Annessa

ok I understand that and no I didnt see the post that lidsay noted but we all have to think not only about lurkers but something to think about is that some people may have other people following them on here without their knowledge. I remember getting a little annoyed at a social when a member was talking about paying X amount for X girl and how amazing her skills were when the waitress happened to be dropping off our drinks. I gave him an annoyed look and explained to him that discussing stuff like that and then turning to another gal and making plans in a public place was ILLEGAL. Its not really about whos comfortable with what...its really more of a respect thing and I think that us ladies have less to worry about that the guys do in cases like this. That being said, I will be there (as I've just promised another gal that I'll be there if she goes) but I will expect that the next event be private....for everyone's benefit. xo

Carrie raises a really good point here. I mean, if he was the one phoning up the escort asking for sexual favours then it probably would be harder the charge someone legally...I mean, its not like the escort met him in a bar, got him drunk and dragged him to her bedroom, lol I think the moral issue is still there tho, I have carded a young looking client before only to find out that in a few months he would be the same age as me, lol. I would say that the youngest client I have seen was 20, I was skeptical at first but he was upfront in his email to me and very polite. I still favour my 35+ clients tho over someone who is that young. I actually find the experience much easier and less draining when my partner has had the same amount of experience sexually as I have. Age before beauty as they say....and if I get both I'm in heaven, lol ;-)

hehehe...I definitely feel sorry for anyone missing out on Carrie's red lingerie ;-)

ummm...I thought we all agreed that we were going to be changing the location as this thread is visible to the public???

I have to agree with Carrie here...reading most of the replies here the only fight I saw in words was the talk about the tickle-fighting to the point of urination. am I missing something? either way I think you were "expecting" a fight but its not really here dude. its funny because if all the talk of cute guys ticke-fighting their sisters is being regarded as "bitchiness" and "sheilds up" territory no wonder you're having a hard time understanding the point of our ads. sigh. lol

its always better to read a warning than deal with the annoyed gal you would get on the phone if you didnt read the ad completely. I had a potential client call 7 times in a row at 5 minute intervals all from a blocked number...i finally picked up the phone and asked if he was indeed the same caller...he said yes, but I wasn't picking up so he just kept calling. I told him to unblock his number in a less than impressed tone and slammed my phone shut. pretty much from that point on I put the warning about blocked calls in my ad in bold red....along with a request in bold at the beginning of my ad to please read my ad completely. hey, if someone says please....it cant be THAT much of a nag, can it? putting these warnings in our ads also lets guys know why we may not be answering their calls if they are calling from a blocked number. I for one dont like looking like I'm ignoring someone so for me this just explains things.

I would not recommend doing that at all as it may put the SP in an awkward position and make it look like he is trying to barter the agreed price...and, depending on the lady, could get him shown the door, even if he has good intentions. Being upfront about what hes looking for in first communication makes it easier for the lady to decide whether or not she'd like to be put in that situation and is willing to offer only that service. Generally when we speak of girls charging "extras" its frowned upon and if you're not upfront that your prices are the "minimum fee for just showing up" and that each menu item costs more you could be frowned upon more for pulling a bait and switch if men think that your minimum fee is your full fee. I dont want to sound mean but I would be very wary about advertising like that as it could bring you all sorts of headaches :-(

Congrats on your milestone meg! after reading your posts and chatting with you in private, I certainly look forward to meeting you, lady! Have an awesome day! :-)

I'd like to go see Joan Jett and Metric if it fits into my schedule My friends' Band The Powergoats is also playing Bluesfest so I'm gonna have to check that one out :-)

was at my son's school talent-show and the whole cafeteria shook....screaming kids everywhere, lol, they evacuated and calmed the kids down thankfully. my mom was getting her teeth cleaned in a dentist chair and they had to evacuate, lol.....she told me this on the phone later but all i could do was imagine her drooling outside the building amongst the chaos, lol!!!

using the search option and browsing the recommendations section is often a good strategy to finding exactly what you're looking for. good luck!

I dont see it as much of a problem if an SP is accessing her account from another SPs computer, ....I think the real problem that mod was getting at is a member and an SP sharing the same computer looks bad...and i agree with that. I have a question...this is something that i wont repeat in the future but last year I logged on from a client's cell-phone to check my cerb messages as we were on a long outing and wanted to check if i had to go to another appointment after or if I could take my time as I wasn't near a computer to check my cerb inbox. does something like that count too? eep!

mental note: wear mr. potato-head lips on that day...lol time and date are still a go....i do believe the location should change to throw off the lurkers as its already been mentioned publicly

sounds good, you pick a location jazzitup and anyone who wants details can personally PM jazzitup through cerb only. rolled up newspapers or none, its gonna be pretty hard for some lurker to screen every bar in the market looking for a rolled up newspaper in search of cerbites now....muahahahaha

oh! and 1963 Kennedy had a really great idea on how to spot who was from cerb!! he thought about everyone arriving who didnt know how to spot everyone else to carry one of those metro newspapers all rolled up casually in one hand...that way we could easily spot who might be wandering around trying to find the group. what do you guys think? not everyone kows what everyone ele looks like so I thought this was a pretty good idea...especially for when the bar gets busy and its better than us all wearing red hats, lol

mmmmm those are my faves too!

6-ish is perfect for me, i have a gig in the evening so I dont want to go downtown toooo early

you forgot to list who you interact with and who you are simply comfortable with ;-)

bent over... holding sticks...the guys trying to get their balls into holes...sigh, so many jokes to be made sexually about pool, lol I might be able to make it a bit earlier to a June 30th event.

lol yup...thats me every morning, lol

after seeing your BJ skills, Erin, I would almost pay full price just to watch ;-)

to add to what mod said, and it has been said before in a similar thread...theres is a lot more to doing a skilled bj than lying back and getting full service...something to think about. so no i dont think it should be considered less of a service to do a bj than for fs...in fact I know plenty of ladies who jokingly say when asked that they would charge the guy more if asked a question like that

I arrives shortly after 8pm, bassnut was the only one there as the first batch of cerbites had already left, 1963Kennedy joined and so did SprintSheeba.....a nice quiet group over drinks :-)

well said Erin :-)

will anyone still be around at 8pm? yucky rain :-(