Annessa

"Hi I'd like an hour...whats your rate?" me: "Its $280 for the hour" "how about we make it $120 for half an hour baby?" me: *click* I would have to agree with Carrie Moon that the easiest way to walk away from a situation with a bargain-hunter is to hang up. Thinking back on conversations where "gentlemen" try and tell me that my rates are 'too high" or "higher than the market price" or that my incall rates should be lower than my outcall rates and the feeling I got from exasperating my energy trying to explain the reasonings for my rate and that their knowledge of the "market" price was more than a little misguided primarily from inexperienced workers posting for the weekend on CL......*deep breath!*....well you get the point as to how I felt when I hung up finally after all that. lol. just hang up, no one needs to deal with these idiots, and you'll feel so much better when you do....no deep breaths needed after ;-)

I always try to think that just because a client is single or you think he may be single, theres nothing that says that they could enter a relationship. And if you dont hear from them for a while, that could be the case....therefore texting them or calling might not be well received if their new SOP is the jealous type. I've texted a client back before when he texted me regularly but in the end it only ended up blurring the line between business and friendship, which in turn lead to a total mess. I can definitely understand the urge to text and I understand how rotten it feels when you feel like its being viewed as a plug for business. maybe in that case send an email or a text saying "hi there, this is totally not a plug for business but just wondering how you're doing? hows your summer going?"...no hints of him coming to see you tho or it might be looked at as a cold-call/email....but if you honestly want to know how they're doing I dont see the harm of checking up with a friend, so long as you are respectful to their privacy.

I agree with everyone on this one....very tacky move. Yes this is a business as I always say...but in no way are we "sales-ladies"! LOL, cold-calling was one of the reasons why me and sales didnt get along...a proper business will have repeat clients without having to remind their customers that they exist. I've had clients want me to PM them when I'm providing incalls...but calling is a whole other story! Times are tough for everyone, I'll agree...but calling someone without their permission to do so says your desperate for business. Very unattractive.

I could never be blonde..it would look reeeeally weird, lol. I've had light hair, but the closest I ever came was strawberry blonde...and even then I had black roots after, haha funny tho I think hair color preference is something thats embedded in our brains at an early age...my son only thinks blonde girls are pretty...he once even told me to tell the girl at the macdonalds with the "yellow hair" that she was pretty while he cowered in the back-seat...(yes it was very weird) hes had the same "girlfriend" at school for 2 years and shes a little blonde girl. The kicker? my son is only turning 9 next week!!! argh. I'm guessing I'm going to have to hide all the blondes from him later...somehow I dont think I'll be able to, haha

Hi guys! after some discussion with some of the other ladies, we thought it would be beneficial to have one single thread for the guys to reference who are looking for duos. LADIES: post who you are comfortable interacting sexually with as well as who you have met and would happily service another man with but maybe not interact with as you havent tested those waters. some girls are comfortable with other ladies but might not have the bi-sexual tendencies....however this would open up some doors we think as to if a gent wanted a duo get-together and wouldnt know who knows who :-) MEN: use these guidelines to decide whether you are looking to watch two ladies together and be pleased or just want to be pleased by not one, but two ladies who are comfortable/friends with each other. ok I'll start the ball rolling: I'[m comfortable interacting with Carrie Moon sexually and love to kiss her and snuggle her lovely taa-taas etc etc etc. I will also be doing Duos with SaraMQ (Thunder-Bay) as we have had for-fun threesomes in the past...hehe. I have also met and am comfortable with AngelaOfOttawa, Lovely Dorinda, and Soleil (Winnipeg)

good thread. I enjoy having my nipples sucked and licked so I obviously return the favour...sometimes without being asked if I get the feeling it could go over well. however it is indeed a good idea to trim the hair around the nipples if its long or curly as it can get in the way of accessing the nipples and its a definite mood killer if anyone has to stop to pick a hair of their tongue, lol

there is a secret message for you to unscramble below from me...its a tough one... PAPHY RITHABDY!! hehehehe.....

AWWW Soleil we here in Ottawa are equally LUCKY to have met you! you are just as bubbly and beautiful in person as you are in your posts and pictures. Ottawa waits with bated breath for your return! And I must say i agree with the good words said about the handsome Pistol Pete...a true gentleman that many cerb members can aspire to and a date that any woman should be ecstatic to have :-)

I'm a little late here and I havent read any posts after this one but I do feel what we all said holds water.....carrie herself and many of us said that we agree with social time with trusted clients...at a fee. But this time was to be agreed beforehand as such. "I just want to watch a movie and snuggle" etc....ok, to a trusted client thats a social request to some. however if the client says "we'll watch a movie and talk and see where it goes from there" or I want to kiss and touch etc but no sex at first until I say so and maybe it'll progress to that....well thats what any first date with a new client is anyway...and usually they are happy to pay the full fee when they think that bedroom activities may happen afterwards on a first encounter....even if those activities don't happen because they are so wrapped up in hanging out. when the time is up and you realize that you have both been sitting and laughing, kissing, touching and snuggling for the full agreed time does the girl then turn to the guy and say "oh man...I'm so sorry...we didnt have sex...here's half my fee back." no! final words: movie and hanging out and talking with *maybe* some hair stroking and a hug TO A TRUSTED CLIENT I HAVE MET BEFORE = social time ...to ME (not the same to all ladies) that is movie, making out, LFK DFK, touching inside clothes, makeout-sessions, and the hinting of taking things further (especially with a new client) = pay the full fee at the beginning...or if you get a lady into a situation like that take into consideration that she will leave feeling conned and never answer your calls again once again....very late on this and havent read all the replies but if anyone already said what i said...apologies, just had to get that out before another million pages were accumulated (keep in mind I have edited the parts about attacking members for posting opinions regardless of agreeing with them at the viewing of mod's last post...I will say however that our posts did "hold water" because we all agreed on charged social time....as long as no lines were crossed at the date from the primary agreement. Unfortunately a line was crossed whether he was joking or not...we didnt find it funny.....but then again I think I will keep that to myself.......or start a blog ;-)...and yes I'm joking) I also must say that i can certainly see where Charlotte is coming from with her story.....its very difficult to stick to our rules, but knowing from experience that a situation could turn awkward or even worse put our business and dignity at risk make it all the more easier to put our feet down. Hopefully the good fellows will understand that

I do duos with Carrie Moon.....I call us "gettin the best of both worlds" hehe ;-) (as in I have small boobies and she has BIIIG ones, lol)

it is true. The Delta enforced this policy last summer and to my knowledge still does. You aren't allowed to stay there if you are from Ottawa or even Gatineau....no matter what your reason for staying at a hotel is.

I Love Diana Krall.... I had a session where I was totally into this Disney cartoons favorites compilation and for some reason he couldnt cum......I'll never know why. and yes I'm joking, LOL

I live almost 60% of the time as Annessa (corresponding to emails, answering the phone, at a date etc...) and the rest as my real name...it has become every bit a part of me as my own name....I said once before that i even turn around when I hear someone call out "Vannessa!" to someone else on the street, lol I still react when I'm hanging out with my SP friends and someone new is introduced and I hear someone address me by my work name......its all the same. I have even on occasion almost signed emails quickly as "Annessa" instead of my own name (which also starts with an A) to personal emails...phewf! in the beginning, almost 2 years ago obviously it was strange but I even have a couple clients that through travel etc have learned my real name....but I still prefer them to call me by my work name....as it feels strange to change how someone has been lovingly addressing me up to that point. for the gents.... It is actually very hard to keep note of everyones name...especially if your name is Bill but you email from a hobby-email address you've created that lists you as "joe Smith" I sometimes need to remind myself to reference their signature to the email instead of getting excited that "joe" has emailed me when I see the name pop up in my inbox....thats the only thing (besides a gent using a fake name) that plays with my memory

dont worry Erin...many got tired including Angela and it ended up just being me at Karaoke (which was my plan anyway to be out so its allll good!)....we are planning for something potentially tomorrow night if you're around! Happy Birthday Angela! I will see YOu later missy! Thank you so much for being a part of an amazing group of gals I have grown so close to....the girls nights rock! and so do you! xoxoxo

did anyone else get a giggle at the fact that the thread "Cup Size" pops up right below this one? hehehehe

exactly :-)

So the past few days have been scorching and it looks like it was just a sample of what we're supposed to be getting this summer. as someone who doesnt have air-conditioning, I've had some people share some tips about how to beat the sizzling weather. what do you do? personally before bed I spritz a couple small pillows and put them in the freezer. I spritz my bed and put the fan blowing on it for about a half hour before bed...at bed-time I sleep on top of the covers and get the pillows from my freezer. Once I slept curled up with Freezies after a cold shower,...until I had to stop doing that when I rolled over on a melted one in the middle of the night and it leaked all over my bed :-(

head-cheese, tripe...pretty much anything that contains innards...it doesn't matter how its cooked, just knowing thats what it is is enough to make me run to the washroom covering my mouth, lol

Iris and Orchids...my grandfather on my mom's side used to be an orchid farmer in Thailand...could raise them from clippings etc. I wish he was still alive as i cant get one to last more than a few months in my house :-(

lol dont fret guys, hes probably the guy that goes on a date with a woman and tries to make an impression on her by saying the girl he dated before was totally awesome so she should pick up the pace....;-) too funny...

I would have to agree with just being upfront about your concearn that you look young. Also, I find the main reason some ladies dont like seeing younger clients is because there are some real disrespectful guys out there who aren't very polite or as well mannered as some of our older clients. so if you are upfront, polite, respectful and kind to your lady your age shouldnt be an issue (as long as you bring iD, lol) :-) good luck!

whoops.....double post

I've been told by numerous people that I look like Phoebe Cates from Fast times at Ridgemont High....I put on a client's glasses this week to be goofy and he said it reminded him of Tia Carerra when she was on the show Relic Hunter :-)

"Ladies: I'm ready NOW, first one here wins...aaaaand GO!" "Best ways to get BJ-milage that isn't offered by a lady at a SC?"

this are all hillarious! gonna have to put my thinking cap on now to top these! lol