Annessa

nope not crazy at all...that is provided you dont just sit and stare blanky, lol.....good conversation and a little flirty fun is always great...kinda like a first date with lots of sexual tension ;)

another chat room ettiquette point I'd like to address is : if you have been voted out of the chat-room by all the members in the room do not continually come back saying "LOL...I'm baaack!"...if you have been voted out, its probably for a good reason and its probably best to let the situation cool down before coming back....yes you have the ability to jump back online...but coming back after being booted 5 times in a row by each different member in the room will not help you in any way.....just my opinion after a member was voted out last week and continually came back to taunt the members in the room rudely....really??

exactly, we move on....Maybe I'm just strange in that i assume things will weird client out so I take precautions, I'm not saying everyone should be the same. Thats just what i would have done. thats all. I agree that the OP has nothing to be embarrassed about...but I still believe that if he was uncomfortable the best thing to do would be to take it up with the lady in a light matter....not bring it out in an open forum, possibly embarrasing her. Like you said Samantha, theres nothing wrong with clarifying her arrangements so they wont be interrupted if it made him uncomfortable......but on the other hand, as you said, you cant plan these things. i think in the end the answer to the intitial question of 'what would you do?' would be : if you want to see her again, let her know how the situation made you feel ....before starting a thread about it...eep!

Rock Sugar - Shook me like a Prayer cover/mash-up of Shook me all night long/Like a prayer ...put a little rock in your Madonna ;)

I agree with what everyone has said so far in light of the fantasy versus reality comments...however as a single parent there are many things that irked me about the situation that if i was the mother in question, i would have done differently. if the sitter came to the door and needed to get toys i would use any excuse (i have a friend over and shes emotional etc) and i would have the sitter wait at the door and i would go get the toys. I wouldnt introduce my client to my kids or friend...thats not being very discreet and what if the sitter knew the gentleman? ragardless of whether she knows what her friend does, there will still be questions later. I'm incredible sacred with my client (even regulars) knowing about my son or meeting him....it kinda made me cringe that she would introduce them ...I can see it putting the client in an akward situation. if he felt a little freaked out theres a gentle way of letting the girl know that you felt this way without making it sound like you're saying "I dont wanna know about your kid, it ruins my hard-on" ...which I'm sure you're not saying that but you dont want her to take offence to it like that. all that being said at least she is taking the proper care-taking responsabilities for her little one and doesnt have him in another room unattended...she sounds like a good mom. I just would have suggested she handle a couple things differently :)

careful...sometimes goofy dancers have been known to start revolutions! hehe...check out this feel-good clip (make sure to watch it till the end) :) :

hahaha! eeeew...I just got a horrible mental image! LOL *gags*

haha no pop rocks are ok by me...just dont go near anything on my body with em..YOUCH! haha funny too how they kept "no rude requests" in there......just incase a client asks if he can join me at my "shit hole"...pfft! ;)

thats what we were suspecting at one point...the site that seems like a regular blog has these pop-up things on the side that have explicit ads that link to another site GetitOn.com or something like that... seems like a lot of work when you could just use Meta-tags in the making of a website tho to generate traffic through search results

Sorry if this has already been addressed but several clients have linked me to this site that has been re-posting girls' ads and re-wording them with very strange content. Sometimes the ads dont even seem like they make sense after being altered so much...seems like theres some weird word substitution or something....Anyway its called Busty Escorts. My puzzlement would be what the benefit of having a site like this would be for the person who seems to be going out of their way to repost our ads. Sometimes the ads aren't rude sounding (although the one below certainly is a gem..ugh) they just dont even make sense and end up sounding like they were written by someone as english as a second language, lol. They even go out of their way to post cerb mentionings into the ad that wasn't there before. Anyway in the meantime, i encourage anyone to notify your favorite provider if you see her on this site. Any input on this type of thing would be greatly appreciated heres an example of "my" latest ad acording to this site Hello Clients, I?m Annessa. As a previous alternative pin-up model, I stand 5?8? and 140 pounds with a 34B cup, long dark hairstyle, intoxicating orange lollipop and a tanned chicks. This Saturday come join nude at my incall shit hole? on Kilborn Avenue (near Alta Vista) where soft music, a king sized bed and a little TLC await. Cradle robber moron give some notice for incalls as I will not be waiting around at my incall shit hole like I usually am until later this evening. As well as incalls I will also be lick erotic for bathroom? from until 1am to your residence or motel. Allow exotic to pamper swinger in the surroundings cradle robber are comfortanned with?.only for you to be left breathless after I leave To make a booking for an encounter milf wont soon forget?.. call for same-day inquiries 613-203-5748 Yes the photo is mine. I also am highly recommended on the the review boards such as CERB incall: 1 hour ? 280 / half-hour ? 160 in car: 1 session ? 260 / limited time half-hour cost*- 160 * half hour in car costs are only lick erotic to central areas xoxo ANNESSA NO pop rocks calls NO rude requests NO negotiating costs NO phone-calls after 1am ..you loser and thank you

thats correct. Me and Carrie Moon are located in that area....thanks for the shout-out GHT ;)

wow, thats neat!...i totally wouldn't have thought to ask the baby. smart girl! :)

eggnog and Presidents Choice Candy-Cane ice-cream...oh! and all those fancy holiday lattes that the coffee-shops make....gingerbread is great too! hmmm....I think I might need to ask Santa for a gym membership, lol

hehe that was a good time.....Mama ;) *wink*

I find it too bad, but mainly because I can count on two hands (and maybe a couple toes, lol) some great regulars who find it easier to surf CL at work etc or while coming into town. However I'm happy that I have told them all in our encounters about Cerb and a few of them have joined....this may evoke more of them to join and be part of this great community! part of me is pretty happy to not have to plug in ad after ad competing with the roster of "horny as hell with no restrictions..cum see me" type ads that certainly create a bad name for anyone in this business. Unfortunately I dont think this will end trafficking...in fact i actually think this will push things further underground with less tracks for these people to leave online, possibly causing more problems...and that CL is washing it's hands clean of a problem that they dont feel they can properly moderate ( part of me doesnt blame them). I just hope that the politicians out there dont think that this is the best they can do to prevent trafficking and violence in the industry and think that by removing this section that all their problems are fixed by doing so. By removing easy access sections like this, it may push those with criminal intentions to other less survey able or dangerous options. I definitely am saying a prayer or two (or three) that this doesnt happen.

sorry this is going to come off as a rant but i totally get what you're saying megan, I also browse the Sd sites as well....and i find it very rude when a man boasts about how he spoils his women and is looking for a woman to devote her time to him and in exchange he will shower her with gifts...but will not pay a monthly fee because if he wanted a whore he could afford it and would do so....but he wants something real. ok so how are you better than all the gentlemen willing to compensate for time (or sex) with money (gifts = money)....you are paying for companionship! what a lot of these guys also don't realize is that many of us escors wont stick around for someone we dont feel we are compatible with...no matter what the price....or perhaps they will feel like the relationship is fake once money is involved. Like any hobbiest/SP relationship, as long as there is mutual respect there shouldn't be any problems...but these guys who say that an escort is worse than dealing with a non-pro (who very well may take them for all their worth!) is ignorant to say the least, in my opinion I find those sites are 20% real SDs who are honest in their expectations (to a mutually beneficial arrangement) then 40% like the guys Megan described whos egos are too big for their wallets....then the rest of the 40% are guys who aren't looking to be SDs at all but are looking for unpaid flings or ad in their profiles that they're looking for "someone who is interested in having children in the long run" (EEEK!!) I get messages from guys like this and never respond......I received one this week saying "I see you checked out my profile after I msged you....why the hell didnt you respond? didnt like what you see?" (he described in his profile that he wasn't looking for an escort...he wanted children)....ummm....Plus major red flag for anyone to get testy when I take a couple days to get back to them. That'd be like me messaging a gent that I sent my website to after he asked and emailing them asking why they haven't booked me yet....tacky! He was very attractive but I thought "best to not respond" but after reading this thread I think I just might, however I'm pretty sure he wont like my two cents

I went for lunch recently at Bambu restaurant on Hunt Club rd. very good experience, its Asian Fusion but very good traditional dishes, noodles, dim sum and sushi....their bar is also very nice and their wine list has a great selection :)

I tried to comment on the bottom of this post before but my post was just a bit too long so it got cut off. my original reply was "A persuasion like this may lead your provider feeling really violated. What worked for one doesnt always work on another. Open communication is best rather than trying to use kinesthetic "tricks" in the moment.

I've always loved the song "what child is this?" and then I heard Vanessa Williams do this really awesome jazzy cover:

I like watching the movie Love Actually a couple weeks before x-mas (actually watched it a couple nights ago)...I find the countdown to christmas theme it has gets me slowly in the spirit...and its a really cute flic Additional Comments: I like watching the movie Love Actually a couple weeks before x-mas (actually watched it a couple nights ago)...I find the countdown to christmas theme it has gets me slowly in the spirit...and its a really cute flic

Well a relationship is never easy, its full of tough decisions....personally I just feel nauseous thinking about but I'm sure I will feel a lot better when I'm honest. Thanks for the good luck...I still havent decided when I'm going to tell him...but I have a feeling it will have to be sooner than later

I have to say, I really needed this thread tonight. I've been preparing the new potential SO for the truth about what I really do for a living and all kinds of things have been going through my head tonight. "what if he decides he doesnt want to be with me because of what i do?" being the main thing. "what if he asks me to quit?" being the next I've been tossing and turning all night picturing what I would do instead of what has made my life so much better and happier for the past 3 years....and I came up with nothing. Cats views especially have been very enlightening....all great arguments here about the unfairness of asking someone to quit their job. If I'm to make a sacrifice...then what is an SO willing to sacrifice for me in return? I can only see myself resenting someone who asks me to change in exchange for their love. Deep breaths now...wish me luck breaking the news, everyone