
I had a great time, and things just never seem to end. Another one in the spring, sure, way too early to figure out any timing issues and you never find perfect date, so one should be selected. Thanks Nicki for stepping up. This is great. -
Mark Your Calendars FEB 10th Valentines Social
The General replied to ottanon's topic in Ottawa Discussion - Escorts
Wow, what a great time, lots of guests and a real party atmosphere. Nice to see faces behind all those names. Thanks to all the organizers. Always a risk of missing someone, but thanks to Angela, Cat, Nicki and of course, even in his absence, we should not forget Ottanon. -
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A Word We Should All Get Rid Of
The General replied to Lowdark's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
This has been an interesting post. Words are words, they will be around forever, it is one of the ways that we communicate. And the words themself are not the real issue. It is how we use them, the tone we use and the delivery of the use. The words are only a small part of the communication process. So forget about the word or words, it is the malicious delivery, the context of the situation and evil intent of the use of them, that is really harmful. We can say the exact same words in the sentences, one can be acceptable, the other offensive. -
I have to say that I am a tweener. I guess I would go for bare over fully natural, but that would be when natural is more of one that is fairly bushy, not all are. What I like is something more in-between, nice landing strip is great, nice triangle, etc. Love the sight of hair (maybe it is the too young look if there is none, I don't know), but one that is well groomed. Perhaps it gives me a sense of great hygiene, which is a turn-on. Well groomed, allows for better/easier access to the honey spot, which I could enjoy forever. Anyway, in the end, we love them all, but do have clear preferences.
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If it took you having an injury to reflex upon life and make a decision that you will be happy with forever, even in bad fortune, you find that golden lining. Good for you, best of luck and we will look for you when you become rich and famous. Don't forgot all us small people.
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This is a classic example of how confusing the expectations are. I agree that if an SP either responded by PM or posted on this thread, they actually could be suspended for it. It would be hard to believe this would fit the bill of an unsolicited response, but at the same time, who really knows. So, please threads like this should not be started, it can only lead to outcomes that are undesirable.
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Selecting Duo Partners
The General replied to Winnipegcub's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
Pete, That is easy for a seasoned pro, with a number of duo experience in his resume. But I do get the sense that the more the ladies are into it, the more exciting it will be. I agree watching two ladies that are really into each other, is the ultimate fantasy and then to be part of it, the more ultimate fantasy. Just thinking about it gives me that tight feeling in the pants. Okay, the message is take the plunge, and I agree. So the bucket list includes a duo, and that will need to be struck off soon, 2011 for sure. -
Selecting Duo Partners
The General replied to Winnipegcub's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
Winnipegcub, The thought has seriously crossed my mind too, but have so far not found the courage to try it. While it is an exciting thought, it is intimating, at least for me. My thoughts on that are to find two ladies that I have had an good experience with, and see if they would be compatible for a duo. I have a couple of ladies in mind, if I went that route, it may be challenging to make arrangements, particularly if the two are not already a duo partner. But it is a great question, find an existing duo partner, or try to match up two ladies that you have had great experiences with. I am thinking the latter of the two. -
Rules and FAQ area have been updated
The General replied to mod's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
Mod, Doesn' t surprise me about the SPAM PM confusion. There was a thread about this in August/September last year and some of the SPs thought it was okay to send PMs to guys that might have posted something about preferences and interest in certain types of ladies. I guess the line might be clearer if there were like 10-20 or more PMs sent vs. perhaps a couple. To me SPAM means many, not a few. Good to put it in, I think that this should be helpful, providing of course they are read, which I suspect many of us at best glance at them (mea culpa). Common sense prevails for many of us, or at least we think common sense prevails, our common sense anyway. -
Seems to be a fine line that is being considered. I understand that if a lady responds to a question like that, she could be viewed as sending unsolicited PMs and might even get suspended for it. I think if it was in response to something like that, this would not be the case, but it could put the ladies in a vulunerable situation.