Annessa

Sabrina I understand your frustration about not being reviewed but I'm really stunned by this statement. dont let a couple guys who dont write reviews throw out your appreciation for the amazing community we've got going here. True us SPs are here to make a buck...but theres a lot more to it than being on cerb and some of us really do value your input....the SP only section warning for example that you post have been helpful to us and we're not paying you in there..just an example. sabrina I'm sensing a lot of angst in your post and get the feeling that you dont feel like you are getting enough back from something that you are putting effort into, if thats the case from the sessions you are having (and not based on reviews) perhaps its time to take a break? I've known of some SPs to take a bit of a break and deep breaths and come back when they feel they are not sacrificing their time for nothing... and a client that tells you that girls have paid him for reviews...isnt a client you need to see...if he wasn't speaking of himself than I apologize but I have to wonder why anyone would bring that up...if girls even ARE doing that, that is. I've never heard of anyone to pay for a review, thats truly horrible and I certainly hope he wasn't mentioning that to you to see if you would jump on the offer. finally I will add that our presence on the boards here is important, and not to sound mean but if thats the case please try and stay positive...a good review will come, you just have to be patient. I went through a while with no reviews...then again I also had a couple regulars...business will come no matter who reviews you or not is generally what I discovered. wish you all the best and chin up. xo

aw thanks Pete! Carrie Moon is also in on the fun! Its going to be an exciting next few days! hehe

Dorinda and I will be offering duos (based on pre-booking only so please plan in advance) at her south end location Thursday after 8pm Friday between 6:30 and 8pm after 9pm Saturday morning before 11am please keep in mind that while Dorinda will be staying at the location I will not be and I live in the West end of Ottawa so please book with us in advance.

I'd be able to make it at 8pm

this indeed good info for those using skype. show your real number guys! :-)

what time will this run until u think?

was just about to say the same, it shows up as a 000 number which to us is an unknown number..if we cant see a real number we aren't going to answer it as it is just as bad as a blocked call

lol..well those that meet me know that I'm 100 times less tough to put up with in person than the supposed "difficulty" in my posts ;-)...nonetheless...it takes taking that jump to find out, *snicker* opinions have no room in my bedroom play.....lol Thanks for the great comments everyone! xoxoxoxox

thanks! :-)

so last night I realized that I was approaching my 100 post mark by a few posts. Jus wanted to use my 1000th post to say thanks to everyone for putting up with my opinions, typos and overall being here on cerb. many happy posts to the future, and a big thank you to everyone who has so far made this the best summer ever *huggs n Kisses* Your half-Asian-Sensation Annessa :boobies:

its a fun ride...hehe...a ride you dont want to get off...or do want to or uh...lets jus say working with Carrie is awesome, and it shows ;-)

lol agreed...that part had me in stitches :sm185:

OH MY GOD! hahaha...seriously the way you wrote that put the funniest image in my head!!! I had a good laugh out loud to that one Old Dog!! priceless!

peeler, striper, dancer, erotic dancer (i like that one)....what a lady chooses to call herself is her right....the rest is definitely semantics. same goes for hooker, prostitute, escort, whore etc etc...if a lady decides to refer to herself as one and has no issues about being redefined, it shouldnt be up to anyone to correct her. I used to have a problem with some words and now am owning up to the fact that we all are what we are....as long as we are allowed to be called what we want to be called under the right intentions :-)

sorry, the second bar i mentioned in the second paragraph was supposed to be Barefax. the first story about Barb's. when I was allowed to go look for my friend, one of the male bouncers escorted me in...thank goodness my client waved to me. I did notice however once we were seated that many girls passed us by so I ended up being the instigator asking the waitress serving us to grab the attention of X girl that we saw on stage to get her to come to our table for a drink and eventually a couples dance. once they realized we were both there to appreciate the ladies they were a lot warmer....but I can definitely understand the precautions they took, I've known a couple "ladies" in my time who would boast that if they ever found out that if their SO was at a SC they'd march right over there and pull them out....eeeek!!!

my goodness! *slaps forehead*...how could I forget about the duo you and i did once! you were definitely a peach to work with dahrling!! No one can compare to your deep throat skills...but I will say you are so much fun to watch....and the phrase "more than a handful is a waste" doesn't apply when there are 4 hands on you...hehe another thing to add to the thread is to probably keep checking back as the gals on here are bound to meet each other and post updates....stay tuned gents! ;-)

I went to barbs once recently to meet a client and I was stopped at the door because I was by myself. they said it was a recent change however as they had been having some problems lately with some girls coming in and causing trouble...I didnt really ask for a clarification as to what they meant by trouble. I was just happy they let me poke my head in to find my guy, lol I know some girls who go to Barbs without guys...but I think its because they're friends with the staff

this is absolutely awesome meg. Absolutely freakin awesome

she knew I was into swinging with my pre-previous boyfriend a couple years back. just told her that I was keeping tabs on a personals ad site....just in case ;-) ...then I offered to show her MY boobies......jus kiddin ;-)

OMG 8" or more and I'd CHARGE extra! LOL...youch!

hehe I saw this on Ellen too... I dont know who is cuter...the baby, the dog chasing the baby...or ELLEN giggling watching the dog play with the baby..??

lol, I forgot to minimize my cerb window once and my screen-saver came on....well a girlfriend who doesnt know what I do popped over for a surprise visit..i made some ice-tea and we chatted for a bit and then she asked if she could check her facebook. ...totally forgetting that underneath that screen-saver was my open cerb window...she quickly minimized it without saying anything and I was like "whewf!" it was only later that she asked if I was looking at a porn site because she saw boobies on the banners lol

I offered a special for the first time this year for a week ....and I have to say the headache didnt really balance out the slight extra business. I still had clients wanting to bargain lower. I had a client who had to cancel and then expected the same deal the next week. I had potential clients call the next week after the discount and still ask for the same rate as my special claiming I was false-advertising even though they didnt read the "one-week-only" part. the ad was put up to reach a potential goal for something that if I didnt make...then I didnt have to worry...but in the end some saw it as "oh I guess Annessa's not getting any work....eek!" that will definitely be the last time I ever lower my rates. I agree with fortunateone on this one, not only do you bring about more headaches by temporarily changing your rate...you also make it hard for all the other SPs who are sticking to their guns

Dont sweat it...you had a weak moment...and he sounded like a good client, who could blame you? lol however someone once said that we're not paid to be here....we're paid as much as we make to leave. I had a really hot client once in Toronto..he made tonnes of cash but was soooo sweet and had that attractive salt n pepper look...treated me like his girlfriend, like we were on a date etc....I asked him "why on earth would YOU need to hobby?" and he said hated the pressure of dating...hating to call the girl the next day...would basically freeze and never talk to the girl again if she called him the next day etc etc.... in a situation like that...how would the guy feel if he heard from the SP the next day?? lol

Perhaps my last message was misinterpreted. should have summed it up by saying that you can text someone just probably only do it if someone texts you a lot before and if you do text them know that it might be seen as a business plug and keep it friendly as you never know who is watching. in the case of checking up on someone tho be very careful who you do this to as you dont want to blur the boundaries. as fortunate one said, email is best...and far less invasive.