Annessa

I had the same issue as well. i think it was crash-related...it seems to have corrected itself now :-)

Happy to announce that the much anticipated SaraMQ is now in town from Thunder-Bay and she and I will be taking bookings on a pre-booking-basis. Let the fun begin!!

wait...are we talking about general location...ie. Ottawa? or are we talking about specific location...as in: Barhaven, Nepean, Ottawa south?

when a client calls and asks me my availability for the day and I say something like "I'm not available until after 9pm" and he says something like "okay so I'll call you back around that time.." I always have to remind him that he may do so BUT it is in his best interest to make a booking now if he intends to see me at that time....sometimes I have received rather stunned guys on the other end of the phone. You just have to remind them that they are not the only ones interested in seeing you and it is in their best interest to book ahead of time to avoid disappointment ;-)

I think this is a no brainer in that some ladies's locations will appeal more to hobbyists.....while we dont list *exact* location we do give a general area so that a client can make an informed decision based on how long it takes him to get to us. a client's location is none of anyone's business unless you are a lady he has chosen for an outcall......a directory of which clients are located where kinda goes against that thing we all call discretion...you have to keep in mind, you never know who is keeping tabs on the gents here and many threads here are visible to the pubic...without a membership. if a gent chooses outcall as his means it should be up to him to address a lady in private and have her decide if the distance is too great to travel...posting whereabouts will only lead to others putting one and two together and less tactful ladies saying "so I hear I'm in your area...so am I!"....which we all know is not the norm and not cool. bottom line...it doesnt matter where a client or girl is located...if someone wants to see someone badly enough they will make the effort...whatever their location is. Convenience is sometimes the biggest turn-off when a client says hes "only calling coz hes in my neck of the woods"...if he is, thats ok....but its a huge compliment to know that someone has map-quested and traveled outside his neighborhood to see you.

where is Sierra dancing these days? Is she still at Barbs mostly? I was told she was dancing a few odd weeks at the Fax and recently took a hot date to get a dance from her...no luck again. I miss her couples dances.

personally I'd get a little satisfaction out of messaging someone letting know that they've been caught red handed. Might teach them a lesson that just because its the big world wide web doesn't mean they still cant get caught. This part of the satisfaction I secretly get when I read Cowboy Kenny's blog about people who steal other people's pics and post fake ads. love it :-)

MightyMouse beat me to it, lol Its weird I recently had to report a facebook page that was using my full name (theres no other me in Ottawa, I've got a complicated Thai name, lol) with some weird stock photography pic......all I could do was laugh when it was reported and removed...posers! hehe Back to your story tho, there are Meg-wannabes out there!!....i think thats a compliment ;-) hehe

not so recent recommendations do not necessarily mean that a lady has moved on, not all gents write recos as often as we'd like ;-) you can also search the ads section in the Ottawa, Ontario forum. Many girls tend to list keywords as to their appearance (and many even list their websites for additional info there) and whether or not they offer incall or outcall etc...

Maybe. to play devils advocate things have been unusually slow in Ottawa lately for some of us so it could just have been a day when she didnt want to turn down another client. it happens to the best of us when we want to fit more than one call into a day if the rest of the week has been slow. Perhaps she thought she would be done with the other client by the time of your appointment. however that still no excuse for her to not finish with her other client and go overtime (if thats what happened) and say "I have someone coming after you, I have to respect that" (usually that makes guys scram pretty fast as no client in their right minds wants to bump into another in the hallway, lol) in the end the other guy should understand and take it as a good thing putting himself in the shoes of you who is scheduled to see her. Very sorry this happened to you with an indy gal...just know that this is definitely the exception and not the rule to how we all work. Hopefully it doesnt damage your opinion on all the other great choices of indy ladies out there :-)

This is one of the many reasons I enjoy being independent instead of working for an agency. The agency would book girls back to back (sometimes with less than a half hour in-between clients...enough time to just barely make it to the next call) and if a client wanted to extend a session someone always had to get the raw end of the stick. Being indy is a great thing if you know how to use you time wisely and it doesn't sound like this lady is making good scheduling choices....in the end we can only hope that she reads this thread and learns that this kind of thing will only ruin her business. being independent is a luxury compared to having to bend to an agencies scheduling. Having control over when you choose to see clients is a wonderful thing....if done wisely

agreed. if you've been burned once by this lady it may be a red flag for inconsistencies in the future and I cant imagine a session going well on your end (discount or not) with a lady who has already blown you off (no pun intended, hehe)

I am very excited to meet Molly this thursday...updates soon to come ;-) xoxo

if this was a reputable SP this is indeed intolerable...however there are some things to consider.... did you confirm exactly the time and give all the info provided to the SP that she required to make the booking? I have had many fellows saying (after getting all my info, rates etc) that they will "call back around that time" instead of making a solid booking (name, phone number, time, etc) at the time of their phone-call (this does not mean you have a confirmed booking) ..not saying you didnt do so but I have had many annoyed potential clients who have felt blown off if I am taking another appointment because they couldn't commit and would rather book last minute. However, I would never dream of answering my cell in the middle of another call to tell them 'too bad so sad!" ! One...that would be disrespecting the client I was seeing and two...would be an unnecessary digg at you. another thing to consider is that someone answered while in a session saying she was doing so (and in no less...in EMAIL form??)....in my experience, I NEVER answer my phone (or surf my emails) while taking another appointment...that is just plain rude to the person I am seeing! I leave my phone in another room when I am in a session. So you have to ask your self...was she actually seeing someone else (who for some reason is letting her answer her phone or reply to her emails while shes servicing him???)...or is she avoiding you? Something you may want to ask the SP in question is if you have said or done something to make her feel uncomfortable taking your appointment...to me, it sounds like this may have been the case (as no one reputable will text you back mid-session with someone else to say she cant see you)..sometimes a lady will decide that certain things have made her uncomfortable about accepting a client...and sadly some will give little (or false) explanation as to why they are busy rather than being truthful to save your feelings. If i were you i would ask politely if there was something in your communication that made her uneasy....a proper SP if given this window of opportunity to express her anxiety should take the noble route.......and if she says that she is still with said client...I dont think you should at all rank her amongst the professionals. (who are certainly not answering their phones or replying to emails in midst of a session!)

I cant comment on who your current SP is comfortable interacting with but if you are looking for a couple of ladies to interact with you this would be a good place to start http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=28458

thats a very good question Mutau...perhaps I will leave it up to the ladies to add to the thread each time they have a new duo partner/friend (while stating the ones they had mentioned before for a sort of "refresher" like this: "oh I just met Megforfun...shes awesome! so now I have yet another lady to add to my list interactive duos: CarrieMoon, Lovely Doroinda, SaraMQ girl on guy duos: AngelaofOttawa, Megforfun, Soleil, Erinxo" now...if a lady no longer does a duo with a certain gal I think it would be easier for her to explain this in PM if she is contacted about a certain lady rather than post it publicly

sorry guys its just that as mentioned in one of our originap posts here a lot of the gals were tired of being paired up by guys for "dream duos" when they had no interest in working with the other gal. so this was my solution to letting the ladies control who they would like to see and be comfortable working with....not in a "fantasy" way but in a way to say "yes I have met her and would be comfortable doing a duo with her"...so yes those are REAL duos lol, dont worry Cowboy Kenny...no ones got their knickers in a twist here ;-) just thought we would explain how this thread is supposed to work so that none of the guys reading it get confused and think that because of how the discussion is set up already, that the fantasy duos that Cato posted are therefore a reality. :-)

I would have to agree, sorry guys but this is a thread for the REAL duos that are here so as not to confuse the guys who works with who or doesnt. BTW...US ladies here on cerb and in this thread offer a fantasy as well you know ;-)...jus sayin

oy...*smacks forhed*..lol..pun not intended ;-)

BB greek or BBFS are both equally unwise ways to acquire AIDS. re personal questions: if any gent is considering asking personal questions think about how you would feel if your SP turned to you and asked you where you worked, what your salary was, the names and ages of your children, what your relationship is with your daddy, if you have ever been on drugs and asked you to tell her about what it was that made you fall in love with your wife and ask why you felt the need to have sex with a stranger instead of her... all in one sentence while you both were beaming in the afterglow of the great sex you just had... I think most people will get the point here

I too would say that this is definitely the exception and not the rule when it comes to gals on this board. CL may be a different story but this should not be *expected* of any gal in this business. and if a girl is texting you, you should put a stop to it right away if you can and say "please respect my private life and dont text me unless its initiated!" before it turns to a bunch of unwanted texts.....i still think that thats terrible of her however...dont get me wrong! I dont think an SP should be texting you unless you've said it's ok......still...even if you say its ok and you have nothing to worry about, whos to say that you might meet someone and be dating when she decides to text you outta the blue?

unfortunately some guys think that no means yes....lol. sorry just had to say it. in this world no can sometimes mean "we're well into our session and I've told you so but you did it anyway so now I get to keep my $300 and you get to leave NOW" respect guys...respect...we're only telling this to you for your own benefit! :-)