Annessa

I would never suggest this to anyone (who doesn't have experience in the business and to what the laws of the criminal code in Canada are) to start an agency/brothel. I can't comment on why reputable agencies offering outcall only services have diminished in your area..I can only comment on the fact that brothels and incalls (aka "common bawdy houses") in Canada are very much Illegal by the Canadian Criminal Code. as an SP who has worked for a wannabe agent...and a claimed Upscale outcall only agency I will admit that many girls who enter agencies learn what they have to learn and then when things go sour they get sick of giving someone a cut just to get bossed around....then they go independent with the knowledge they have gained ...or the knowledge of what they're NOT willing to put up with. I wouldnt worry too much about a lack of agencies or brothels (really..if there is a bust are you willing to be caught in a brothel?)......if I was the OP I would pay more attention to the independents if they are around instead of trying to find more agencies...just do your research in advance to find out who is more reputable first.

hehe I got a giggle outta that! and the strange thing is that I'm a parent, so MILF is acceptable if ppl, would say I'm a Mother I'd (or they'd) Like to Fuck (if you wanna get technical, lol)...just not in the terms that everyone else uses them, lol. That and people would start looking at me like I was from Mars is I advertised myself as a MILF! maybe yummy mummy would be more suitable tho ;-) That being said, I cant wait until the day I can be a classy older woman referred to as a cougar/Milf. theres something about that Sex in the City sophisticated older woman that has really changed what being a coug/MILF is all about ;-) There was a great news story tonight on Global news for the Miss Cougar competition to be held tonight at Tattoo Rock Parlour bar in Toronto and the change in attitude surrounding the term cougar that used to mean older desperate woman chasing younger men...it now means a woman who is comfortable in her own shoes, older and more in tune with herself, in control of her money and lifestyle...mature beyond all belief and therefore attractive to the younger "cubs" that seek that in a woman yet will never find that in a woman in her 20s....it was a very interesting story. the night is being put together by this woman who is well in her 40s (you'd never guess it tho) but who has met her husband of 2 years who is 29 years old (and you'd also never guess he was that young physically) at a cougar social. it was extremely awesome to see the stigma of either term being brought to a different light....and just amazing to see the guys being interviewed saying things like "what I've found in these women, you cant find anywhere else" and "my past three relationships were with older women...cougars...all I gotta say is the...(reporter inserts the phrase "good times?" lol) were the best that any woman has offered me. these days, being an older and sophisticated attractive woman is a HUGE power attraction...and there are many men who are attracted to confidence and experience. MILF/Cougar....its all semantics...its the whole confident package that the guys that really seek out them and want them are looking for...beautiful people inside and out they all are....who are we to judge what they decide to own as their title? :-)

bottom line (no pun intended) is be upfront...and yes there is a serious difference to a girl offering greek who does not offer digits...just because one is smaller does not mean that the person springing that service upon a provider by assuming that its ok has not tended to his side of the bargain. what I mean is, does your penis have potentially long or sharp nails that may scrape your SP?...I should hope not! digits v.s. Greek...not the same deal boys. communicating exactly what you want to do beforehand wil not ruin the "moment" slipping something in where there is an "out of bounds territory" that you assumed was fair play during a session may not only ruin the moment....but may get you shown the door. ...eep! yes we all have our wild sides ...but spontaneity is not the key here (although it may seem very taboo and hot at the moment)....its about respect...and respect and proper communication will have a gal happy to see you again....rather than pretending shes busy the next time you try to schedule (if she hasn't already scolded you) ;-)

wow, makes you really be happy to be a worker who lives in canada. what a sad situation..truly sad :-(

I generally like working between the hours of noon and 5pm. As a single mother I enjoy having the most time for my son and after-school/dinner/homework/-time (aka. Family-time) is very important to me. I generally dont work until after 9pm for this reason unless my parents are taking care of him that day/night.

I kinda get what you're saying but what if a client wants to call you to pre-book an appointment?

ummm.....we've all known about it since the Superbowl (as mentioned in the OP), I was just posting how they made the video...which I agree is quite interesting :-)

to add to what mod has said here, I will add that GFE also does not mean that our service is BBFS as many people have mentioned a blurred line between what an SP willing to give you a GFE experience is willing to do...very much to the same effect that the PSE term is misinterpreted. your girlfriend may be devoted enough to let you have sex with her without a condom...it doesn't mean that this is a service that we have to provide. style over service as mod said.....

GASP! I dunno man...that looks like an angry WOW in your signature...did you have to put it in red? hmm...maybe I shouldnt see this client because his WOW is nagging me... ....and yes I'm joking ;-) hehe

hahaha! yes that one also had me howling...I only saw that one yesterday. my favorite part is the saw and the motorcycle...you gotta be one great actor to not break focus and keep going!

So many of us got a huge laugh from the Superbowl commercial for Old Spice and the phrase "Im on a horse" slowly became a not so inside giggle-phrase. anyway...i found this clip where two announcers placed a bet between whether the shot was a continuous take without CG to make the scenes change the way they did or whether it was all graphics magic...so they decided to talk to the directors and creators of the Commercial to settle the score what do you think? I gotta say...I was pretty off, lol long but an interesting watch if you're bored: ps....I'm on a horse! hehe

I'm happy to say that since implementing my deposit-prior-to-incall requirement for the days that I'm not already at my location I have not had one no-show. ...and people told me it wouldn't work, lol

just be careful its not 10 guys waiting in the room you choose... and no lady. oy sketchy..

on top of what Megan said they are the clients we look forward to seeing and anticipate an encounter from, definitely the ones who make us feel special and like we are the cream of the crop and have us smiling for the rest of the day. not a money related sugar daddy thing at all IMO....then again, I currently dont have a sugar daddy but I'm not saying it wouldnt be possible for him to make me feel great if I did have one...jus saying it wouldnt be because of the cash. I think I may have just confused myself there but does that make sense? lol

LOL....oh geez! tee hee x 1000

ok your posts could really be addressed without the word "dear" so many times SA. it comes across as very hostile and condescending. And I have to agree that in the past you do state DFK in your requirements for an encounter....regardless of the levels of intimacy you are still making a monetary arrangement for intimacy. If you were only stating that you wanted a girl to come over and hang out as a guest thats one thing but expectations are expectations. I personally find theres nothing "highly rated" about this thread tho. thats just my opinion tho. still amazed that its actually still going, but thats what happens when things go in circles i suppose, lol

you said it perfectly Megan. could not have said it better myself. There is no need to justify or separate how we view what we do from what others view it as. As long as we're all comfortable with it, there is no need to try and call it something else. well put :-)

this thread literally has my head going in circles. Mainly because I dont understand the point of it even after so many pages -none of the girls are offended by being "hired" nor take offence to FS being part of the equation -no member seems to be disagreeing that he is paying for a lady's time and companionship..but agrees with the ladies that sex is part of the job...but is polite about it it is what it is.....you approach it how you want to SA but from what I gather you cant separate both "inviting an SP over" and "realizing that by doing so you are paying her for sex" and ask if whether one is different from the other. Its like saying when you go to Baskin & Robins do you go only because you love the feeling of being around ice-cream and enjoying it...or do you only associate B&R with having to pay $2 for your ice-cream fix....and asking which is the right way to interpret it.... most people would look at you and say...huh? isnt it expected that if you go to there you will have to pay? arent both scenarios technically the same? they're both the same....and everyone here except you seems to be ok with that for some reason. I'm really surprised this turned into such a defensive thread on your part. Just accept the way you do things and move on already, my goodness. My brain hurts now and I do agree that you may be trying not only to convince us but yourself that hiring -I men "inviting over a gal" is more than what money can buy. all that being said I now have a craving for icecream....argh

well if everyone would rather me not attend this social probably a good idea to say so now...as it is tomorrow. for a group that says its comfortable being "open" some certainly have a hard time being open to sugestions of how things have run well (or not well) in the past and diferentiating between making a point and a personal attack. I've appoligized to canuck in private, I have no qualms with him or anyone else here. Hope to see you all tomorrow

? I've already applogized to having to single you out as an example (here and in a PM) but like I said it was just a reminder that sometimes people forget... theres not a malicious tone in my posts so I'd just like to clear that up. But its your choice as to whether you'd like to attend of not.

speaking of femme fatales...daphne on Scooby Doo had red hair and always wore purple, hehe i watch too many cartoons, lol

dont worry WIT, I doubt anyone was really suggesting we would take on 16 year old clients ;-)

the waitress was in front of you as i remember. but appologies if I had to call you on that one. just a friendly reminder that everyone should be discreet.

exactly. I for one am extremmely comfortable in what I do but I also am very skeptical on some socials as putting myself out in the public as well as some of my past and potentially future clients is not something i am willing to deal with. just because I am comfortable with what i do doesnt mean I'm willing to put members in a bad position. its all well and good to be free-spirited and comfortable with our sexuality...but we have to respect those who may seek the private attention of a lady under private means and their PRIVATE discretion being important. I mean everyone knows i go to karaoke but when I'm asked by a member in chat where I'm going for karaoke and I dont tell them I get people tiffed at me...? I'm allowed to keep a certain amount of my life private and truth be told i generally only do one-on-one social time for a paid fee...but with a groups its different coz I see it as being discreet and looking out for a group as I would only expect the same in return and would only look out for their own privacy as well.

it was not the ONLY issue that lead to us making the poly socials private but i do remember shushing you canuckhooker when your bellowing voice travelled when you were talking about X girl that you saw and X service she gave you etc when a waitress was dropping off our drinks and gave us a more than knowing look as to what you were talking about. the keyword is discretion I must remind everyone that discussing sex for money with a lady in a public place is ILLEGAL and the fact that this thread is visible to anyone that might not actually be a member but looking for an opportunity to catch someone in the act should be somethiong to think about. That being said, the guys have a lot more to worry about then the girls do so when I was all for the location being an email-only thing I did feel that everyone was being respected. Its not about losing clients or lurkers, everyone should really think twice about who could be showing up to these if we put too much out there in the open, its not about being closed-minded, its about having respect for our fellow cerbites. As of late I have been posting my face, I have nothing to lose by showing up but I have the deepest respect for the discretion of my clients and future clients so I woud ask that the next social be discreete and I would ask that the attendedees of this social play by the rules. I will be there by 6pm (as I promised another worker I would go so she would not be arriving solo), and hope that everyone else understands what I'm saying here :-( we're not being paranoid for ourselves, just trying to look out for everyone else's best interests PS the other thread states that the event starts at "5-ish" could we get a consistant timeframe so there are no people showing up too early and waiting around for an hour at 4pm if everyone thinks it starts at 5?