I understand your frustration in regards to ladies not being able too or wanting to come to Saint John or other non industry populated cities.. Visiting a city where there are few ladies, or not much in regards to this industry is a hit or miss situation for both the lady and the hobbiest.
I frequent the cities that I do, as I enjoy what they have to offer me and I very much enjoy the company that I keep in the cities as well.
I have no problem visiting new cities, but I do need some interest before I will plan a visit there,
I may consider adding other east coast cities on a future visit, but that is all up to you east coast gentlemen.
Emily