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Thanks, that's the old thread, which included the reputation points gone wild....lol I was sure the one I saw was created today or perhaps yesterday.

I thought I saw a thread on reputation points, whereby new members had way more points than long time contributors. I couldn't find it again, but checked a few new members, and yes, wow, over 10,000 points. Took me probably 3 years to get to there, and at one time, I even had negative points, wtf. Guess that's what happens when you give your view, even if it isn't popular with everybody. Anyways, not even sure if reputation points give you any privileges, but to me they have very little value, and I would say this pretty much confirms that. I remember one time, there was a period of reputation points gone wild too, when they were going up exponentially for some people... Anyway, while it might not seem quite right, reputation points aren't something to get too excited about.

I would love to take my chances and see how it works out. I would work hard to please each and every one of the EMs. By hook or crook, I will make you naughty ladies have some pleasure, maybe a lot of pleasure. And if I can do it by myself, you can indulge in each other.

Wow, must be something about the Emily name that makes you ladies white hot. Emily J, you are a hot sexy beast too, and yes, I can see that the room temperature is rising here. I would love to take all 3 of you Emilys (Claire, you still have some Emily in you) and put you in a corner and make you all do some evil things.

The heat in this thread is quite amazing. I know it has me all excited, perhaps Emily is just too off the charts with sexual tension that she can't get herself back to the keyboard and give us a good reply. She may be due for a nice spanking on that soft tush.

I really think it depends on the situation. I am single, live on my own, I have no problem inviting a lady to my place. I still like incalls, but mostly since I live downtown, they are in walking distance, and why would I pay extra for an outcall.

It is a bodily function, and yes, the individual probably should have acknowledged it and apologized. That said, wouldn't change anything really and perhaps the embarrassment prevented the person from feeling they could do so. So, I wouldn't hold it against them. And in the middle of an act, a little more difficult to control oneself, since you are being distracted, and in a good way.

Booking for 30 minutes with the planned intent of taking around 45 minutes, is just absolutely wrong, it might happen once, but it should not be the intent, and if it happens you should tip to cover the extra time. The egregious part of Luv269 is that this is not only planned, but expected and viewed as a major accomplishment. This is not something to be proud of, more that you should feel guilty of your behaviour.

The Woodman getting up there in the stratosphere of awesomeness. The chat room wouldn't be the same without you either.... You are a king there.

Ah yes, do you want them back?

Awesome post, I feel that for the most part we make informed choices, and that I believe that choices I have made were not wrong, and really I think we should always look forward and not backwards. But I get it. Think about you future choices, but don't every regret the ones you have made, that will only make you bitter.

One solution would be to move across the river...... less commute time.

I have to say, Jenny with naturals was awesome, she didn't really need to enhance them, and then to do it again. Head shakes, don't get it with her.... Oh well, some guys love them I am sure.

Wow, I live alone, and don't mind it, realize it gives you the freedom of freedom, but in the end, nothing better than having someone to share your life with, regardless of those challenges. So, unlike many others it seems, while I enjoy my time alone, I would give it up for the right person. Additional Comments: Losing a loved one can be one of the most difficult things to deal with. There will be good days and bad days. Always try to remain positive, your life is what you make of it, when possible, always look at the half-full glass, it is the best one. Best of wishes to you, and to many better days ahead.

Thankfully many of us are left minded people...

H is for Handjob..

I made that comment, basically because earlier it was insinuated that if you knew the risks, you would not provide this service, and that only the new SPs, combined by persuasive hobbyist would this service be offerred. Obviously I said it with tongue in cheek, since I think many know the risks and make informed choices.

Wow, does this imply that the experienced SP that provides bbbj is naive. I think that many have made this an informed decision, not a naive one. I certainly wouldn't want to convey a message otherwise.

Whiteman, Thanks for the perspective, yes I agree this is not a new trend at all, bbbj has been around for quite some time, the removal of bbfs has been gone for a long time, and should be gone forever, but obviously creeps back into the discussion from time to time. The concern I would have with pricing, is that too many gents are looking for a bargain without sacrificing quality of service and will still seek the extras. Maybe I am wrong, but it could. It also might put pressure on those providing the extra services to lower their prices, and we end up right back where we started. Although I guess from a hobbyist perspective, lower overall pricing.

I personally am surprised that two thirds of the ladies that have responded feel pressured. I am further surprised that only 18 have put up a response, not sure what to make of that. I would hope that those that feel pressured, that isn't directly from the gentlemen, but more so that they feel that they need it to be competitive. And that isn't just in this life, think about all the athletes that put drugs into their bodies to be competitive and they would do it again, knowing the risks, which can be much more severe than the risk of a BBBJ. A lot of athletes shorten their lives because of it, and in some sports, the physical brutality, especially football can have some long term brain damage effects. So, why are they doing it, it is because the rewards can be significant. Smokers on the other hand, can't figure that one out. Anyway, the point being there are risk taken in life, we need to be aware of them, and make a decision that is right based on balancing the risks and considering the outcomes of not taking those risks. In the end, you shouldn't feel pressured, you should feel you made an informed decision. If you don't feel comfortable because of the risks, then perhaps those risks outweigh the benefit, and therefore you should not offer the service. I sure hope it isn't happening (the pressure) during an encounter, but suspect it may at times. The only one that bothers me are the ones that tell you up front they offer it, and when you arrive they now tell you they don't, must have been some misunderstanding. That is not right, and this happens too.

I found the options a little narrow, would have like to see one that was a would prefer a lady that provides BBBJ, but would consider otherwise. I went with only BBBJ, because I felt that the other options was too narrow, since I care, but not a deal breaker...

I always find it interesting that anytime a thread starts with BBFS, no doubt we gravitate into a discussion about all the services, and BBBJ in particular comes up. Many years ago, the industry did not generally practice safe sex, but then aids came along and changed that, so it is actually safer now than it was say 30 years ago. It is a choice, weighing in the issues and risks. There are industries that havecome along with high risk, such as mining where there are significant dangers to the jobs. It would seem that if the dangers are that concerning, choices can be made, and ladies should make those decisions about services, or whether it really is the right business. I just think that it is unfair to come across that the risks are hugely grave. Even covered sex has some risks, condoms break, so how far should one go is a question for each person to consider. BBFS excluded for sure, I would absolutely agree with that.

Texting, I am just not a great phone person. bbbj or cbj?

A dream......