EmilyRushton

It really sucks when.... A girl steals your ad, your name and your friends photos then advertises car dates with the ad and people think its you.

Good afternoon, Thank you for a delightful visit in Fredericton, even with all the rain I had a great time. I look forward to visiting again in the near future, xoxo Emily

1) there are a few gentlemen that I know well that know my real name, it was in a situation that i felt comfortable with and have connections outside the industry as well. 2) It is my preference to visit with mature men as I feel i do not have that much in common, nor do I feel I can relate with a younger gentleman. At the end of the day it is what I am comfortable with. 3) 99% of the time I go on as if I do not know them, there is that 1% that I chat with in public but our circumstances are different from the norm.

Let's take a moment here....if someone is so new to the business and they join cerb and find out that another lady has the name they wish to use and she is well respected and adored, she should change her name instead of trying to be someone she is not. Lets face it, you can google baby name and get 5000 in a matter of 20seconds. In this day and age "WE" as adults should be mature enough to establish our own selves instead of ridding on someone else good graces. Men see a name, they assume it is the lady they are seeking, they book an apppointment and end up feeling mislead. Why do I say this, as it gets REALLY confusing in a smaller city or smaller provinces when more than one lady has the same name. There really is NO need for this.... Yes I am aware that there is more than one Emily out there, I am more than fine with that when they handle themselves with class and grace. What I would not be ok with would be a new Emily pm'ing other ladies telling them they have a "nice ass" or "their hot" as that is just so cheap and demeaning in a pm with no other context to the message. Plus when myself and the new Emily are from complete opposite ends of the spectrum it does confuse clients(lets face it some times one fails to read the entire ad (men & women alike)). I worked hard to establish myself and other "new" ladies as you chose to refer to themselves as should do the same. This post was not about me, I am referring to me as to not upset any other adults on this board. There are many of us who will help out a new lady, providing that she does not have a pimp or other issues. Angela stated it correctly with if you googke the name you wish to use and escort it comes up pretty quickly if the name you picked is a very well established one.

With all the names out there to choose from, I still do not understand why some choose to use the exact same name as someone else and ride on their coat-tails. With all the name choices as well as spelling options, it just seems really trashy for someone to do this. Most ladies work very hard to build their reputation, when someone comes along and uses your name with not a whole lot to differentiate themselves from the already established lady, I see when the confusion starts.

Good afternoon, I just wanted to take a moment and say thank you for a delightful visit in London. I am very much looking forward to visiting again soon, xoxo Emily

To be honest, if you conduct business as a revolving door in a hotel, condo, or and dwelling that you wish to offer an incall from, you will draw attention to yourself and eventually get a visit from that cities finest. Why should anyone worry about visiting a low volume, up-scale lady at a hotel? If this is a worry, maybe the wrong company is being kept. Obviously the woman in question in the news, was green, and had no clue how to be discreet and let alone not operate as a factory. Sometimes it takes an eye opening experience such as this to open ones eyes (as sad as it is)

Well to clairify a few things, I was not looking for a recommendation, I was seeking a reference (completely different) which he said he had, he then told me who it was but then said I do not think you should contact her as she may not like it (this companion is reference friendly and I have been in touch with her in the past) Then he asked to use another lady, one of whom does not even ask for first names and books from payphones (so for my safety and those I know, I would never accept it). I do not understand what the big deal is, if you enjoy your regular companion SO much and are worried of her thoughts (which I am sure 99% of the ladies would be more than happy to vouch for you to see another companion) If it is going to bother you so much, like anything else WHY see someone else, or better yet find a companion that does not require a reference. I have made it clear to those I have spent time with that I am more than happy to vouch for them if ever needed. What I do not need is someone saying well I've seen Emily and she will be hurt if I use her name. Any companion who contacts me for a reference knows I screen thoroughly and never has to worry as I would only give my honest feedback. A reference is a matter of some ones safety and well being, if I choose not to give a reference and something happened to that companion during her date I would NEVER forgive myself. We are NOT in high school any more, its time everyone treats others with respect, stops making assumptions (unless they know the truth) and deals with this hobby the way it is meant to be dealt with - Relaxing and Fun This is an industry that really has no regulations so to speak and ladies run there business how they see fit....One can only hope that one day a valid reference is a requirement by all companions.

My Condolences to her family, friends and anyone who knew her. I never met her, but am still sending my thoughts. Thanks for letting us know Zoe.

* Flying to middle of nowhere Canada and not getting your luggage, only to find nothing open to buy replacement items. *Calling Rogers and waiting 90mins on hold, when they answer you explain your calling as the cell keeps dropping calls in downtown Toronto as they are in the middle of telling you that you are using the phone wrong, the call drops. *Waiting 6 weeks for a replacement Iphone only for it not to work *Travelling to a city that is expensive and having your entire trip no-show(on more than one occasion)

Good morning, Thank you for a great visit in Halifax, and to Amelia for some unforgettable memories. (Cupcakes are now one of my favourite indulgences) I look forward to seeing everyone again soon. (and maybe I can get Amelia to join me for a few duo's too) Till next time. xoxo Emily

Happy Birthday Eva.... I hope that your day is wonderful....

Thank you for another wonderful visit. As always I had a great time and look forward to seeing you again when I am back in 2 weeks. Watch for my new photos....Coming Soon xoxo Emily

I was surprised recently when a potential client wrote that he didn't want to ask his regular paid companion to write him a reference. He said he didn't want her thinking that he was seeing other escorts. The girl in question I know to be very reference-friendly, but he said he didn't want any drama. I am horrified. If I knew my clients were telling other escorts that I would cause drama and be hurt and upset that he was seeing other girls, I would be furious. That is NOT an image I want projected to the CERB community, particularly as it does NOT represent me fairly. That kind of image does an escort a huge disservice, and hurts her business and reputation. It also creates conflict amongst the girls. If other escorts thought I was a jealous drama queen, I would be mortified. By claiming to protect her 'feelings', this client is being extremely condescending and insulting. These kinds of assumptions about possessiveness and territory are damaging to the SP, and reinforce the stereotype that escorts are emotionally unstable. If you like us (and we're glad that you do!) please HELP us create a great reputation. There is nothing worse than having bad word of mouth, especially initiated by clients who are our fans. The idea that we are romantically or emotionally attached to our clients is generally false. The idea that we don't want clients seeing other girls is false (and kind of funny). We work so hard to make CERB and the escorting community a positive, honest environment. I would hate to think that these assumptions are reversing our progress. Your SP doesn't mind that you see other girls. What she does mind is the damage to her reputation inflicted by this kind of client.

Happy Birthday Megan.... Hope that your day is amazing....

As well as keep in mind the majority of the posters on this board (men & women) are in Ottawa, so that does make it seem like LOTS is going on in Ottawa all the time.

Ladies are ALWAYS going to charge what they want whether the rest of us approve or not. Some ladies would rather be HIGH volume at a lower rate than chance not having a booking at a high rate. It all comes down to what she wants to charge and how much she wants to work. In a time where people are hungry for business some will do anything to get it. You have to not let it get to you and remember that there is something for everyone and sometimes it takes time to find it. Clients will book you for you and your experience that you offer, not your price(if it is out of budget they will save up if they really want to visit (like anything if you want it you will save)) In 6 years this business has gone from one extreme to the next and you really can't let it get to you.

Being alone.... interesting topic... I spend 20days a month on the road, I do enjoy my alone time but it's totally normal to crave human attention in the conversation department. Some days it really sucks, others days its great. It is what you make of the time that you are alone. I have no issues approaching people and chatting (I have met some VERY interesting people) and if I am not around people that i wish to engage in conversation with, I always have my blackberry or iphone to chat with someone one. I think that alone time or being alone is mostly a choice that we personally make, I mean I dont have to travel but I chose to and in doing so means I am away from home, but I have made time for ME which is something that most of us give up along the way.

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He wasn't doing anything, that the rest of society does not already do (whether they admit to it or not) Of course they have to bring this up as anything associated with "escort" or "Massage" must make you a bad person or you must be publicly humiliated for it. People like Jack, cause he is real...Maybe not all his views are something we love 110% but he is down to earth and human and we can all relate to him in one way or another.

You did the right thing...Granted every situation is different and if you have had the "if we pass in public" chat then it may fall under different circumstances. I have seen people I have met in this business and always kept to my self(this always seems to happen in an airport for some reason, I always keep to myself unless previously discussed. I would never jeopardise anyones privacy ever.

I prefer to visit with gentlemen 40 +, but there are exceptions to the rule. If you are polite and respectful we will get along well regardless of age. In regards to attractiveness, I don't think age matters on that, its down to what I personally find attractive.

Good afternoon, Just wanted to take a moment add say thank you for a wonderful visit in Saint John. Looking forward to my next trip already.... xoxo Emily

I watched it....They can't kiss in the Abbey due to some rule so they will be kissing after cake.

Happy Birthday Cleo.... I hope that you have an amazing day....