EmilyRushton

From a lady's point of view, this statement makes the warning bells go off. A statement like this shows that you have something to hide, in allot of ways. How is it incriminating to provide your board handle (condsidering that it is not your real name)? A hobby phone is fine, but something here makes me think that it would be a "Private Number". I am not trying to knock you for your thoughts, I am just stating mine, so please dont take offence to what I am writing. Yes, there are some ladies who have raised cause for concern in this industry due to there lack of indescretion, but that does not apply to all of us. how does providing a reference cause a problem, when you saw another lady on an alias as well? I ask for lots of details about who I may be visiting with, firstly so that we can establish a connection prior to visting, as well to ensure that you are who you say you are. There are too many problems that can arrise when visiting with someone new, and asking for a reference will usually prevent problems from happening. Be grateful you are in Canada and hobbing, allot of ladies in the USA require a peice of photo id before the encounter will happen. A reference, is alot easier that this. Just my thoughts, Emily

Unfortunatly No, it has been a few. It is ok to laugh now, I won't hold it against you.

I know this is a compliment in some cultures, but not ours, but it had to be said. It is one of those experiences that one never forgets.

Just a few... -Showing up drunk/stoned or reaking of tobacco -Not using the mouthwash/soap/hand sanitizer that I am providing and after I have told you to help yourself to anything in the bathroom -Repeatly belching during our visit -Talking loudly at the door -Calling from the small hotel lobby, after I had asked you to call from outside as lobby is not discreet. -Telling me during our encounter that so and so does it this way -Not turning your phone to Vibrate during our session ( the respect goes both ways) -Telling me you took Viagara right before our session, Unless you need it I do not wish to hear about it.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY EMMA!!!!! May your special day be full of amazing delight. Best Wishes, Emily

Gentlemen, Thanks for your input so far. It is greatly appreciated and hopefully those who are not sure the proper way to inquire will read this and understand. Sometime feedback is better read than a rant and hopefully this is the case this time. Thanks for your time to respond as hopefully it will help others as well. Emily

You are so correct with this staement in so many ways. It is a shame that people feel that stiring the pot is the only way to go about things. Good people are so hard to find, even in everyday life. This commmunity is an escape for so many of us, to chat, vent, laugh and much more. It is really sad that there always has to be a few bad apples in the mix.

After alot of thought, reading and replying I am asking you.... When you are looking for a companion, Do You Read The Ad/Post in its entirety? I have always wondered how you go about replying and some recent emails have made me ask. I guess the point of what I am asking is, Do you read the whole ad before replying? Do you just look at the pics? Do you take the time and view the website if directed to before replying? or do you just reply to 10 ads hoping one lady will reply quickly? Very curious on your thoughts..... Emily

I think the fact of the matter her is jealousy plain and simple. What other reason does any lady have to slam another one (even if she did steal your pictures, ad text, bad mouth you to clients,etc) it is not worth it plain and simple. This community is about equal positive contibutions from both Men and Women. Granted the odd thread about discretion and so forth was called for as it is something that effects eveyone. This is the only board where women can speak openly and not get bashed and thanks to a few lovely individuals, it makes us think before we post things as they seem to get taken out of context. As well there are more and more newbies to this board and they can at times be easily taken advantage of (men and women) Being in this community is a privelige an should be a positive experience for all of us. Our individual posting reflect alot about ourselves, and who we are. They show we are more than a pretty face or hot body. If you have an issue with a lady, client or vice versa it is best to deal with it in private and not share your dirtly laundry in public. Granted, it you were robbed or safety was an issue that is a competely different story. Just my thoughts, Emily

Happy Birthday Bobbi.... Enjoy your Day....

There's a traffic circle in Moncton???? I thought the last of them was in Edmonton....

WOW!!!! I can't believe the class of some ladies. I am sorry if I have offended any ladies but seriously, how can you be so stupid. It takes ALOT to build up client trust and assure them of discretion then someone goes and does this. Is it that hard to send an email? I have one question WHY, WHY, WHY would you do this? Do you want a client calling you on your personl phone when you are with famly? Respecting the fact that everyone has a private life outside this is truly one of the most IMPORTANT things in the industry. One stupid move like this affects the rest of the community in one way or another. Sorry to hear this happened to you Steve.

A client (sorry for the term) will visit with whom ever he pleases, with or without any lady's consent. I have no problem providing a reference for someone that I have previously met. With that in mind, yes i do ask for a reference prior to arranging an encounter and yes some lady's are not the easiest to get a reply from in regards to a reference. If a reference is unavailable, there are other ways to verify you. Why.... There are a lot of reasons that I ask for a reference, one of the main ones is to verify you ( as someone who is a gentleman), A lot of people do not wish to share any personal details (which I respect and completely understand) from my point of view, understand that I am going to be sharing my private space with you and need to feel comfortable that you are whom you claim to be, as well that anything I ask you, I have asked anyone that I have visited with or anyone wishing to visit. Yes I can research you, but there are a lot of people out there who claim to be someone that they are not. I have had people claiming to be someone on here, and when I pm'd them I was informed that they did not contact me. A lot of time wasted on something that could have been answered in one reference. Emily

I agree with Samantha. I think it is best to let the lady know that this is something that you are looking for in an encounter. For some ladies this may not be her thing, and for others well they might enjoy it. As long as you let your lady of choice know your desires for the session, you should have not problem fullfilling your wish. Em

This one was simple for me as emilyintoronto is my website, email and well handle also.

Excellent topic Annessa, Back in time when I first started working, the agency said I could pick my name, so I chose Rianhanon, they did not like it and called me Brianna.(where they got this from I do not know) When I left I kept Brie, as at the time it worked. When I decided to branch out on my own, I chose Emily, as I wanted a soft, gentle name that had an english ring about it, when needing a last name I picked Rushton ( Sounds english as well as is one of my favourite places to eat in Toronto) At times your right,the Emily name is as strong as my name. Congrats on your year of Annessa, it suits you well. Emily

I've stayed in this hotel and it is everyting Bobbi had to say about it and more. It is an amazing gem in Winnipeg. Ther hotel staff are friendly and the hotel is immaculately clean.

May you have an amazing Birthday. XOXO Emily

Congrat's Erin, Your posts are always wonderful to read.

Something about the Red hair.... from the fiestyness to the temptation.... It will get you everytime.

Very cool little gadget, looks tempting.... But just not sure....

Congrats and happy wishes.... A positive asset to our community.... XOXO Emily

Welcome to CERB.... Hope that you enjoy all that this community has to offer... Em

Happy Birthday Joyful C.... Enjoy all the amazing wishes on your day....

What wonderful words.... Thanks for sharing